Why do guys like to come in the mouth?

[M's girl]

It's not as messy as cumming in their hands??

Well........


....... that depends...... where you aim it at...

 

[bethalicious]

Well........


....... that depends...... where you aim it at...

Very true and if we're lucky he has such a big load we can't swallow it fast enough and then the cum running out the sides of our mouth makes for a really lovely mess.

 

[Fellatio Lover]

Very true and if we're lucky he has such a big load we can't swallow it fast enough and then the cum running out the sides of our mouth makes for a really lovely mess.

For a GREAT visual on this check out ...debsdeepthroat.com.......!!!

 

[WriterDom]

I love a woman who LOVES it. But I wouldn't call it a deal breaker if she has issues. A bad first experience with some pimple faced 16 year old dude in the back seat of a car can ruin it for life for some women.

 

[PeachBlossom]

Personally I don't think it's the same. Depending of course on if a woman squirts maybe...

I don't, I'm plenty wet but nothing ever gushes out so it's not like my man finds himself all of a sudden with a mouth full (although.... he gives me oral sometimes after he has cum after PIV sex )

Anyway... it's not the same experience where you have to deal with a mouth full of stuff. Still, I don't mind and depending on my mood I will either swallow or have it drip down my chin for the visual effect ........ which is the same as having him cum on my face so I don't mind that either (just mind the eyes please).

I agree, it's not the same. Precum would be a much closer comparison when you take into account thickness and texture. Sometimes a guy's cum can be quite thick (sort of like phlegm or snot - never heard anyone say they enjoyed phlegm - in fact, most people with colds complain of it.) and other times it can be of a thinner consistency that goes down nice and easy. I have also noticed the longer I let it linger in my mouth, the thicker it becomes. That stuff seems to congeal when it hits air, water or saliva. So I try to lick it up and swallow fast. And the more turned on I am, the more likely I'll want to swallow it. If it's a quickie, less likely so.

 

[rcuhljr]

Well I'll toss out a thought I had. Whenever a thread comes up like "What makes the blowjob" or "who gives better head, guys or girls" The common result is almost always "The best head comes from someone who enjoys what they are doing" It could just be that for a guy this is just another sign of how much his lover is enjoying giving him pleasure.

 

[Tantrimancer]

I agree, it's not the same. Precum would be a much closer comparison when you take into account thickness and texture. Sometimes a guy's cum can be quite thick (sort of like phlegm or snot - never heard anyone say they enjoyed phlegm - in fact, most people with colds complain of it.) and other times it can be of a thinner consistency that goes down nice and easy. I have also noticed the longer I let it linger in my mouth, the thicker it becomes. That stuff seems to congeal when it hits air, water or saliva. So I try to lick it up and swallow fast. And the more turned on I am, the more likely I'll want to swallow it. If it's a quickie, less likely so.

You're right. . .it DOES congeal quickly on contact with anything other than skin. I haven't noticed how fast it congeals in the air, but in the shower or bathtub, it quickly turns into a stringy, hard-to-remove mess (which is why I don't masturbate in the shower anymore; it gets stuck in the pubes and is hard to get out).

Spitting it out. . .eh, depends on how it's done. Quietly and wuickly into a tissue or what-have-you would get rid of the evidence without ruining the mood for further activity, but a loud "EWWWWWWWWW!" and spitting like a champion Skoal user woould pretty much ruin the evening. *s*

Tantri

 

[Fellatio Lover]

For me, there's nothing that feels better than a moist, warm, slippery mouth and tongue. I forever have the image of a pair of enthusiastic FULL, pouty lips plunging full-length up and down on my shaft until I explode from visual and sensual overload!!

 

[TBKahuna123]

Very true and if we're lucky he has such a big load we can't swallow it fast enough and then the cum running out the sides of our mouth makes for a really lovely mess.

I don't know why, but this visual sounds much more sensual then seeing some woman with a big glob slattered across the side of her face. Why do you think the subtle difference?

 

[M's girl]

I don't know why, but this visual sounds much more sensual then seeing some woman with a big glob slattered across the side of her face. Why do you think the subtle difference?

May I answer?

Nothing subtle about it. A big glob across the side of the face is just that, or in the bad case scenario it's wrongly aimed....

Now, cum running over lips (even if it was not that much ) says there was too much to swallow all at once.... no? Plus it just looks sexy.

 

[BigFatMeat]

Based off what guys have told me before during or after I'm down there, it's a visual turn on for them to watch me taking that load, and swallowing, I think that is the biggest thrill for them.

It sure is. We like to look down and see a woman submitting to us and our load. We get drunk being in that position of power coupled with our orgasm... it's a pretty powerful combination. It usually fades, though.

 

[hippyfreak]

cumming in her mouth: yeah it feels great, but as others said i think alot (most?) of it is about power. all sex has some power issues involved, and those issues are alot more obvious in oral. a real giver/reciever situation. the whole idea of a woman as submissive reciever/i'll take anything my man gives me/i'm here for his pleasure/ recepticle is a serious turn on for me (and most guys i assume) my SO loves giving me a bj and taking my cum anywhere (cept the eyes) so i've given her plenty of mouthfulls as well as facials. the facial is a big visual turn on for me for the same reasons above, but i'm not as into them as i was. mainly it the knowing she'd let me do that to her. again its the submissive nature of the act. once i had seen her lovely face covered in my cum i could visualize it and still get the full sensation of finishing in whichever hole i'm in. basicly i'm a lucky motherfucker to have a woman who likes being "used." and it does work both ways, i love to give oral and be there for nothing other than to get her off however she wants. oh i also love the sloppy kisses after oral either way. that tells us both that the "using" of the other is kinda just a game and we are intimate and loving and equal.

 

[rosebud5446]

For a GREAT visual on this check out ...debsdeepthroat.com.......!!!

wow! i would love to be able to deepthroat that well! stick that giant cock in her throat and still lick the balls? damn!

 

[scarey123]

For me it's a more intense orgasm, very erotic and pleasurable. Tho if she's not into it that's OK with me, it must be pleasurable for her also. Add the snowball and I'm in heaven.

As for facials, does nothing for me, that's for the movies. Now the nipples are something else, we both enjoy that!

 

[stageleft]

fave

my g/f once encouraged me to watch the expression on her face while i was cumming in her mouth.it was the most erotic feeling on earth.
she also loves facials as she says its such a raunchy thing to do.the visual is also highly exhilerating.

 

[BigFatMeat]

Man, I did not need to see that Deb's Deep Throat site. Now I have to go use my FLight again and finger myself. Dammit!


---BE BACK IN 5---

 

[cordite]

I don't really have anything new to add but cumming in my partner's mouth is the best thing ever in my book. I really crave it. For me to enjoy it she has to be into it as well - clearly turned on and intent. I love the sensations; warm, soft, wet, slick... I love watching her. I love how she submits to me and focuses on giving me pleasure to the best of her abilities. The eye contact can convey so much without even a word or gesture.

At the moment of cumming I'm very sensitive and I feel vulnerable (as well as all of the intense pleasures of orgasm). It really drives me further over the edge to feel her warm, soft, wet mouth totally enveloping me at that moment. A small trickle of cum down her chin is always a nice visual. I can't explain why but it means a lot to me when she swallows. Maybe it's a sign of acceptance and/or submission to me? Don't take this the wrong way -- it's not something that I expect from her. I'm definitely very lucky to have a gorgeous woman who is willing to please me in this way.

 

[LadyJeanne]

I don't really have anything new to add but cumming in my partner's mouth is the best thing ever in my book. I really crave it. For me to enjoy it she has to be into it as well - clearly turned on and intent. I love the sensations; warm, soft, wet, slick... I love watching her. I love how she submits to me and focuses on giving me pleasure to the best of her abilities. The eye contact can convey so much without even a word or gesture.

At the moment of cumming I'm very sensitive and I feel vulnerable (as well as all of the intense pleasures of orgasm). It really drives me further over the edge to feel her warm, soft, wet mouth totally enveloping me at that moment. A small trickle of cum down her chin is always a nice visual. I can't explain why but it means a lot to me when she swallows. Maybe it's a sign of acceptance and/or submission to me? Don't take this the wrong way -- it's not something that I expect from her. I'm definitely very lucky to have a gorgeous woman who is willing to please me in this way.

I'm curious about the vulnerable feeling - is that physical or emotional vulnerability? both?

 

[Elvenspell]

My girlfriend asked me yesterday why guys like to come in the mouth. I couldn't think of a good answer so I'm forwarding the question to the guys here (the ladies view is most welcome as well).

If this have already been answered in the swallowing thread I apologize, I'm just to lazy to read all off the 733 posts there

And then some of us guys don't often cum this way at all. I've never had a problem keeping excited, as the pleasure is always wonderful, but for whatever reason I don't seem to release from oral sex much.

Mind you, maybe that's a part of my decent endurance during any form of sex, buit still, I honestly truly don't know why.

 

[TBKahuna123]

I've never had a problem keeping excited, as the pleasure is always wonderful, but for whatever reason I don't seem to release from oral sex much.

See, I'm the exact opposite. Now I'll admit that my wife is incredibly talented, so maybe the reason, but I can't take more than a few minutes and the orgasms are extremely intense.

 

[chris9]

For my bf it's a feeling of being very masculine. Like he's the greatest stud. Just like when I 'complain' of soreness after excessive PIV sex, or if I tell him his cum is dripping out the next day.

 

[hogjack]

I consider it to be considerate and pragmatic all the same.

 

[cordite]

I'm curious about the vulnerable feeling - is that physical or emotional vulnerability? both?

It's actually difficult for me to say but I think it's a bit of both.

 

[Moxon4]

For me cumming in a girl's mouth is easier because it's just a natural continuation, and having to worry about warning her or pulling out detracts from the orgasm. Also, to some extent her spitting is kind of rejecting the guy.

The most intense feeling I ever had was from my last girlfriend, she went down on me, and after I came she kept me in her mouth, and my entire body tensed up, it was so intense.

 

[TBKahuna123]

Also, to some extent her spitting is kind of rejecting the guy.

Bah, I don't buy it. She's not rejecting the guy, she's rejecting the big glob of snot he just shot in her mouth. I don't know, you'd think this would really bothering me, being the oversensitive, overemotional guy I am, but I could really give a rat's ass.

That brings up another good point? Why is it that only the macho guys seem to have feelings of rejection when their partners don't swallow? Why is it that these are the only guys who also seem to worry about how big their cock's are? Is there a correlation?