Why Won't He Give Me Anal?

[Nyiatha]

Bravo!

 

[dman4887]

That's awesome! I'm so happy for you. Keep us posted on your continual progress.

 

[BlueyeGuy51]

Sounds like you're well on your way to enjoying more pleasure on the road less travelled!

 

[icandothis]

Sounds like you're well on your way to enjoying more pleasure on the road less travelled!

Blue,
Thanks for the good thought. I feel as if we're again on the same page and looking forward to the journey.

 

[bigrob007]

Just a newbie but I've enjoyed reading your progress a lot. Sounds you've almost got him where you want him, push on!

 

[icandothis]

Things are going well, its been almost 1 1/2 (?)weeks since I started wearing the butt plug and I am now able to wear it comfortably. I've worn it to work a few times, while running errands, swimming, and usually to bed so that it is in place if/when we have sex.

I'm a petite woman, and even though the butt plug is one of the smaller ones it still gives me a wonderful feeling of fullness, and depending upon what I am doing (aside from having sex with my lover) has produced several mild orgasms while I have had it in place. For example I was stressed out and rushing through the airport and suddenly I could feel the clitoral tingling that signals an orgasm is building. A few days ago I had it in and was swimming laps when again I began feeling a tightness in my ass and that tingling sensation that resulted in my experiencing a very nice orgasm while swimming.

We continue to enjoy ass play (licking, kissing, finger insertion, etc), but it's not really enough anymore and I think we're both ready to actually try full anal penetration. Are we making too big a deal of this? Are we rushing things? Do we need to increase the size of the plug first? Should we just go for it and see what happens? My lover is finally excited and enthused about completing the act with me, but is nonetheless concerned about "hurting" me and is adamant about our doing things the right way.

 

[bigrob007]

I don't think you're making to big of a deal at all. If you think if you're ready and he's ready then get the lube out and have some raunchy fun!

 

[A_gentleman_lvr]

Dman,
Good morning.

Actually someone had suggested the butt plugs and I bought a set with graduated sizes over the weekend. I have them in my bedside drawer and I'm looking at them right now! I tried the smallest one when I first got them and I couldn't even get it in, I was so tight. I haven't tried again, they just look so daunting.

Great progress. Ever since replying to your message I've been wanting to take my partner in her ass so bad. I think she'd freak if I got a butt plug but we used to have small glass dildo that would be the perfect size. Bigger than fingers but not as big as my cock. Just curious how women feel about double penetration? I think I want to get her on all fours and put the vibrator in her pussy and dildo in her anus at the same time. I doubt she'd ever play with my anus like that or put anything in it. Maybe it's weird but I'm curious what it would be like if she fucked my ass with a dildo until she made me cum. I think she might like having that kind of control over me.

 

[icandothis]

Great progress. Ever since replying to your message I've been wanting to take my partner in her ass so bad. I think she'd freak if I got a butt plug but we used to have small glass dildo that would be the perfect size. Bigger than fingers but not as big as my cock. Just curious how women feel about double penetration? I think I want to get her on all fours and put the vibrator in her pussy and dildo in her anus at the same time. I doubt she'd ever play with my anus like that or put anything in it. Maybe it's weird but I'm curious what it would be like if she fucked my ass with a dildo until she made me cum. I think she might like having that kind of control over me.

I must admit that I initially found the whole idea of the butt plug pretty daunting, but once I learned how to insert it and became comfortable wearing it it was fine, in fact as I mentioned in an earlier post just having it in and going about my regular activities on a couple of occasions resulted in pussy wetting orgasms!

Get her a small one as a surprise and help her insert it, major thing is to be and stay relaxed. And once you have her comfortable and confident with the butt plug and she's having fantastic sex with it inside of her double penetration can't be that far off.

 

[icandothis]

My lover and I were finally able this past weekend to have our first anal sex (intercourse?, I'm not sure which word is correct). We had to attempt it twice, but the second time was wonderful, just how I wanted it to be. I think the first time we were too excited and rushing, just trying to get it over with, totally forgetting everything we had learned. Because of the pain and discomfort it was over before it really began. My lover, being the wonderful man that he is, calmed me down (I was crying out of frustration and embarassment), got me relaxed with a stiff glass of brandy, gave me a refresher about the need to push out in order to let him come in, a lower back massage, and a fabulous orgasm (thank you sweetie )).

The second attempt went without a hitch, with no real pain, just a dull feeling of discomfort that I think adds to the overall sensation of fullness. In all honesty I can say I wouldn't want to do this every night (I don't think for us it will every replace good ole regular sex), but for those times when we want to do something differ and slightly naughty, this is my first choice. And for all of the other emotions and feeling that for me are associated with anal sex, it's something special to plan and look forward to when we feel the urge.

Thanks all of you who helped us through this with your posted comments, "coaching" and PMs.

 

[FSUBasketball]

Congratulations on your first anal! Welcome to the club!!

 

[jet_nebula]

My lover and I were finally able this past weekend to have our first anal sex (intercourse?, I'm not sure which word is correct). We had to attempt it twice, but the second time was wonderful, just how I wanted it to be. I think the first time we were too excited and rushing, just trying to get it over with, totally forgetting everything we had learned. Because of the pain and discomfort it was over before it really began. My lover, being the wonderful man that he is, calmed me down (I was crying out of frustration and embarassment), got me relaxed with a stiff glass of brandy, gave me a refresher about the need to push out in order to let him come in, a lower back massage, and a fabulous orgasm (thank you sweetie )).

The second attempt went without a hitch, with no real pain, just a dull feeling of discomfort that I think adds to the overall sensation of fullness. In all honesty I can say I wouldn't want to do this every night (I don't think for us it will every replace good ole regular sex), but for those times when we want to do something differ and slightly naughty, this is my first choice. And for all of the other emotions and feeling that for me are associated with anal sex, it's something special to plan and look forward to when we feel the urge.

Thanks all of you who helped us through this with your posted comments, "coaching" and PMs.

Excellent. I wish you many happy rear entries in the future.

 

[icandothis]

Excellent. I wish you many happy rear entries in the future.

Jet,
Thank you

 

[infinity706]

My lover and I were finally able this past weekend to have our first anal sex (intercourse?, I'm not sure which word is correct).

Intercourse is the polite word for fucking. You can just add the body part if you're not only talking about vaginal. You can have oral, anal, intercrural (thigh), auxillary (armpit), manual (hands), podial (feet) mammary (tits), or intergluteal (ass crack).

 

[Tmmldr]

My lover and I were finally able this past weekend to have our first anal sex (intercourse?, .....

what's a better way to say it?

 

[Hiliburn]

icandothis- thanks for sharing! It was really hot and informative and a lovely reminder for me that it has been too long, lol
take care!

 

[klippert]

My lover and I were finally able this past weekend to have our first anal sex (intercourse?, I'm not sure which word is correct). We had to attempt it twice, but the second time was wonderful, just how I wanted it to be. I think the first time we were too excited and rushing, just trying to get it over with, totally forgetting everything we had learned. Because of the pain and discomfort it was over before it really began. My lover, being the wonderful man that he is, calmed me down (I was crying out of frustration and embarassment), got me relaxed with a stiff glass of brandy, gave me a refresher about the need to push out in order to let him come in, a lower back massage, and a fabulous orgasm (thank you sweetie )).

The second attempt went without a hitch, with no real pain, just a dull feeling of discomfort that I think adds to the overall sensation of fullness. In all honesty I can say I wouldn't want to do this every night (I don't think for us it will every replace good ole regular sex), but for those times when we want to do something differ and slightly naughty, this is my first choice. And for all of the other emotions and feeling that for me are associated with anal sex, it's something special to plan and look forward to when we feel the urge.

This little ride too anal sex pleasure has worn me out...I'm truly glad you and your lover have enjoyed the pleasure of back door sex.....I luv'd reading about him feeling the butt-plug while making love to you....That may turn out too be more of a sexual activity than you think..... for me, when Mrs K has her small vibe up her butt and Im in her pussy..... that sensation is NEAR sexual perfection.
Please keep up to date... I do luv hearing about your oral activities....

 

[PhilGarlic]

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[QUOTE=icandothis; he just seems so closed minded

I think you answered your own question.

 

[icandothis]

Klippert,
I think you may be right regarding the butt plug. At least once or twice a week he will ask me to wear the plug and occasionally even insists on helping me put it in. Since the very beginning he's raved about the fantastic feelings he has when the plug in my ass and he is stroking into my pussy.

Although anytime is a good time to have sex our favorite time is early in the morning before we get out of bed. I think he enjoys that time so much because he usually has morning wood. He says the feeling of having his throbbing, rock hard erection thrusting into my pussy while the plug is in my ass is mind blowing. Each time he strokes in or out he can feel the contours of the hard plug against his cock. The friction, the pressure, the increased tightness of my pussy are all enhanced and magnified by the butt plug.

 

[PhilGarlic]

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Each time he strokes in or out he can feel the contours of the hard plug against his cock. The friction, the pressure, the increased tightness of my pussy are all enhanced and magnified by the butt plug.[/QUOTE]

Something I haven't tried but thanks for the tip, butt plug on my to get list, any ones in particular?

 

[Man_in_Chester]

Just a thought

Over the last year or so I've developed a renewed curiosity about anal sex and would love to experiment, but I can't get my current lover to give me anal. I did it a few times many years ago with a previous boyfriend and though it was uncomfortable and a little painful at first, but he was considerate and thoughtful and never really hurt me in anyway. The feeling of fullness when he was completely inside me and the feelings of submission, safety and protectedness when he orgasmed and held me tightly to him made the discomfort well worth it. I physically and emotionally want my current lover to fuck me in the ass! I know he'd love it if he did it, but he just seems so closed minded and really hasn't given me a good reason why he won't do it. I need some advice. . .

Is he looong enough?
No way to talk to a lady, so I had better explain myself:
Does HE think he is long enough?

 

[Que]

you can't actually know that he would love it... you aren't actually attach the nerve endings in his dick. personally I always loved the naughty aspect of it the few times that we engaged in that, and in contradiction to learn bout to say come to think of it I also enjoy it with the next two women I was with... considering how much you are obviously into it I probably would like it with you simply because that is the part that I liked.... her arousal over having it done to her.

I've heard mention of gus who prefer for that snug fit for me it just felt too snug... it feels chafing to me until you reach that stayed up really good arousal where it is actually kind of self lubricating

 

[ButtAnalMan]

Anal is hot. Nuff said.

Woooooooooow

 

[bbw4youngercocks1]

Anal gives some of the best orgasms.

 

[Bbb13]

Any other stimulation needed?