KoPilot
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Thank you, Loverskitten. You said yes, and you gave me your reason why it bothers you. I appreciate that, and I apologise for the offense.
You are quite right; "Tranny" is very similar to the "N" word. Drag queens and cross dressers and their friends may use it among themselves. I am not and never have been a tranny, I am trans gendered. It's not a matter of cross dressing. Furthermore, I, and my friend, are trans MEN, not trans WOMEN. Most trans men, who have lived their lives in female bodies already-- feel about as far away from "tranny" as it's possible to get.
Maybe, calling people out when they use an offensive word is the best approach-- when they are the kind of people who care. People who believe that trans folk are sinners who will burn in hell and it serves them right-- they don't care very much about offending anyone. They are absolutely offended by the fact that we exist despite their big book. Remember, they also called my friend a whore.
There are real genuine reasons why so many minorities have become so thinskinned. The kinds of persecution trans people, blacks, gays, have faced and DO face, right now-- it's not just someone saying they think belief in god is unnecessary. "Tranny"and "faggot," like "Nigger" in the mouths of those who are not-- is as likely to be the prelude to a beating. Trans people get killed for being trans. Trans men, especially-- get raped, to teach them that they are still and always women.
(IMO, it's good that many comics walk on eggshells. Unfortunately, the ones that don't care-- they are the kind that think hatefulness is funny, and they cater to the hateful. They are the reason your comic friends walk on eggshells, and once more-- moderate comedians might think about speaking up, because otherwise we, who are the butt of these jokes, will. And we would rather not hear any of that shit from people who don't know us, who don't care about us. Laugh at yourself. You know and care about you.)
Now folks, you probably do not understand this, but I am not angry at these church members and their word choices. It's what they do. They get rewarded, by each other, for that kind of talk. I might as well be angry at jackasses for braying, at bulls for shitting, at pigs for oinking.
What made me angry was the way in which several other trans people rushed to defend themselves as Christians from an accusation which was not made about them as Christians. It was made about a particular subsect of Christianity. These people did not deny that fundies are likely to behave this way, they did not try to explain or excuse the fundamentalist church in question. However, self-protection from an adjacent opinion, so to speak, was their first impulse instead of, as Primalux pointed out, showing compassion and acknowledging what had happened, and frankly I find that appalling, that's my opinion about that kind of behavior. It pissed me off. So, I show up in this little backwater thread to vent for a moment.
And thus was born this stupid man's belief that I am a hater of everything and everyone.
No, I will not "shake hands" with DVS. My dislike of him is purely personal, though-- not because he is a member of any sort of group.
Even though watching an atheist duke it out with a christian is one of life's little pleasures, Stella is absolutely spot on here.
Oh, and if your friends are butthurt because they can't make actual persecuted minorities (no, the """war""" on xmas doesn't count, and yes I will spell it that way all I want because I was raised christian too and no one gave a fuck) the punchlines to jokes, which takes about as much intelligence and skill as shooting a caged game animal, then not only are they shitty comics, but they're assholes.