Why Do Women Do This? Is It Ego???

[THEBRAT]

I didn't mean to come across bitchy. I'm just saying women deal with the same crap.




Thank you. I now have hope for you, my brutha.




This is the most asinine advice I've ever heard! Women like this feel that a man should do all the work with pursuing a woman. Apparently they think a man would not be interested in a woman who appeared in the least bit aggressive. I hope your friend tossed that out of the window. It's this type of attitude that produces the game mentality that men perceive women play. This doesn't make any sense to me.




I say more power to your friend but I bet he'd cop an attitude if he heard a black woman say she only dated men outside the race because of having been 'played' so much.

I want to tell you about a conversation me and my roommate just had the other night. It actually reminded me of you, Jack, and I wanted to tell you about it.

He has been having the same type of problem - meeting flakes, etc. I told him I could tell him what was going on but that he wouldn't like it. I believe you can draw a certain type of person to you based on the 'vibes' you put off. My roommate has a 'Knight in Shining Armor' complex that is obvious to anyone who's paid close attention to him. He puts out those vibes attracting the helpless, I don't have a mind in my head type of woman. When I, in depth, explained to him what I meant, he acknowledged what I said was true. Maybe you and your friend are putting off whacky vibes to flaky women. I swear my sister has an invisible sign on her head that says, "If you're going to beat me, rob me, not work and take all my money so I have to take care of you, please ask me out." Her friends and family just can't see it. It's the same way that abusers and abusees tend to find each other. Did I just make sense or am I babbling?




It will happen, you just have to go through a lot of weeds before you find your rose.

Jack or your Rose askes you to marry her.I asked my Husband of 25 years to marry me after just knowing him for 3 months.

 

[Blackbich]

Oh, Jacky-Poo!

Well, bring us up to date. What's going on now?