Why do some sissies (maybe other men as well) do not want their cocks sucked?

[FeelingLikeMyself]

If you cum, the pleasure stops.

Also prevents Post Nut Clarity.

 

[liqueur]

What do you like when you're with a less masculine guy?

If I'm with a feminine woman or a femme of any kind— and she gives off a submissive vibe— my gender is far more likely to express itself as masculine. But if it's a male-presenting person who simply doesn't radiate high masc energy, then I will still want to keep my penis out of sight and be on the receiving end of his.

 

[IARainman]

I like having my cock sucked but I'd rather be the one giving. Whether that's eating pussy, ass or sucking cock. Just the way I'm wired I guess. More into giving than receiving. But I'm not pushing anyone's mouth away

 

[ZacharyFagg]

I'm just meeting up with a sissy and he asks to only suck me, which I'm fine with. But I also like to suck but he says, "no". What are some reasons why he has this attitude? Are you similar? Why?

It's all part of the fantasy. Us sissies love to feel feminine and submissive. We also love to feel used by dominate, masculine men. We love that they use us to cum, but won't return the favor. It really turns us on.

And personally, I just don't like masculine men sucking me. It does nothing for me. I won't stay hard, and I definitely won't cum. I often joke that I am bi, but my dick is straight. I only want females, or very fem males doing that.

If a man wants to give me oral, he should lick my pussy. I'll scream.

 

[ZacharyFagg]

Because often sissies, or people who are questioning their gender, don't feel comfortable with their genitals and they may prefer to hide them altogether. They may be describing themselves as sissies because it fits where they are on their journey; maybe, given the hatred towards transgender people atm, they are frightened to call themself trans... or some other reason.
Having sex with a man can be affirming but not without complications. If you're seeing them again, then don't question their decision, but there might be other ways you can express you affection? Foot rub? Back massage?

This.
I don't question my gender, but I love to feel feminine. And I definitely don't feel feminine if a man is sucking my dick lol.

 

[BBCfan]

The taboo rush of being on my knees for a hung dude is the thrill I get.
Other than my 1st time as an adult, I can never stay hard if a guy wants to blow me as well.

 

[jchtlit]

I have prostate cancer. I can’t get an erection and I can’t cum. So I don’t let anyone suck me? I just wast to service you

I know how you feel with my prostate issues, in my case my erection lasts a few minutes, not long enough to cum though getting my cock sucked is still pleasurable.

I do enjoy sucking a soft to hard cock and knowing how much pleasure I am giving.

 

[shemyezza]

Some sissies believe that the purpose of a sissy is to service, this would tend for them not to want someone to suck them off because that would be considered pleasurable.

So true !, This sissy is just so happy knowing that her Dom/Daddy is taking his pleasure , I really dont care if he leaves my clitty locked in its cage as long as he is being satisfied although I simply adore it when he reaches for my boobs and fondles them and tweakes my niples as he fucks me , a sure way to drive me to distraction. Some Daddies like to have my little clitty free as it adds to their pleasure to be able to fondle and suck me at his pleasure . One daddy insisted on removing my cage after I had sucked him hard and then stroked it as he fucked me but did not let me cum ,after I had sucked his cock clean and then hard again he had me lay on my back and started sucking my cock bringing me oh so close and then at the last minute slapped my cock from side to side hard ,he then went down on me again and repeated the process 3/4 times by which time I was desperate to cum, he then lifted my legs ,slid into my pussy and fucked me hard and fast purely for his own pleasure and I loved it . Having finished he simply put his clothes on and left ,leaving this sissy with a hard clitty and desperate to cum ,I think it gave him pleasure to demonstrate his dominance over my body, fortunatly my Mistress took pitty on me and made me masturbate to climax as she wached , In front of a full length window ( in day time ) where I could be seen by any one passing and I was not allowed to move away or cover myself before I came .

 

[Gregola]

If I'm with a feminine woman or a femme of any kind— and she gives off a submissive vibe— my gender is far more likely to express itself as masculine. But if it's a male-presenting person who simply doesn't radiate high masc energy, then I will still want to keep my penis out of sight and be on the receiving end of his.

Interesting. Very complex.

 

[2tallpaul]

The taboo rush of being on my knees for a hung dude is the thrill I get.
Other than my 1st time as an adult, I can never stay hard if a guy wants to blow me as well.

My girlfriend would keep me drained if she was expecting me to perform. Being aroused and not able to climax one more time is what she loves to watch. Reverse cowgirl and a deflated cock is her favorite.

 

[liqueur]

My girlfriend would keep me drained if she was expecting me to perform. Being aroused and not able to climax one more time is what she loves to watch. Reverse cowgirl and a deflated cock is her favorite.

Do you mean “perform on another man?” I used to have fantasies about that. Being thoroughly milked ahead of time, but not allowed to cum... so when that cock was presented to me, I'd be so receptive ... I had an online girlfriend who had a prostate electrostim designed for exactly that purpose. But we never got a chance to play.

 

[4yourpleasureiam]

If you cum, the pleasure stops.

Also prevents Post Nut Clarity.

True.

 

[4yourpleasureiam]

My girlfriend would keep me drained if she was expecting me to perform. Being aroused and not able to climax one more time is what she loves to watch. Reverse cowgirl and a deflated cock is her favorite.

Understand. If we are hot and horney we do things because we are hot and corny. Being milked and drained to the point we have no sexual desire then being told to suck or clean and take them any way they desire to use us showes our complete submission. Let's them and us know what we are

 

[saintcero]

Getting my cock sucked seems to be more of a distraction than a pleasure when I am going to town on the cock in my mouth. Priorities.

 

[2tallpaul]

Do you mean “perform on another man?” I used to have fantasies about that. Being thoroughly milked ahead of time, but not allowed to cum... so when that cock was presented to me, I'd be so receptive ... I had an online girlfriend who had a prostate electrostim designed for exactly that purpose. But we never got a chance to play.

Yes, I perform best when I can focus without an erection.

 

[2tallpaul]

Understand. If we are hot and horney we do things because we are hot and corny. Being milked and drained to the point we have no sexual desire then being told to suck or clean and take them any way they desire to use us showes our complete submission. Let's them and us know what we are

With stimulus, I'm horny and cannot cum. This has led to me climaxing anally. Yes, I'm a slut.

 

[Sounding22]

Speaking for my sissy self.I get hard just by his cum in and on me.
And who wouldn’t want to go to bed with her man, kiss him night. Sleep w/your head by his cock so you can it good night.

 

[ZacharyFagg]

Speaking for my sissy self.I get hard just by his cum in and on me.
And who wouldn’t want to go to bed with her man, kiss him night. Sleep w/your head by his cock so you can it good night.

Mmmm yes. His cum satisfies me.

 

[Gregola]

Mmmm yes. His cum satisfies me.

Ummmm...I would like that!

 

[Gregola]

This.
I don't question my gender, but I love to feel feminine. And I definitely don't feel feminine if a man is sucking my dick lol.

Could you imagine him sucking your clit?

 

[HotLoadLover]

"Tis better to give (head) than to receive"

 

[ChloeOfCascadia]

I'm just meeting up with a sissy and he asks to only suck me, which I'm fine with. But I also like to suck but he says, "no". What are some reasons why he has this attitude? Are you similar? Why?

(I'm only interested in women, men please don't DM me for sex/romance.)

I prefer to pleasure my partner and take control of her orgasm so she has several of them.

I am a difficult orgasm and until she learns my body she's got no chance of getting me off anyway.

I make it worth learning by making sure her toes are curled and she's thoroughly satisfied.

Nothing less fun than wanting to please your partner and she's awkwardly trying to bring you off and it's not happening.

Because 99 percent of all other guys would have cum by now, so if you have a difficult orgasm, she's got no idea, no plan B, none of her experience has prepared her for this.

So she keeps trying, because clearly, I just take a while. Nope.

I need something more, and I will tell you that in advance to avoid this very scenario.

I know, your technique is really good, and it is actually my body's stubborn issue. I am aware.

I just want to avoid this specific situation, where I can't please you, and you can't move on until you have pleased me.

Neither of us has any fun with this.

You know what turns me on? You cumming. The sounds you make when you're being fucked, fingered, licked, and sucked until you cum and cum and cum and cum.

That gets me about halfway there.

Then, I am a difficult but ACHIEVABLE orgasm and I can absolutely get myself the rest of the way there. Just let me touch you some more, this time, with my penis.

No worries. If that doesn't work I'll masturbate later, the orgasm will come. But first, your turn. And then after your turn, it's your turn. Then your turn again. Then your turn.

Finally, I think you deserve a turn to cum. It's been a few minutes since your last orgasm so it is clearly time.

See, that's hot to me.

You trying hard to suck and have something happen is not, especially after a few minutes. I know the rest of it will be just like those few minutes because, you already are giving it your best. I even told you I was difficult and you want to test yourself.

Have at it. I can tell a few minutes in it's not happening. I don't want to waste your time.

I'm thinking back to the dozen or so women I've had oral sex with, and they orgasmed and rarely did I do so. Maybe under 10 times in my life, whereas, I've given actually thousands of orgasms that way.

I do what I can do. If I can't cum, I lick and suck and fuck and finger, and I got really good at that instead.

Simple, simple. This is how my body works. I need a woman who enjoys pleasure.

You think that's automatic, it isn't, I've had plenty of women tell me they don't prefer to get pleasure, they prefer to give.

Uh oh.

I've had women tell me, they need to be the dom not the sub, and be in control.

Yeah, I know. You don't want sadism or masochism, I get it, I don't either. But if I'm not in control even slightly this train is never leaving the station.

You will sit on my face and let me lick you to 1 orgasm which is less good than I could give you if I had the freedom to move, and then get off because your experience tells you I'm done.

I wasn't done, get back here for more fun.

Anyway, that leads to handjobs and blowjobs and riding my cock before I'm ready and it goes nowhere unless we're imagining it.

Sorry, that isn't happening until hour 3. Which is why I don't cum often because people are busy and you need to be in the mood for a third hour of sex in a given day.

I know.

That's why I don't ask for oral, I control the orgasms, I don't expect sex every day. I prefer to serve.

When I get horny and pent up enough, things will work out the next time you want me to eat your pussy and suck your clit.

No worries. Hearing you moan and cumming on my face will unlock the week of desire and then it will be easy.

Just let it happen, don't force it. Many women are used to men who pop off in five seconds and they want to bring their sexual adventures to an end so they can watch TV or read a book or something and they think sucking will do the trick.

I wish it did, sweetie, I wish it did. You don't have to reciprocate. Just give me a kiss and a snuggle and we're done. I'll let you know if I am close, that will be the big green flag that doing anything to me will have an effect.

I know, tricky. I made it more than worth it to every partner who wanted sex, ever.

 

[ZacharyFagg]

Could you imagine him sucking your clit?

Absolutely not. I don't identify as a female, so I don't think of my dick as a clit. It's a dick.
Most of us sissies are total bottoms. Total bottoms rarely want any kind of reciprocation. If you want mutual oral, you should find someone who is into that.

 

[ZacharyFagg]

Most of us sissies are masochists. We love feeling humiliated. And we like the humiliation that comes with being "used."

We generally like masculine, dominate, men, who want to use our holes to get off, but won't return the favor. It's so fucking hot. We enjoy that way more than getting sucked.

I'd rather not cum at all, or jerk off in front of him. That's super hot. I make him cum, and all I get to do is jerk off.

It might sound strange, but that's how many of us are.

 

[liqueur]

Most of us sissies are masochists. We love feeling humiliated. And we like the humiliation that comes with being "used."

We generally like masculine, dominate, men, who want to use our holes to get off, but won't return the favor. It's so fucking hot. We enjoy that way more than getting sucked.

I'd rather not cum at all, or jerk off in front of him. That's super hot. I make him cum, and all I get to do is jerk off.

It might sound strange, but that's how many of us are.

I don't identify as “sissy” because of the baggage that porn has attached to the word. But I totally identify with everything you describe here.