Why Do We Do What We Do?

[Kajira Callista]

Long ago I knew I could never settle for less than I need..and I need total control..physical and emotional. I need the responsibility for the well being of those I own, their sexuality needs to be in My hands. 10% given to Me would be as useless as 90%. I need it all.
Settling for less is completely out of the question.
I believe that all of humanity should try to be true to themselves..whether 'nilla or BDSM. It would appear that trying to live in a compromise is what brings long term suffering of a type not associated with a suffering for growth or pleasure.
I would hope that all of the suffering I give to My partner will be a suffering that cements the relationship rather than a suffering of discontent.

See why i this woman so much?

 

[catalina_francisco]

See why i this woman so much?

Was neat, huh?

 

[PathFinder17]

Hello All,

I'm fairly new to this journey myself and one of the first things I came to realise is that being Dominant is part of me, a deep seated need like hunger or thirst, as KillerMuffin put it so eloquently part of the Id.

I'm a firm believer in being one's self, to deny this part of me would be to, in effect, suffocate part of myself, to not fully live. The gnawing hole, that hunger is what drove me to seek answers and begin the journey. That's why I (will) do it.

 

[argentSS]

New here in this name also, but not necessarily new to the board.

Why do we do what we do? I'm not sure I DO anything so much as BE the person that is really me. This comes after years of fighting down the urges within me, denying my real nature, and hating myself to the point of depression.