catalina_francisco
Happily insatiable always
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Desdemona said:ADR and Catalina, you two are SICK. LOL
And don't you just love it?!! Everyone knows only perverts are into this lifestyle..don't they?
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Desdemona said:ADR and Catalina, you two are SICK. LOL
catalina_francisco said:And don't you just love it?!! Everyone knows only perverts are into this lifestyle..don't they?
I think that's a really good point. So much of BDSM, submission and so on can seem to conflict with equality legislation---. I think a lot of people believe that even if a woman says "please tie me up and fuck me senseless" she doesn't REALLY mean it--she has been brainwashed or intimidated in some way.Madame Manga said:I don't get wiggy with it, if you mean that I condemn BDSM relationships out of hand without knowing the particulars. But there are two major obstacles in the way for most people who run across unfamiliar lifestyle practices.
One, they aren't inclined to ask about the genuine details of someone else's private life (especially when they almost always equate BDSM with specifically sexual kinks) and so they will rely on their own assumptions and information or misinformation. When I needed to know more about some ideas that I do not subscribe to, I came here to get it from the horse's mouth, but I think I am an exception.
Two, some aspects of some BDSM practices are distinguishable from criminal abuse only by the element of consent, and in legal reality, sometimes not even then. If a man whips, cuts or physically confines his wife or girlfriend, he can go to jail for it no matter what she says. Prosecution is up to the district attorney, not the "victim". Even if a man only accepts a woman's service as her master in BDSM terms, he is liable to be despised as a Neanderthal throwback, at the very least. I cannot explain what I have learned about BDSM to most of my feminist-identified friends; it doesn't accord with their value systems, and so they dismiss it out of hand.
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Never said:Vanillas are so intolerant and close-minded.
If only they were like wonderful BDSMers. I mean, people in BDSM are always tolerant, always open-minded, never pre-judge people, never try to cram others into their narrow view of humanity, and certainly never think others are wrong because they’re doing something differently.
And they excrete strawberry yogurt. Can’t forget the strawberry yogurt.
A Desert Rose said:And one more....