Why do you guys love anal?

[LMWM321]

I love being on the receiving end, but again, au contraire: if I allow my partner to use a dido on me I'm vulnerable and submissive. Doubly so if a man holds me down and fucks me; I only do it because the feeling of emasulation and humiliation are exquisite.

In the context of consensual sex, the act of anal sex is NOT inherently humiliating OR dominating. Why would it be any more of those things than, say, putting a tongue in someone else's mouth?

My wife doesn't feel humiliated or dominated by it. ..I don't feel humiliated or dominated by it. We both have a pretty keen sense for when we're being treated badly by someone but anal sex, giving or receiving, conjures NO such feelings in either of us. So why?

If someone derives kinky pleasure from feeling humiliated or dominated by consensual anal sex it, that's fine. ..But it's their choice to feel that way.

As to being held down and forcibly fucked in the ass? ..Well, that sounds like rape to me. Just sayin'

 

[UtilityCurve]

I think that guys that prefer anal over vaginal are typically looking to avoid the risk of getting a girl pregnant.

Or they want the "tight fit" if they have a smaller diameter penis.

As a guy, I disagree with both.

Any time I come in or near a girl's pussy, pregnancy is a risk. Anal may reduce it somewhat, but it's not even a consideration.

And I assure you: No matter what a guy's diameter, he wants a snug, yes even tight, fit. If this were not true, you could jerk a guy to completion with a loose grip. Good luck with that!

You'd have to carefully review the answers here, but I am confident that men seek the unique sensations, enjoy her submissiveness and feel like minor royalty when she offers it.

A few women have said they feel a certain pride which echoes in them as feminine satisfaction when they are able to offer this pleasure. For my part, I express my pleasure every way I can (including what seems like a larger ejaculation). I hope that pleases HER in the way that feels best.

There is no reason that this should not be the mutual height of pleasure for a couple. BOTH of them.

 

[wrodgers89]

So what do you guys enjoy about ass fucking us girls?

Is it a dominating thing?
Because its (Kinda) Taboo?
Or because you know its about your pleasure mostly?

Also we girls have noticed when our holes are tighter you guys generally seem to take things more easy.
But when you realise our holes are trained enough to take it rough and hard, even I have noticed many guys get into a frenzy like state and get super horny and really give a hard anal pounding.

Is this because you know we are used enough to take a cock hardcore?

Do you enjoy the slow anal session or porn hardcore ass pounding style?

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Not really my thing but I do it if that's what she wants. The first two holes have always served me just fine.

 

[PoetM]

So what do you guys enjoy about ass fucking us girls?

Is it a dominating thing?
Because its (Kinda) Taboo?
Or because you know its about your pleasure mostly?

Also we girls have noticed when our holes are tighter you guys generally seem to take things more easy.
But when you realise our holes are trained enough to take it rough and hard, even I have noticed many guys get into a frenzy like state and get super horny and really give a hard anal pounding.

Is this because you know we are used enough to take a cock hardcore?

Do you enjoy the slow anal session or porn hardcore ass pounding style?

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For me, as a Dom, I will say it falls a lot in the first two. Domination and taboo. It goes a lot deeper however. To delve a little deeper I consider myself 3 parts (Man, Dom and Beast)...The Dom or in control portion of course loves that Domination element of anal. It's an amazing feeling after disciplining a good naughty girl and having her ass up and tapping her ass telling her to pull her cheeks open and have her obey. Swatting her ass till her fingers are whitened at the tips to make sure she is pulling wide. Then teasing that tight star with a phat hood before penetrating. So much there to all of that but in addition unlike vaginal sex anal is purely about the Domination aspect. One can't make the excuse it was more "sensual or romantic" because you're surely not doing it to impregnate...so it's more raw lust in that sense.

The Beast (overlaps with the Dom). He is primal...and he gets turned on by the primal nature of it. That mixture of discipline and pain caused by penetrating until she adjusts and acclilmates..takes it. There is a primal desire to mark a female completely and usually taking her ass is a primary last point for completeness.

This is not to say slower is not enjoyable...it can be. Ultimately I focus on what I call "positive energy" kink...I want my sub to fall into SS...ultimately be turned on. So if that's the best path that's where I'd steer.

One final thing...cumming in each hole varies a great deal and it's pleasing to experience. This goes back up with the primal aspects but when you cum in an ass since it is a constant squeeze you have to force the injection of that seed i.e. in a mouth or pussy you are cumming fully when you're both pulling out and pushing in. In general in a tight ass that squeeze requires a hard push to inject each spurt...which is also hot.

Perhaps more detailed of an answer than you were looking for but I could go on ;P

 

[StrongMaster7]

Where to start?

Anal is beyond the outer limits for most women. So any woman who would consider it, is very exciting. It is super-tight and very warm. Yes, there is a pain/BDSM aspect to it for some women. That is hot to me. A woman who enjoys a little pain is very exciting to me. Very sexual.

 

[Britva415]

Not really my thing but I do it if that's what she wants. The first two holes have always served me just fine.

My roommate used to say “why would I fuck an asshole when there’s a pussy less than an inch away?”

Of course, he did it when she wanted him to.

 

[Biglibido99]

Its probably the most submissive act i can think of for me, so its probably a dominant feeling for most men. And its the this is so wrong but if feels so right situation.

Yes, and also the thought that she would open herself up like that for me is such a strong feeling of being desired
Maybe also the thought of a woman that he desires me so much in every possible, dirty physical way?

 

[Swuq]

I love anal for many reasons. First, prepping for my top. Shaving my pussy, douching and bleaching my hole to pussy pink. I enjoy painting my toes and applying makeup. Meeting him at my door and kissing while he feels my clit as we kiss. Getting on all fours and have him eat my pussy before lubing. Getting into missionary so we have eye contact and kiss before he penetrates me. Finally submitting to him as he breathes deeply while he initially begins thrusting into me. The feeling of his hard cock in my boipussy as he gets closer to cumming. Flipping over to doggy as he holds my hips and pounds my pussy as he approaches climax. Finally, hearing him moan as his body tenses shooting his load in me. Feeling him pull out while he leaves me on the bed to clean up. Hearing him tell me I was great fuck as he goes home to his wife.

 

[Islander55]

My wife was not a fan of anal. How ever her married best friend was and aways came prepared with no risk of pregnancy.
Most of all very tight.
https://i.ibb.co/5FTFMHr/IMG-3614.gif

Pregnancy risks is the big advantage to anal. That is how I got started with it in my younger days.

 

[NightBirdNYC]

I hate that I can't enjoy porn anymore from my favorite sites. Government decided that Texans can't enjoy them anymore. Anyone have the same issue???
My favorite is anal and men stroking cocks and my imagination is running out because I get my ideas from them.
It's part of the reason why I don't masturbate as much. :-(

The easy way around that is to do what I do. Use a VPN (virtual private network which is cheap and what I consider to be essential on any.computer or phone connected to the internet. Look up PIA (Private Internet Access) you’ll be glad you did!

 

[Swm_looking4fun]

just my opinion
Ass sex can make a smaller guy feel big. They can hurt/make her feel it. A dominance play.
She has to prep lots of lube. Just not worth it for me.

 

[NightBirdNYC]

I LOVE anal! It’s just a different sensation, a different feeling of fullness, one that can actually bring me to orgasm at times. I often use it when I masturbate as well.
https://vlix.io/video/bdcad8e7300e202e7caa/

 

[Gambit33]

So what do you guys enjoy about ass fucking us girls?

Is it a dominating thing?
Because its (Kinda) Taboo?
Or because you know its about your pleasure mostly?

Also we girls have noticed when our holes are tighter you guys generally seem to take things more easy.
But when you realise our holes are trained enough to take it rough and hard, even I have noticed many guys get into a frenzy like state and get super horny and really give a hard anal pounding.

Is this because you know we are used enough to take a cock hardcore?

Do you enjoy the slow anal session or porn hardcore ass pounding style?

The Definition Of Balls Deep (nsfwmonster.io)


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