What's up with this? Calling all "straight but..." guys and gals!

[romantic_always]

Labels are ridiculous. We are all just 'sexual.' I have never been with a woman or wanted to be with a woman, but I can be turned on by watching a woman (with a man) in porn or reading about a woman's body or sexual experiences in stories. For me, I think I get turned on by that because I imagine this being done to me or feeling that way with a man.

There is a little bit of curiosity in every person. Otherwise, straight men would only watch women/women porn because there would be cocks in it otherwise, and vise versa for women. I consider myself straight because I don't fantasize about women but am not repelled by the idea of two women together. I just don't see me with a woman ever. I love the dick.

 

[sterculius]

When the sex is very good, I lose my sense of self and I become acutely aware of what my partner is feeling in response to my movements as if we were one person. At those moments, there is no gender, just one common nerve ending feeling everything.

 

[JHarrison01]

I look at sexual preference as a spectrum that ranges from 0 to 100. You can choose what is 0 and what is 100, but for this example, let's assume
0 = totally gay with no interest or attraction to the opposite sex
100 = totally straight with no interest or attraction in the same sex

Here's where I fall


http://tickers.TickerFactory.com/ezt/t/wRvYEdX/fundraising.png

 

[iswallowloads]

I look at sexual preference as a spectrum that ranges from 0 to 100. You can choose what is 0 and what is 100, but for this example, let's assume
0 = totally gay with no interest or attraction to the opposite sex
100 = totally straight with no interest or attraction in the same sex

Here's where I fall


http://tickers.TickerFactory.com/ezt/t/wRvYEdX/fundraising.png

Nice graphic. I have no idea where'd I'd fit on that scale.

Let's see. I love women and literally adore everything about femininity. But also love being a man just as much. Yet, not attracted to masculinity one bit. If I see a picture of a naked man, it does absolutely nothing for me until... I see that one part that just drives me crazy with lust.

I'm not interested in anal sex in any form unless it's with a transexual (have given and received more than once, to and from both men and women, no trannies yet), tried crossdressing once and it did nothing for me as well.

So, I don't know. I'd say I'm about a 1.5 on the Kinsey Scale, which is 0 = hetero, 6 = homo. (100/6)1.5 = 25.000001. Yeah, I'll go with that.

 

[sterculius]

In what way are women lucky? It's much easier for a man to suck himself off than a woman, so I assume that's not what you meant.

Women are fortunate on a number of levels. For one thing, they are beautiful. Not necessarily in a pornstar or model way but the female form is like a sculpture whereas most guys are kinda dorky. women are also able to get laid and they can suck cock whenever they want.

 

[sterculius]

http://www.cleansheets.com/coverstories/galarza_01.04.06.shtml Has this article been introduced in this discussion? It explains my position perfectly.

 

[nolaboy]

This IS a great thread...

ok, my two cents worth...I fall within the "straight but" category too. I cant imagine myself becoming emotionally attached to another man and since sex is more than just cumming, i consider the emotional orientation essential to the equation. I married my soul-mate and am perfectly happy with her. She's the ying to my yang (and she has a fantastic ying! ).

my bisexuality comes strictly and almost exclusively from cock. I like playing with them, i love watching cum spurt out of them and thinking to myself "Ha! I did that!"

 

[rosenguns]

I agree

I think the same thing...its all about the cock to cock action...hmm and the spurting too!

 

[Sterling]

For me, I consider myself straight.

I'm not attracted to guys for pair-bonding, and I'm not really that physically attracted to anything but their cocks... I'm attracted to sex with men.

So, I'm a straight man as I pursue women for pair-bonded relationships.

 

[XxyyX]

I am very much attracted to women, and love pussy, its awesome. But I also love sucking cock and swallowing sweet cum. I am not attracted to men though, but very attracted to cock.

 

[goldenknights54]

I am very much attracted to women, and love pussy, its awesome. But I also love sucking cock and swallowing sweet cum. I am not attracted to men though, but very attracted to cock.

me too..... love my wife but want to suck a cock.

 

[lc69hunter]

Just took the Klein Sexual Orientation Test/Grid. It say I am Bi: mostly heterosexual

 

[lc69hunter]

I have very strong opinions (doesn't mean I am right) on this topic, based upon many years of living and learning. I believe that the labels, gay, bi, or straight, have to do with relationship preferences, and not sexual activity. Now there is a strong correlation but nowhere near 100%. And in a threesome, foursome or moresome, labels are irrelevant and should not apply at all. I will give you some examples from real life (mine). Also, my ex probably liked pussy almost as much as she liked cock. However, she was very blunt that if she ever tried a relationship with a woman, in six months she would be in jail, either for murder or domestic violence.

In my earlier days, I spent better than 20 years involved in the cuckold lifestyle, and during that time, I had many husbands suck my cock, and also fucked more than a few. I never considered myself bi, and told the husbands afterwards that it didn't necessarily make them gay or bi, but just opened up a new experience with their wives who thought it was hot.

On the personal side, in multiperson interactions, I may have sucked a cock or two (BTW, for those curious, it is the same skill set as going down on a woman just different hardware.). One short funny story. My ex and I were having a swap relationship with another couple. We had hooked up maybe four times, and the next time, the wives kept giggling and looking our way. After dinner, they sat on the couch and laid it out. No more girl girl action, and, you guys are cut off, until we see some guy/guy action out of you two. You figure out how you are going to do it and we will be waiting. I knew that his wife had been pegging him, so I said, let's give them a real gay type show. So I bent him over the back of the couch, fucked him, squeezing his balls to keep him from coming, emptied my load into his ass. I immediately pulled out, flipped him around and ATM'd him, then went down and gave him a blowjob a French whore would have been proud of. The wives went crazy