Why do you guys love anal?

[anyone4greek]

Good question Kaitlyn. I can only speak for myself, but I would say that my interest in and love for anal sex is due to my character. I am an ass man. Some men are tit men, I am an ass man. My business card has my name, and title "Ass Man." All my life I have been obsessed with the female booty. I love the shape of it, the feel of it, the smell of it, the taste of it --everything booty. I love to touch it, squeeze it, slap it, spank it, kiss it, lick it, taste it and probe it. It is only natural to me that I would want to insert my cock there. It is not a dominance thing with me. Rather, it is my happy place.
I can't say that it feels better or tighter than pussy sex. Sure, it is tight at first, but after a few minutes the anus relaxes and with sufficient lube it does not feel much different than fucking a pussy. I don't go HAM at that point. I go at the pace she prefers. If she asks me to fuck her harder I will, but most women do not.
I don't fuck a woman in the ass so that I can feel dominant over her. I don't get off on causing pain or discomfort. I only do it with women who are into it, who have found that they can have intense orgasms through anal stimulation, or who ask to try it.
The taboo of it used to be a thing for me, I suppose, but anal is rather mainstream now and I still enjoy it just as much.
Bottom line for me is that anal sex is the logical and ultimate extension of my deep admiration for the female ass.

This is the best explanation for my love of it! The look, the feel, the shape, it is perfect, and I want my penis in there. There is also something about the positioning, that being in the ass puts you a little bit higher, and where the cheeks press back against me feels just slightly better. A little more squish maybe??

 

[01Nighttrain]

Total submission, the kinky factor and trust is a very big part.

I know she is doing it because I want to not necessarily because she craves getting her ass fucked.

 

[TheVegasMark]

When the inside of her legs are drenching wet, I am balls deep in her ass and asks me "do you want me to turn up my vibrator so you can feel it more.....?" ....I know she is into it.....!!

Do you enjoy that combo too...??...Its HOT....I like it slow... )

 

[Tio_Narratore]

From a story of mine:

“Here, look,” he says. “See how her asshole is puckered? That’s because of the ring of muscles that keep it closed. They keep it so tight that when you fuck it, the ring stays tight around your cock from tip to root. Not like a cunt. A cunt can be tight, but not form-fitting like an asshole. Here, watch!”

“Here,” he said as he clambered up on the table. “Watch how a real cock does it.”

Charles stood on his chair to get a better view as Richard knelt between her legs and hoisted her up by the hips until her ass was at his hips and her knees were holding her up. He wrapped one arm around her waist to hold her while he took his massive cock in his other hand.

Richard puts the tip of his cock against her anus and pushes, slowly but relentlessly, until her ring starts spreading.

“Now watch closely,” he says to Charles.

He pushes harder, holding his cock in place with his hand firmly around the shaft, and his cock head slides slowly into her ass, stretching her hole wider and wider as the girth of his organ increases. His glans flares like a mushroom cap, and he gives his cock an extra-hard shove to force it through her ring. Charles gasps as Richard’s corona pops into her ass and her ring tightens around his shaft.

Charles watches intently as Richard releases his cock and holds her by both hips to drive his shaft all the way into her gut until his balls are slapping at her pussy.

“Do it again,” Charles breathlessly asks.

Richard pulls his cock out slowly and then drives it in again for Charles to watch. Richard gasps with pleasure at this second entry and starts pumping his hips, pulling back until his corona is caught at her ring and pushing in until his balls feel her flesh. Again and again, until, at last, he lets out a roaring moan and stiffens. His cock pulses with globs of jism, and Charles can see the swelling of his cock and the stretching of her anus as each thick glob forces its way down his cock and into her ass. Drained, he pulls out, and a last spurt spills onto her ass cheek.

 

[Tio_Narratore]

Here is the deal about fucking a woman in the ass. Unlike fucking her pussy which probably every guy she has dated has done, the back door is reserved. You are probably one of the few she has allowed if anyone to fuck her ass.

For me, it's the ultimate hole a woman can give you. When you take her in the ass, you own her in a way few men will ever "own" her. Some women cum from being ass fucked. Not to mention it is tighter and hotter than the pussy.

When I was a teen in Brooklyn in the 60s, oral was the reserved portal. Most girls did anal to satisfy their bfs or dates while saving their virginity and avoiding pregnancy. We called it "Irish birth control."

 

[UtilityCurve]

When I was a teen in Brooklyn in the 60s, oral was the reserved portal. Most girls did anal to satisfy their bfs or dates while saving their virginity and avoiding pregnancy. We called it "Irish birth control."

And people have the nerve to say the things weren't better in the past!

 

[frappingwilly]

I tried it and didn't enjoy it much I gotta say, it amazes me in every porn film going arse fucking is involved.

 

[Cob083]

Never tried it before with any women I've ever been with I suppose it's because I'm a little to big at 7.5"/5.5".

 

[SevMax2]

Kaitlyn
it’s a combination of everything you mention and more. It’s the tightness, the subtle difference, the permission and desire by a partner. Whether it’s an occasional treat or a regular event it’s a delight, including the prep and the taboo.
It is dominating but hey you know that.

As a very submissive girl what is it that appeals to you? Giving it all I suspect!

A lot of that is very true, but also, it suggests that she desires you more than if she denies it to you. A lot of guys have experienced this phenomenon where if a woman really desires you, she'll break rules for you, but she doesn't feel it, but thinks that she is settling for you, she makes up a bunch of rules instead. You want to be the guy that makes her want to break her rules for you, not make up ones for you.

 

[SevMax2]

hello Kaitlyn,
You've already got a variety of answers to your question. Here's my take [which will agree with some and supplement others]

a) Yes, anal can be an act of dominance because it usually requires some training to learn to accept things into your body that way. It can definitely be submissive, an act of surrender.
b) Yes, it is also sorta taboo, though that's a little relative to what someone considers taboo. Sex is usually done in private so who cares about those antiquated sodomy laws?
c) Is it only about the guy's pleasure? No. In addition to women I have penetrated anally, I have talked to many women about anal sex, and my personal surveys indicate that it can be VERY pleasurable when done right. The anus has a lot of nerve endings [which can also hurt if you're not doing it right], and the cock can indirectly touch places in the vagina, like the g-spot and especially the a-spot [look it up if you haven't heard of it- aka ae-spot]. Women say that it is a different kind of pleasure. I know some women get off on being used, but I wouldn't do anal if my partner got nothing from it. I know some women [plural] who report that their most intense orgasms happen from anal. For them, it is more intense than vaginal. Granted those were women over the age of 40 who have had hormonal changes [not referring to menopause] that affected their sexuality. One woman told me about being fucked in the ass while she used a pure joy wand (a dildo shaped like a big metal comma). She said she started cumming in minutes and was squirting and cumming through several rolling orgasms. [Note- women are super different from each other when it comes to how they orgasm]
d) Porn seems to make it out like anal is the next step in a progression of pleasure: oral, vaginal, anal. I think some guys are influenced by that.
e) for me personally, I don't get that much better sensations on my cock from a woman's ass than I get from her vagina. Maybe some men do. Plus, there are not many women can take me in their ass, even with a good amount of training. My partner uses a plug almost every time, so she enjoys some anal stimulation as well as the additional fullness, but no way can she take me in her ass. Maybe someday, but not at the present.
f) However, I do like anal sex for a couple of reasons even though my partner can't do it [yet].
1. It feels more raw, more primal, and therefore more intimate. We have to cooperate a good bit to get that thing in there.
2. I'm a penetrator. It's not a choice; it's just how I am wired. I am compelled by my masculine energy to penetrate: metaphorically, as in enter her mind and psyche, and physically, through her openings- hopefully all of them: mouth, cunt, and ass. It's just a primal impulse. When I have her pinned down flat on the bed and I'm on top, spreading her ass cheeks so I can push my cock into her cunt, and when I see her asshole, I feel a strong impulse to penetrate her there as well.
g) Anal hygiene is NOT like what you see in porn. I'm pretty sure those ass-to-mouth women porn have had a zillion enemas before they do that. Realistically, if you eat shit and you will get sick. Ass-to-pussy is almost guaranteed to cause a UTI or infection. I have fucked a gf in the ass and had shit on my dick once. Meh, no big, I cleaned up. Skin washes off pretty well. Generally, though, the rectum is pretty clean, even without an enema, but it's not sterile. If you want to do that crazy porno-style anal sex, you probably should do an enema in advance.
- Whenever I was in a sexual relationship or fling that included anal penetration, I tended to do the anal fuck last, like a dessert after a nice meal, or if it was a prolonged session, I stopped and went and cleaned up, then went on from there. Same with fingers and thumbs and toys.. done lots of that kind of anal play with women, but I always err on the side of caution to clean up quickly and to not allow a digit that was in her ass to then go in her pussy. One of my favorite things is hand fucking a bent-over woman with a thumb in her ass and fingers in her vagina, ramming in and out, almost fisting her cunt, while squeezing on the membranes in between. I did that to one woman in the large walk-in shower, and she was howling [yes, literally], grabbing the shower walls to brace herself against the rough fuck and steady herself as she had an intense long orgasm. But we were in a shower, and everything was all soaped up, so it was pretty clean and hygienic.
h) common sense: If it hurts, you're not doing it right. It takes some skill and practice for a woman to relax that part of your body. Lube, of some kind, is mandatory. It can be intensely good, though I hate to say it's for every woman. [Sorry, in my experience, and I pay attention, women differ from each other more than they know in their sexual-psychological wiring.] Lastly, respect the germs.

Unfortunately, there is a big taboo about sex education in the United States, at least, so a lot of inexperienced and uninformed folks learn about sex from porn. Aside from tutorials from people like Nina Hartley, porn is not the best place to learn about sex. It just becomes the default. Answer: there needs to be some actual damn sex education, but most states in this country at least preach abstinence-only.

 

[AutisticBits]

I seem to be in the minority, but I have no interest in anal sex lol

 

[Buttboy7869]

I want a guy to fuck my wife’s ass before me so that she is warmed up for me. I want to use his cum as lube in my wife’s ass.

I’ve done exactly that and it’s hot as hell.

 

[Swuq]

I’ve done exactly that and it’s hot as hell.

I have cum on my top’s cock and he used it as lube to fuck me.

 

[nedthebundler]

Personally, it's one of three entirely different sensations you can have during sex with a Woman.

Oral - She can use many combinations of lips, tongue, teeth, suction and throat muscles to produce the most pleasant/painful feelings. Most Women have their limits as to the size of and how deeply they can take a penis.
Vaginal - The vagina exerts a firm, even grip on your penis over whatever length is inserted. Again, most Women can only take so much before physically reaching limits that cause pain.

Anal - There is only contact pressure where your penis is being touched by her sphincter. Once you are past it, there is no bottoming out.

Although I can't comment on what it feels like for a Woman, I do want her to be a willing and active participant.

Sometimes, her making it appear to be an unwanted or taboo act just adds to the experience.

 

[Alpha_femboy]

Mostly because it looks small , tight and more pleasurable and feels a bit different

 

[phil1955]

In terms of pleasure fucking a pussy is just fine but it does become special if a woman will let you take her ass. For me it is more mental but it does up the ante mentally especially if she has to struggle a little bit to take your cock. Sort of like a woman that will let you cum in her mouth and swallow. You just love the willingness on her part.

 

[LMWM321]

Because a woman's anus looks very appealing to me and because I know it's the door to a deep and wide orifice. And when we fuck I DON'T think about it's purpose any more than I do the primary purposes of her mouth, her breasts or her vagina. ..When we're having sex, her anus is there for our pleasure just like those other parts of her body. That is, of course, if she allows it to be - which is usually, but not always.

I can most assuredly tell you it is NOT because putting a finger, my tongue, a plug or my cock (rarely - I'm too girthy) inside her ass makes me feel dominant or because it humiliates her (thank you Simone de Beauvoir or Camille Paglia or whoever it was who posited that idea). Those notions are ridiculous. Indeed, I love being being on the receiving end of anal activities - including a hard, deep pegging - and I sure as hell don't feel like I'm being dominated or humiliated.

The simple fact of the matter is that If done properly, slowly and with lots of lube... having something shoved up my butt feels fucking awesome, so I'd like to think it feels the same for my partner.

 

[Waiter519123]

If you anticipate anal, it is always good to prep before hand. At least that is my preference if I expect to give up my ass.

My wife was not a fan of anal. How ever her married best friend was and aways came prepared with no risk of pregnancy.
Most of all very tight.
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[UtilityCurve]

Because a woman's anus looks very appealing to me and because I know it's the door to a deep and wide orifice. And when we fuck I DON'T think about it's purpose any more than I do the primary purposes of her mouth, her breasts or her vagina. ..When we're having sex, her anus is there for our pleasure just like those other parts of her body. That is, of course, if she allows it to be - which is usually, but not always.

I can most assuredly tell you it is NOT because putting a finger, my tongue, a plug or my cock (rarely - I'm too girthy) inside her ass makes me feel dominant or because it humiliates her (thank you Simone de Beauvoir or Camille Paglia or whoever it was who posited that idea). Those notions are ridiculous. Indeed, I love being being on the receiving end of anal activities - including a hard, deep pegging - and I sure as hell don't feel like I'm being dominated or humiliated.

The simple fact of the matter is that If done properly, slowly and with lots of lube... having something shoved up my butt feels fucking awesome, so I'd like to think it feels the same for my partner.

Humiliate? Ridiculous. Dominate? I hazard that the overwhelming majority of women who offer themselves feel dominated in EXACTLY the best way.

 

[magic_rat]

You are probably one of the few she has allowed if anyone to fuck her ass.

Lol not in our case.

For me, it's the ultimate hole a woman can give you. When you take her in the ass, you own her in a way few men will ever "own" her. Some women cum from being ass fucked. Not to mention it is tighter and hotter than the pussy.

For me it's the ultimate gift I can give a guy in a 3some. You should see faces light up when I ask them if they want to fuck her ass.

 

[Exploringwife46]

Its probably the most submissive act i can think of for me, so its probably a dominant feeling for most men. And its the this is so wrong but if feels so right situation.

 

[magic_rat]

I can most assuredly tell you it is NOT because putting a finger, my tongue, a plug or my cock (rarely - I'm too girthy) inside her ass makes me feel dominant or because it humiliates her (thank you Simone de Beauvoir or Camille Paglia or whoever it was who posited that idea). Those notions are ridiculous.

Ridiculous to you maybe, reality for others.

Indeed, I love being being on the receiving end of anal activities - including a hard, deep pegging - and I sure as hell don't feel like I'm being dominated or humiliated.

I love being on the receiving end, but again, au contraire: if I allow my partner to use a dido on me I'm vulnerable and submissive. Doubly so if a man holds me down and fucks me; I only do it because the feeling of emasulation and humiliation are exquisite.

 

[dawnonyou]

So what do you guys enjoy about ass fucking us girls?

Is it a dominating thing?
Because its (Kinda) Taboo?
Or because you know its about your pleasure mostly?

Also we girls have noticed when our holes are tighter you guys generally seem to take things more easy.
But when you realise our holes are trained enough to take it rough and hard, even I have noticed many guys get into a frenzy like state and get super horny and really give a hard anal pounding.

Is this because you know we are used enough to take a cock hardcore?

Do you enjoy the slow anal session or porn hardcore ass pounding style?

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I think that guys that prefer anal over vaginal are typically looking to avoid the risk of getting a girl pregnant. Or they want the "tight fit" if they have a smaller diameter penis. Or, in some cases if they are fucking an ugly girl than keeping her face down is less upsetting. (that last one was a dark joke)

 

[Bisexguy70]

Theres nothing hotter and feels more incredible than giving my buddy a good anal fucking. His ass walls are like velvet and every time ive ever fucked him ive cum ropes. I start out slow, grind my groin against his hips, pull out and put my cock back in. Most times I end up slamming my cock deep inside him. The whole time I leak precum and it feels as though i have mini orgasms. Why wouldnt anybody not like that.

 

[magic_rat]

I think that guys that prefer anal over vaginal are typically looking to avoid the risk of getting a girl pregnant. Or they want the "tight fit" if they have a smaller diameter penis. Or, in some cases if they are fucking an ugly girl than keeping her face down is less upsetting. (that last one was a dark joke)

None of the above.