What turns you on about other men?

[DevilOrAngel]

I find a bi man is just really more sexually open to most anything I would want to do with or to him

Grins it just brings out my naughty side even more to know i could enjoy his backdoor with my strap on while I'm being pumped full of cream into my own backside by his friend

 

[sterculius]

It seems like a lot of people in this forum are bi men, or bi-curious. I was wondering, what is it that makes you interested in fucking other guys? Is it the idea of being feminine? Being submissive? Just that cocks drive you crazy? Desire to do something that a lot of people would find "naughty" or kinky? Just "curious"!

Interesting point!! In my case, my ONLY interest in men is that I love sucking cock!! I have NO desire to kiss, cuddle or have any emotional involvement with another guy. I just enjoy being a cocksucker. In all other respects, I'm a normal, heterosexual guy who is extremely turned on by a sexy looking woman. I first discovered my passion for cocksucking when as teenagers, my best friend and I had an extended suckbuddy relationship where I would blow him daily for about two years. It started out being mutual, but as we both realized how much I preferred blowing him, it evolved into just me sucking his cock. Although I'm married, I still manage to suck the occasional cock.

 

[subrosa6]

it's the hard one...

I've given it a lot of thought. I'm attracted to other men because a hard penis is totally unambiguous. It speaks for itself. I have one too, so I know just what it feels like, what feels good. It turns me on to know I made it hard. I love the feel of it. A hard penis is there for only one reason, and there is only one thing to do with it.

 

[malecasual]

What gets me going is the idea of our fucking/sucking/jerking around being taboo, and the idea that I can use the other guy as a complete slut. No having to buy dinner after, no cuddling, just pure, hot getting off

 

[ted_cinti]

I can only speak for myself. The sight of a hard cock is very erotic to me. Touching and sucking
and swallowing follows.

ted ~ cincinnati

 

[subrosa6]

After reading through all the responses again, I realize there are many different aspects to my same-sex attraction. Bottom line is that a hard penis speaks for itself, and in turn, arouses me no end. Yet there is part of me that understands submissiveness. I acknowledge a feminine side that wants to be dominated, pushed down on the bed and presented with a cock to bring to orgasm. When that happens, I know the penis is hard because I made it that way. And I know exactly what I want to do with its satiny hardness. For whatever reasons, I do know the sight and feel of a hard penis literally makes my mouth water with desire. I imagine all of this is familiar to any man who loves to suck cock.

 

[ilike2try]

I find there are many attractions with respect to men's bodies, but when you get right down to it, I'm fascinated by male semen itself: the fact that it is an individual's seed -- a pure distillation of himself. The way in which it is produced in a man's body and the manner in which it is delivered, either to a woman's ovum, into a hungry mouth, or wherever it's headed... I find that endlessly intriguing.

The taste (or variation in taste, as each man's is unique) is one of the most powerful stimulants I know of. I love the warmth of it when it is fresh blended from the prostate and testicles and shot onto my tongue. I love the slippery consistency and texture, and the way it feels when it's going down my throat... not to mention the way I can feel traces of it lingering there for a good while after I have eaten it.

The fact that a man's penis is so readily suckable, and that one may swallow a male ejaculation, is an incredible turn on to me. I also enjoy the feel of a man's whisker stubble as I am making out with him. A minor thing, but, to me, a pleasureable sensation.

 

[carryonmyfriend]

Once, after riding my lover until he filled me with cum I got up, felt slippery semen dripping down the inside of my ass and thighs and knew, as I was walking down the hallway towards the kitchen, that he was watching my ass cheeks slip against each other as I took my time sauntering to get a cold drink. That's the first time I'd felt truly sexy even after all the women I'd been with. How odd.

 

[blue234]

women are beautiful goddesses. but a man's body is built for sex. seeing an erect man tells you exactly what he's thinking about. now that is sexy.

 

[Rider500]

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[texharley]

What turns me on............A nice hard cock, seeing it and knowing I'll be sucking it in a few seconds.................

I love women and a pussy is great but there i sjust something about a hard dick that just begs to be sucked. It has been 40 years but I still remember how good a hard dick feels in my mouth.

 

[eddieq]

The sight of a hard cock makes me want to drop to my knees and suck till I get my reward of hot cum.I've always loved cock even tho I've been married to a woman for 30 years I love being on my hands and knees with a cock slamming my ass too!

 

[guy_thing60]

Being with a guy who knows what I want and knows what he wants. He wants to get his hard cock into me, and I want to let him. He knows that he can't get off without me, and appreciates the fact that I am letting his cock into my body.

<<<stuff deleted>>>Now I just let things happen and try to read the other; things tend to fall into place

 

[bleachb]

^^Same as that guy.

I enjoy both genders for their differences, so for men, it is masculinity which I find the biggest turn on. I'm a generally masculine guy, outwardly, but I do have a feminine side as well. Gay sex is mainly about exploring that part of my psyche.
The taboo aspect makes it even hotter.

 

[Little Bird]

I'm really interested in androgynous men.
And androgynous women as well.
Guess I'm looking for someone who feels like me.

 

[rosenguns]

MWM Bicurious

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[nolaboy]

cock, pure and simple

I'm not gay because i don't feel any emotional attachment to men...my attraction isn't about their smile, their eyes, their personality (not that I am downplaying that at ALL)...no, for me it's 100% about the cock. I love the feeling of jacking a cock and watching as his body jerks just before orgasm...i love watching his cock spurt cum and thinking to myself "YES!!...I did that!!"

I haven't ever let a guy cum in my mouth before without a condom but am looking for a safe, steady buddy to do it with.

 

[randodo]

I love serving cocks

I simply love to become totally immersed in pleasing a man's cock. I love to touch it, admire it, lick it and suck it gently and more vigorously. If the man wants to fuck my throat, that is what my throat was made to do. If cocks weren't meant to be sucked they wouldn't feel so perfect in my mouth (or mine feel so good in the mouth of a woman or a man).

Being naked and at a man's disposal for his enjoyment is very enjoyable for me as well - indeed I'm not sure who has the most fun because I just can't get enough cock when I'm in the mood!

I will lick and caress my man or men anywhere else that makes them feel good and worshipped, but there is certainly something special about a cock!

 

[bisexualsmoker]

I've given it a lot of thought. I'm attracted to other men because a hard penis is totally unambiguous. It speaks for itself.

I find a hard cock on a transsexual man beautifully ambiguous.

The feel of a hard cock ejaculating inside me, filling me with hot, thick cum. I get hard just thinking of it.

Absolutely true.

I'm really interested in androgynous men.
And androgynous women as well.
Guess I'm looking for someone who feels like me.

That say's it all.

 

[raffi_sandoval]

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[Hitchiker69]

Double your chances

For me it's the fact that men offer another whole world of sexuality. I can enjoy a man fully as much as I do a woman, but in completely different ways. I learned to enjoy hard muscles, hairy legs and hard cocks.

Depending on the chemistry we can either kiss and embrace, or not. I can yield to him, or take control and use him, or we can share and be more equal partners, satisfying each other in turn.

Plus men have much smaller, tighter buns, making anal sex incredible! And hard cocks are just too delicious to ignore. It is simply entrancing.

I'm attracted to several types; small feminine pretty men, as well as large hunks. In the end it's all about chemistry, more than appearances.

 

[deviant_desires]

Depends on the man

For me, it wholly depends on the age of the man.

When it comes to younger men, I love the ones that can be especially submissive, feminine, and willing (often even more so then most women I know). Though I generally don't go much by appearance, it's a real turn-on when a younger guy has a lean, girly appearance, which makes me want to dress them up and bugger them. . Overall, in this case, its the promise of urgent and uncompromising sex.

In older men, I prefer them to more dominant, or, at the least, quite confident. Since I don't expect older generations to have gay/bi tendencies, when I do find one, I find it very kinky, and thus feel obliged to help him fulfill his desires. In this instance, I feel submissive and want to give in, rather than dominate as is my won't with younger. I guess overall, its all about the power-play mechanics in this case.

Overall, I find the honesty of desire pretty much the winning factor in both cases - there is little room for doubt that sex is on the menu with little else in mind. Also I get off on the idea of the taboo side of it all, and that I'm breaking conceptions for my (and his) personal pleasure.

 

[ars_amatoria]

After reading through all the responses again, I realize there are many different aspects to my same-sex attraction. Bottom line is that a hard penis speaks for itself, and in turn, arouses me no end. Yet there is part of me that understands submissiveness. I acknowledge a feminine side that wants to be dominated, pushed down on the bed and presented with a cock to bring to orgasm. When that happens, I know the penis is hard because I made it that way. And I know exactly what I want to do with its satiny hardness. For whatever reasons, I do know the sight and feel of a hard penis literally makes my mouth water with desire. I imagine all of this is familiar to any man who loves to suck cock.

Wow, did you read my mind? I feel exactly the same way. I've even had the debate within my mind as to whether the part of me that wants to submit to a partner's desire is a "feminine" side. I'm a hairy, thick guy who works out pretty regularly, so "feminine" wasn't the first word that comes to most people's minds about me, and except for one hot episode where a lover more or less demanded that I wear a garter belt, stockings, and heels that didn't fit, I have no experience cross-dressing and no desire to try it.

But "feminine" in the sense of being the receptive one, the object of desire, the seducter (seductress?)? Yeah, I could wrap my mind around that one.

 

[ars_amatoria]

For me, it wholly depends on the age of the man.

When it comes to younger men, I love the ones that can be especially submissive, feminine, and willing (often even more so then most women I know). Though I generally don't go much by appearance, it's a real turn-on when a younger guy has a lean, girly appearance, which makes me want to dress them up and bugger them. . Overall, in this case, its the promise of urgent and uncompromising sex.

In older men, I prefer them to more dominant, or, at the least, quite confident. Since I don't expect older generations to have gay/bi tendencies, when I do find one, I find it very kinky, and thus feel obliged to help him fulfill his desires. In this instance, I feel submissive and want to give in, rather than dominate as is my won't with younger. I guess overall, its all about the power-play mechanics in this case.

Overall, I find the honesty of desire pretty much the winning factor in both cases - there is little room for doubt that sex is on the menu with little else in mind. Also I get off on the idea of the taboo side of it all, and that I'm breaking conceptions for my (and his) personal pleasure.

First, I love your openness and lively mind. You sound quite the sexual adept, and you're absolutely spot-on about the power dynamics of any sexual encounter. I envy the men who become your lovers.

I wanted to tell you, though, that there's a growing subculture of men who've spent their younger lives in traditional married roles, but came out in midlife or later-- and even without the gay/bi thing, any dominatrix can tell you that the primary sources for her clientele are wealthy, powerful, and of course older men. Check out a site called "silverdaddies.com" to see this in action. The site started as a hookup place for older and younger men to meet each other but has morphed, almost totally, into a place where older men seek each other, for a wide variety of encounters.

More personally, I am assertive, sometimes even aggressive in daily life when need be (I practice trial law). I also know what I like sexually and have become, if not "openly" bisexual, then at least open to a far wider set of possibilities, including having a long-term gay lover. It fills a deep need I didn't know I had to be able to be the object of his desire. The difference between me now and, say, me 30 years ago is that now, I know that that is just one part of my sexmap. There are times I want to push a lover down and fuck him/her, just do nothing but satisfy my immediate lust. That urge is made rounder and more exciting by the experience of just what it feels like to be on the other side.

 

[imnotgettinany]

I have no particular attraction to men, but even before i admitted to myself that I wanted to suck and be sucked by aother man, the part I enjoyed most when watching porn movies was the part where the guy get the BJ and thinking "that looks great and Id like to try that"..................besides..... why whould the females have all the fun