Why do you guys love anal?

[UtilityCurve]

Finally, I listened to podcast with 2 women who said they felt powerful after anal sex, almost a high, since they had taken a cock in their ass. It wasn't specifically about pleasure, but more, it seemed, about overcoming and enduring. Subtle, I think, but fascinating.

Indeed. I speculate that the overcoming/enduring thing, coupled with (one hopes) a desire to give the man unusual pleasure (in the hope of it being ultimate pleasure) is the key for most women. Yes, many (I would wish all, but that's not the way things work) women get their own pleasure from anal penetration, but I'm no fool: That's rarely what gets then to "yes."

 

[InterestedBlonde]

This place truly is a learning environment. TY to all the posters here.

 

[KyleR215]

For me I think it is because it is slightly taboo, it's tight, it's different than a pussy or mouth and it feels amazing

 

[smtst5]

My college girlfriend was riding my one night and rose up a little too high and discovered that she liked anal. She didn’t want to get pregnant so she let me fuck her ass any time that I wanted.

 

[Ashesh9]

can anyone here explain why anal is taboo. I think there are many thinkers with many views here..Please let religion out of this. Thanks for your time.

Probably because of scatalogical abhorrence and horror of excrement

 

[fma20fma]

very technical and high vocabulary.

 

[DaddyforhisKitten]

The taboo nature is definitely part of it.


But like others have mentioned, there's also the idea of a woman only engaging in anal play with someone special. My wife tried anal with her ex and hated it. Said it wasn't something she was interested in trying again. And then a few years after we were together, she told me she wanted me to claim that last hole. I found it very hot she suddenly wanted to do something with me she had already written off once solely because it would now involve me.

 

[Wanderg]

Wife told me from get go that anal was
a non starter. Even when she’s super turned on with lady cum dripping she jumps when I try to finger her ass.

Had one FWB that tried it before I met her and she said she hated it.

Had another FWB that loved it. She wanted to take my anal virginity and did (first she fucked me with a slender vibrator). Being in her ass was hotter for her than me. She got off on how taboo it was to have a cock in her asshole. I was never was able to cum in her ass. Her pussy was so tight and wet so I preferred it to her ass.

 

[nedthebundler]

There is a difference in the feelings you experience between oral, piv and anal. It's nice to be able to have the chance to experience them all.

There is an element of dominance/taboo as well as being given something special.

 

[BackwoodsMama]

It appeals to me from many angles. Most importantly, it feels erotic and a lovely way to please and connect with my partner. I also love the sensations. Orgasms when my ass is filled either with a cock or toy are more intense. I feel like more stimulation helps but also I feel the orgasm reverberate further since the muscles around my ass contract with the orgasm. I know my husband feels dominant when he is in my ass and I really like that.

 

[BackwoodsMama]

Ohhhh I also love the smug feeling I have knowing that I like a cock up my ass and that appeals to most men. If I’m ever in a situation where it comes up and I can suggest I like anal I love seeing the look of awe on men’s faces. Like in an instant they all want access to my ass.

 

[Dad4u1970]

Ohhhh I also love the smug feeling I have knowing that I like a cock up my ass and that appeals to most men. If I’m ever in a situation where it comes up and I can suggest I like anal I love seeing the look of awe on men’s faces. Like in an instant they all want access to my ass.

Nothing more exciting than getting some ass
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[mbikeguy]

It is a different sensation being all the way in my wife’s ass. She never let anyone else near her rosebud. We tried it when we were younger and it didn’t go well. Didn’t use enough lube. When we did it later with proper prep. She and I loved it. Almost every time we have sex I slip a finger in her butt. She likes the sensation of my fingers in both holes going in and out.

 

[nostuff]

I hate that I can't enjoy porn anymore from my favorite sites. Government decided that Texans can't enjoy them anymore. Anyone have the same issue???
My favorite is anal and men stroking cocks and my imagination is running out because I get my ideas from them.
It's part of the reason why I don't masturbate as much. :-(

If you haven't sorted out a solution yet, get NordVPN (or any other VPN, I suppose). Nord lets my computer show a connection via any state or country I choose, meaning I can tell these social conservative assholes to fuck off.

 

[nostuff]

I've always been obsessed with a woman's ass. Even when I lacked a proper understanding of female anatomy, I found beauty in a woman's ass. Really young and really stupid -- but damn, I had an appreciation for ass.

Why? I don't know, but that attraction has never faded.

And when I finally persuaded my wife to try anal, she absolutely loved it, almost to the exclusion of vaginal sex.

 

[LMWM321]

One thing I've never understood is this idea that giving anal is an expression of dominance..

Huh? Why? ...My wife pegs me and I've never felt like I'm being "dominated". ..Nor have I felt like I was doing something aggressive when I've given anal (w/ consent of course) to a woman. ..I've always wanted her to want and enjoy it as much as I did.

Sadly, the abundance of painful-anal and reluctant-anal porn hasn't helped. Pretty gross, IMHO.

It feels great - giving and receiving - if you start small, take your time and use plenty of lube.

Anal sex needs a better publicist

 

[nassauguy_2001]

True but usually you know if you can take a chance.

Correct, no Taco Bell for at least 12 hours prior!!!

 

[nassauguy_2001]

According to my husband, a lot of the thrill is that she is doing something special for you. A bit like when she sucks you and swallows you jizz.

Agreed, many people consider anal "special" similar to swallowing. Great point!

 

[Islander55]

Agreed, many people consider anal "special" similar to swallowing. Great point!

I do anal as something for the guy to enjoy even though I can get into it and even have had orgasms from anal fucking.

 

[nassauguy_2001]

I do anal as something for the guy to enjoy even though I can get into it and even have had orgasms from anal fucking.

Some of my partners BEST orgasms have been from anal!

 

[Wickettoby1]

My GF seems to be ecstatic with her analgasm's as of late.

 

[Anon_shy]

Interesting thread to read! Not sure if it's just my age group or the people I've been around, but anal seems almost normal with us, most of my GFs enjoy it and most of the guys I know have given it, some taken it in some way and are open about it, it's almost not taboo anymore.

 

[nassauguy_2001]

Interesting thread to read! Not sure if it's just my age group or the people I've been around, but anal seems almost normal with us, most of my GFs enjoy it and most of the guys I know have given it, some taken it in some way and are open about it, it's almost not taboo anymore.

May I ask your general age group since that is how your qualified your reply? No disrespect intended!

 

[Anon_shy]

27, I think it's in my profile, so no disrespect taken haha!

 

[nassauguy_2001]

27, I think it's in my profile, so no disrespect taken haha!

I'm sorry, without my reading glasses I missed that detail.
Have a good evening!