Why Do We Crossdress

[CdKimMajick]

I finally came out to everyone and now I am full feminine all the time. I own no men's clothing and my calling myself a crossdresser is no longer correct. I dress now to match my identity. I am a transfemale and soon will be starting hrt.

 

[Katecdpt]

I'm not sure anything I write here and now will be up to par with that has been written before me, but undeterred, I will try my best to add to the collective of this thread.
Cross dressing goes way, way, way back for me and very deep. I have struggled with it for most of my life and still am. Maybe its part of residual of who I was in a past life or maybe its just the dopamine rush I get when I put on female clothing. I know its a total rush for me to step out the door and venture out into the public presenting ads a female.
All I know is its part of me, part of who I am and that will never change. I love my feminine side and I struggle with my urges to express her every day. You are not alone in your feeling of wanting to express your feminine side.

Kate

 

[Stacy_TG]

I crossdress because it reaffirms my truth.

 

[MeganFachs]

I'm not sure anything I write here and now will be up to par with that has been written before me, but undeterred, I will try my best to add to the collective of this thread.
Cross dressing goes way, way, way back for me and very deep. I have struggled with it for most of my life and still am. Maybe its part of residual of who I was in a past life or maybe its just the dopamine rush I get when I put on female clothing. I know its a total rush for me to step out the door and venture out into the public presenting ads a female.
All I know is its part of me, part of who I am and that will never change. I love my feminine side and I struggle with my urges to express her every day. You are not alone in your feeling of wanting to express your feminine side.

Kate
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Kate you are a beautiful soul and a pretty woman!

 

[Deszos]

The reason that you want to do this is because at some level you know guys are really turned on by the female form. Your cross dressing helps get cocks in your mouth and helps to get hard dicks pumping your ass, and that's what you want.

I completely agree. I keep my natural, supple 34-D breasts smooth, as I do my legs and pits. Preparing for a date is just as exciting as preparing for it. As you said, getting pretty and wearing something sexy for my date arouses me, as I know he will be happy and aroused when he comes through my door.

 

[Deszos]

Kate you are a beautiful soul and a pretty woman!

Perfectly expressed. Thanks for affirming my mind and thoughts.

 

[stargame]

Since being on this site it would seem I am far from being alone with my fetish or as some would say my occasional hobby of wearing womens clothes, cross dressing, transvestite or whatever label the world deems appropriate. I am just curious as to why others do the same and perhaps what drives us to it. In reality I would like confirmation that I am not alone with my fetish. Feel free to elaborate.

I think for me, it's all the wonderful fabrics. Who doesn't want to wear lace, silk, and pretty clothes. I've always been very feminine. It's a very natural thing for me to do. Besides guy clothes are so boring.

 

[Deszos]

Yes!

 

[Deszos]

I'm not sure anything I write here and now will be up to par with that has been written before me, but undeterred, I will try my best to add to the collective of this thread.
Cross dressing goes way, way, way back for me and very deep. I have struggled with it for most of my life and still am. Maybe its part of residual of who I was in a past life or maybe its just the dopamine rush I get when I put on female clothing. I know its a total rush for me to step out the door and venture out into the public presenting ads a female.
All I know is its part of me, part of who I am and that will never change. I love my feminine side and I struggle with my urges to express her every day. You are not alone in your feeling of wanting to express your feminine side.

Kate
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Kate, YES! Thanks for the affirmation. xoxo Dennis

 

[stargame]

I completely agree. I keep my natural, supple 34-D breasts smooth, as I do my legs and pits. Preparing for a date is just as exciting as preparing for it. As you said, getting pretty and wearing something sexy for my date arouses me, as I know he will be happy and aroused when he comes through my door.

I have to add this. Another reason is that I absolutely love going shopping. Oh, the beautiful clothes and the sales ladies are always so nice to me.

 

[Deszos]

haha really? I'm not that brave. Most of my wardrobe, including bras and panties, are done online.

 

[Katecdpt]

The sales ladies always love helping me in picking somethings out or giving me their opinion on something when I come out of the dressing room to use the big full length mirror.

 

[Deszos]

Impressive. Cool.

 

[stargame]

The sales ladies always love helping me in picking somethings out or giving me their opinion on something when I come out of the dressing room to use the big full length mirror.

Yes, and I feel so feminine when a sales lady makes a suggestion or shows me something cute that she thinks might look good on me.

 

[MeganFachs]

(A nice real world crossdressing experience of my husband: https://forum.literotica.com/thread...megan’s-thread.1598539/page-39#post-101020036)

 

[Hope_you_like]

Yes, and I feel so feminine when a sales lady makes a suggestion or shows me something cute that she thinks might look good on me.

This is lovely! I wish it was always like this.

I had a bad experience once, and it was a while ago, but, I'm afraid, my last real life shopping experience, where I overheard some 'less than nice' comments from the sales staff as I left. Someone else told them to be quiet, but the damage was done and was felt...
What was I doing wrong?
I've not been able to shop in person since

 

[TryGuy35]

Yes, and I feel so feminine when a sales lady makes a suggestion or shows me something cute that she thinks might look good on me.

You know whats sexy, taking you shopping one day, I get to choose your outfits, ha

 

[Cardinal]

Since being on this site it would seem I am far from being alone with my fetish or as some would say my occasional hobby of wearing womens clothes, cross dressing, transvestite or whatever label the world deems appropriate. I am just curious as to why others do the same and perhaps what drives us to it. In reality I would like confirmation that I am not alone with my fetish. Feel free to elaborate.

I have no idea but I love panties and nighties. Not gay, zero attraction to other men. But when I wear panties or a nightie I do think about and I am attracted to cock, but never a man.
Yeah so basically I’m confused

 

[MeganFachs]

This is lovely! I wish it was always like this.

I had a bad experience once, and it was a while ago, but, I'm afraid, my last real life shopping experience, where I overheard some 'less than nice' comments from the sales staff as I left. Someone else told them to be quiet, but the damage was done and was felt...
What was I doing wrong?
I've not been able to shop in person since

Oh honey, wish I could give you a hug and then go back and smack those bitches!

 

[RobynDominque]

I dress because I love looking so gorgeous, but I am unusual in that I am also sexually a domme. I have even seen male doms that can't seem to wrap their minds around the idea that a TV can be domme. I am also attracted to the feminine, but play with both sets of plumbing hehe. As for shopping, I usually have a giggle of girls with me as I generally have a better fashion sense than they do hehe.

 

[RobynDominque]

Oh honey, wish I could give you a hug and then go back and smack those bitches!

I am the same way, a hug for you, Miss Hope, and a few smacks with a baseball bat for those bitchy sluts

 

[ZacharyFagg]

The reason that you want to do this is because at some level you know guys are really turned on by the female form. Your cross dressing helps get cocks in your mouth and helps to get hard dicks pumping your ass, and that's what you want.

That is very true. Plenty of horny straight guys seek out crossdressers for easy sex. I put on makeup, lingerie and as long as my dick stays in my panties they don't care.

 

[Actual_Mom]

Since being on this site it would seem I am far from being alone with my fetish or as some would say my occasional hobby of wearing womens clothes, cross dressing, transvestite or whatever label the world deems appropriate. I am just curious as to why others do the same and perhaps what drives us to it. In reality I would like confirmation that I am not alone with my fetish. Feel free to elaborate.

Just a thought ... A post I made a few years ago
https://forum.literotica.com/threads/something-for-you-ladies-to-consider.1530175/

 

[cdstefi]

Since being on this site it would seem I am far from being alone with my fetish or as some would say my occasional hobby of wearing womens clothes, cross dressing, transvestite or whatever label the world deems appropriate. I am just curious as to why others do the same and perhaps what drives us to it. In reality I would like confirmation that I am not alone with my fetish. Feel free to elaborate.

My 2p worth.

Even from an early pre-hormonal age I was fascinated with women's clothes and would sneak my mum's on when I got the chance.

Once sexually mature (or at least with the hormones kicking in) I also got the societal shit of "it's weird" so kind of struggled with it, not getting many opportunities and feeling somewhat ashamed when I did, even though wearing women's clothes was a massive erotic charge and inevitably led to many fast, furtive orgasms.

Once fully mature, and feeling more self-possessed and in control of my life and emotions (I'd put this around my mid-30s) I felt more able to share this side of me with partners, and that was liberating (I got lucky and both my former and current wives were aware and indulgent of the happiness crossdressing gives me, especially my current and forever wife).

I've never really felt as if I'm at all transgendered, there's no inner woman trying to escape and although I'm bi and have had sex with men, I don't play the sissy. It's always been a sexual fetish for me, but a long-lasting one that always makes me happy when I see myself in a set of lingerie in a full-length mirror.

 

[CuriousTxGuy]

I have no idea but I love panties and nighties. Not gay, zero attraction to other men. But when I wear panties or a nightie I do think about and I am attracted to cock, but never a man.
Yeah so basically I’m confused

I bet you're not at all confused when that hard cock is pounding your mouth. Or when he's zipped up and walked off and you're swishing a mouthful of hot jizz. No confusion there!