Why do some sissies (maybe other men as well) do not want their cocks sucked?

[liqueur]

I accept, but have difficulty understanding.

You don't need to understand. People are just different, and probably nowhere more different than in our sexualities.

 

[Oshkosh60]

Sissy has been my way of life from being called a sissy from a grandparent to when I go out with 4 ladies and myself. The waitress says 4 ladies and one gentleman. They correct her and tell her 5 ladies

Was it your grandfather..... ? Maybe he was hoping you were......

 

[Filthy_needs1]

I'm just meeting up with a sissy and he asks to only suck me, which I'm fine with. But I also like to suck but he says, "no". What are some reasons why he has this attitude? Are you similar? Why?

Not accepting love, on any level. It's a psychological problem . Giving love is easier than receiving.

 

[whiteasianlvr]

Mentally or psychologically, there's a desire or need for the other man's cock and seed which is what a total bottom craves. Thus, receiving is what I desire and having attention given to my penis throws me off from my quest. At least this is my attempt to address this.

 

[liqueur]

Not accepting love, on any level. It's a psychological problem .

Bullshit! Pathologizing other people's sexual preferences because they don't line up with your beliefs.

This has no place in this thread, on this forum, on this site.

 

[load69]

I will happily share my cock as long as I get to suck your cock. Cock and cum for both of us seems absolutely fair

 

[liqueur]

I will happily share my cock as long as I get to suck your cock. Cock and cum for both of us seems absolutely fair

That's what you “both-ways” guys don't get— and I know, you're a majority, but that doesn't change things. This isn't about fairness. This is about how us total bottoms are wired. You can't change it, and we can't either. It makes about as much sense as telling a totally straight guy that it's only fair that he suck your cock.

 

[load69]

That's what you “both-ways” guys don't get— and I know, you're a majority, but that doesn't change things. This isn't about fairness. This is about how us total bottoms are wired. You can't change it, and we can't either. It makes about as much sense as telling a totally straight guy that it's only fair that he suck your cock.

I have yet to suck a cock and would probably be complete bottom given a choice but figure my odds of getting a cock in my mouth are way better if I am willing to share my cock.

 

[liqueur]

I have yet to suck a cock and would probably be complete bottom given a choice but figure my odds of getting a cock in my mouth are way better if I am willing to share my cock.

I have let guys suck me in the past. Not to “improve my odds” (I've never had difficulty finding guys that were okay with being sucked ) but just because they wanted it so much.

But it turns me off, I can't get hard that way, let alone cum, and it's embarrassing and annoying and distracting. So now they know ahead of time that I'm not interested in reciprocation, and if that doesn't work for them, it's fine. We move on and find someone else.

 

[Sounding22]

Was it your grandfather..... ? Maybe he was hoping you were......

Grandmother, she had also done things for my sisters I played with.
Definitely they were hoping but my mother knew and father worked on a field where many gays were.

 

[ZacharyFagg]

I will happily share my cock as long as I get to suck your cock. Cock and cum for both of us seems absolutely fair

It's absolutely not fair if the person you are sucking doesn't want you to.

 

[drobert44]

It's absolutely not fair if the person you are sucking doesn't want you to.

I always sucked my sissies. They loved it.

 

[beemerma99]

I consider myself more of a cocksucker than a sissy…but I prefer sucking because I'm not blessed with a decent size penis…

 

[ZacharyFagg]

I have let guys suck me in the past. Not to “improve my odds” (I've never had difficulty finding guys that were okay with being sucked ) but just because they wanted it so much.

But it turns me off, I can't get hard that way, let alone cum, and it's embarrassing and annoying and distracting. So now they know ahead of time that I'm not interested in reciprocation, and if that doesn't work for them, it's fine. We move on and find someone else.

Unfortunately you can tell someone that you aren't interested in reciprocation but some will try it anyway.

Awhile back I hooked up with a big, masculine, bearded, older dude. I thought things were clear. But then, he pulled my dick out of my jockstrap and said "Fuck you have a big cock!" Then he started sucking it.

I was completely grossed out, but I didn't say anything at first. I just laid there and hoped that he would stop. But he didn't. He actually starts choking on it like a bitch.

Finally I said "Stop."

"Oh, I love sucking dick!" He replied, then he starts doing it again.

"No stop." I insisted.

"Come on, let me suck your big cock."

That did it. I was completely turned off and told him to get dressed and leave.

"Who the fuck doesn't want a blowjob?" He asked. He's all mad.

Fucking idiots.

 

[ZacharyFagg]

I always sucked my sissies. They loved it.

Maybe they did. Fine. But so many of us don't.
I would definitely not love getting sucked by anyone with facial hair.
The bottom line is, if someone says they aren't into that, just don't do it.

 

[liqueur]

Awhile back I hooked up with a big, masculine, bearded, older dude. I thought things were clear. But then, he pulled my dick out of my jockstrap and said "Fuck you have a big cock!"

Gross!
And the primary reason I'm thinking of getting a cock cage.

 

[ZacharyFagg]

Gross!
And the primary reason I'm thinking of getting a cock cage.

It's ridiculous.

 

[ZacharyFagg]

It's very simple. If someone says that they don't want something, just don't do it. Don't try to talk them into it, just don't. If they tell you no, and you still do it, that's sexual assault.
It doesn't matter if you don't understand it, just don't do it.
I cannot understand what's so difficult about that.
I'd never get with a top guy, and then try to fuck him in the ass.
Look, If you guys want mutual oral, sissies and total bottoms aren't for you. Find someone who is into that. They are everywhere.

 

[Gregola]

Not accepting love, on any level. It's a psychological problem . Giving love is easier than receiving.

I'm not sure its an issue of "love"

 

[Gregola]

You don't need to understand. People are just different, and probably nowhere more different than in our sexualities.

The responses to my question demonstrates how different people are, and leads to my understanding rather than annoyance

 

[PFWilly]

If I can't find one guy I would trust to suck....... it would be hell to have the addiction and not be able to satisfy the need.

How many guys on here sucked a cock ten, twenty, thirty, forty even fifty years ago...... and still wish to experience it again?

First cock I sucked, consensually, was 60 years ago, had a few other since…lol. Been awhile now, but I think about it frequently. Frankly, I think about it a lot!