What pissed you off today? Mark III

[ADIDAS00]

WTF? Seriously? I can't be on social media and here without being available to men like you?

You have a picture of your ass in a skirt on your profile picture. C’mon, you’re better than that

 

[Somethingdifferent74]

Susan the bitch (My GPS). She sent me to wrong address I c&p'd to her

 

[BiBunny]

You have a picture of your ass in a skirt on your profile picture. C’mon, you’re better than that

I don't give a fuck if she's butt-ass naked. It's still not an open invitation for men to annoy her, especially if she's said she doesn't want them to.

 

[UCanBLeafinMe]

You have a picture of your ass in a skirt on your profile picture. C’mon, you’re better than that

NO means no!
Is your ego so fragile that a bisexual/lesbian leaning woman shows off her ass, one that's like this after two children, does NOT want to talk with you and other men?

 

[MeekMe]

You have a picture of your ass in a skirt on your profile picture. C’mon, you’re better than that

Better than that? What do you mean? Better than talking to you?

No person owes you conversation or more just because they’re here. An avatar is not consent. A literotica account is NOT consent. Being in social media is NOT consent.

Your comment is exactly why many of the women here (and across the internet) use ambiguously gendered names, icons, and forms of speech. We can’t exist in peace without an asshole like you treating our existence here as consent for your nonconsensual bullshit. Fuck. Right. Off.

 

[IrisAlthea]

So, you don’t want men to talk to you….yet, you’re on a social media platform that is filled with guys looking for women to talk to. I’m not trying to be mean, but wtf?!?!

I know, right.
You’d think all those guys would hang out at a dating/hookup site or one of those chat phone numbers or at least stick to the personals section, if that is their primary goal.

 

[Wonderer67]

Poison ivy. Covered head arms and legs.

Must’ve been on the wood I was splitting.

 

[jaF0]

Woke up.

Always a bad start to a day.

 

[RjThoughts]

Cat #2 waking me up at 5AM because he wanted ice in the water
Cats #1 and #2 waking me up at 6 because they wanted treats
Cat #3 nibbling on me because I was ignoring him

And to think I love them

 

[Bramblethorn]

So, you don’t want men to talk to you….yet, you’re on a social media platform that is filled with guys looking for women to talk to. I’m not trying to be mean, but wtf?!?!

Think of it like trying to have a nice barbecue outside when there are mosquitos around. Just because you know they're going to be there doesn't mean they're welcome.

 

[ADIDAS00]

Think of it like trying to have a nice barbecue outside when there are mosquitos around. Just because you know they're going to be there doesn't mean they're welcome.

That’s a great analogy. Having said that, you don’t put on mosquito attractor and then complain that their flocking around you. You’d use a repellent.

 

[Lady2020]

Waking up from a nightmare thinking "the power of the state" over and over.

 

[Bramblethorn]

That’s a great analogy. Having said that, you don’t put on mosquito attractor and then complain that their flocking around you.

Well, if you like that analogy... One of the things many people like to do at barbecues is drinking beer. You know what makes you more attractive to some kinds of mosquitoes? Drinking beer.

It still doesn't mean that people who drink want to be pestered by mosquitoes. It just means that not everybody approaches every decision from the perspective of "what are the mosquitoes going to think about this?"

Not every decision that a woman makes is for the sake of male reaction, even when that decision involves how to present publicly.

(And it's not like a "modest" user icon and profile is any guarantee of being left in peace.)

You’d use a repellent.

Cool. What is the method that a woman uses to repel unwanted advances from horny dudes, without inviting abuse for being "frigid" or "bitchy" or any of the other things that get thrown at women for saying no?

Her sig specifically invites women (and not men) to share photos with her. Is that not enough of a hint?

 

[ADIDAS00]

WPMOT
….Whiny women

 

[MeekMe]

Well, if you like that analogy... One of the things many people like to do at barbecues is drinking beer. You know what makes you more attractive to some kinds of mosquitoes? Drinking beer.

It still doesn't mean that people who drink want to be pestered by mosquitoes. It just means that not everybody approaches every decision from the perspective of "what are the mosquitoes going to think about this?"

Not every decision that a woman makes is for the sake of male reaction, even when that decision involves how to present publicly.

(And it's not like a "modest" user icon and profile is any guarantee of being left in peace.)



Cool. What is the method that a woman uses to repel unwanted advances from horny dudes, without inviting abuse for being "frigid" or "bitchy" or any of the other things that get thrown at women for saying no?

Her sig specifically invites women (and not men) to share photos with her. Is that not enough of a hint?

Gotta love when men say women have to police themselves because men can’t control themselves.

Perfect example here in this thread. “You shouldn’t dress that way because I’m not fit to live in society and conduct myself appropriately when you do that.”

 

[twister947]

WPMOT
….Whiny women

Dude. Read the room.

 

[Moochienanu]

WPMOT
….Whiny women

WPMOT?
Whiny men.
Men who don’t understand I’m not interested.
Men who can’t understand I’m coupled and happy.
Men who want to think I’m poly so I can fuck them.
Men who don’t understand what poly means.
Men who don’t want to see a woman who want nothing to do with them.
Men who are blind to what a woman actually wants or needs.
Men who need to sit down and shut up.
Men who get upset when I tell them what they don’t want to hear.
Men who can’t take a joke.
Men who misinterpret a woman’s intentions.
Men who think everything a woman does is for them.
Basically
Just
Whiny men.

 

[IrisAlthea]

Well, if you like that analogy... One of the things many people like to do at barbecues is drinking beer. You know what makes you more attractive to some kinds of mosquitoes? Drinking beer.

It still doesn't mean that people who drink want to be pestered by mosquitoes. It just means that not everybody approaches every decision from the perspective of "what are the mosquitoes going to think about this?"

I was going to ask if he barbecues in the dark, but your analogy isbetter because it has beer.

 

[RjThoughts]

Arthritis!
Fucking shit makes me sweat when I just go to the printer at the office!

 

[Photog1rl]

Poison ivy. Covered head arms and legs.

Must’ve been on the wood I was splitting.

Never fun!

 

[Photog1rl]

That’s a great analogy. Having said that, you don’t put on mosquito attractor and then complain that their flocking around you. You’d use a repellent.

Sure but it’s just an analogy and in theory men are capable of higher level thinking and mosquitoes are not.

 

[jaF0]

Woke up.

Always a bad start to a day.

Redux.

 

[jaF0]

Sure but it’s just an analogy and in theory men are capable of higher level thinking and mosquitoes are not.

Not all theories are valid.

 

[Photog1rl]

Not all theories are valid.

So very true!

 

[Photog1rl]

The timing of me finding this thread is perfect! I mean maybe I’m the asshole but what pissed me off today is a person sending me a PM last night and then sending another one trying to guilt me into responding.
First off, it’s been less than 24 hours since their original message to me. Second, I do my best to reply to the messages I get but I can’t always do it or do it in a timely manner and often times when I do respond in a way that is polite but does not engage more conversation it isn’t understood as that.
Then when I try to explain to the person how their messages came across they get defensive and still try to treat me like the jerk.
I’m not into ghosting folks but does every PM get a response from you?

Edited to add-they just responded with “we are going to have to agree to disagree.” What the actual what??? I’m telling you how your unsolicited message made me feel and you think agreeing to disagree is a response? Way to completely dismiss the opinion of someone you were supposedly trying to engage with. Tell me you don’t care what I think without telling me you don’t care what I think