Women of Lit: A Safe Place To Share

[Christy2Cum]

Oh, he also wrote that by swearing and wearing tight/revealing clothing I debase my true self and become more "animalistic," prompting men to treat me like an animal and use me for their pleasure. If I talk and dress more "befitting my sex", then I will gain "respect and admiration" instead of luring men to "act out their bestial lust."

It's all pushed me right out of my normal anxiety into seething anger, and that's not a good place for me to be. I've worked hard to be able to understand and work with anxiety. I'm not good with dealing with persistent anger. And it's not healthy for me or the babies either.

Holy shit is all I can say.
I've had my fair share of assholes on this site and have no problem telling them off, but it seems to be getting worse lately.
Why do guys not realize that we (women) are here for our own fun, and not to do what they want and especially not exceed the boundaries we have clearly outline, like meeting in real life?

 

[nyc_cutie]

Story time, ladies: today I had the pleasure of being given the ultimatum by a lovely gentleman on here to either entertain the possibility of us having an irl relationship in the future or I can leave. So, I did one better and blocked him.
I made it quite clear without any faltering that our interactions would be purely online. Yet, he somehow wove it into an issue of him being worthy of a chance and that he won't back down from his viewpoint.
Uh, fucking what?!
Buddy, if you walk into a store wanting boots & they tell you they only sell sneakers, then you better boot scoot your way on down to another store; not berate the sneaker store for simply honestly stating the way things are.
Heaven forbid I have boundaries and express, enforce, & stick by them .

“Boot scoot your way down to another store” has so much more pizzazz than the generic “go kick rocks”

 

[Zrosey]

If I talk and dress more "befitting my sex", then I will gain "respect and admiration" instead of luring men to "act out their bestial lust

I can imagine the "dress more befitting my sex" part...a handmaids tale head covering and formless robe.
I'd laugh if I didn't know how serious some of these folks out there want all women subjugated.

 

[lil_jenni]

I can imagine the "dress more befitting my sex" part...a handmaids tale head covering and formless robe.
I'd laugh if I didn't know how serious some of these folks out there want all women subjugated.

It's for our own good, to protect us from men... And more importantly, from ourselves...

Anyway, I seem to have hurt his feelings by opening up here. A brand new alt PMed me to let me know he decided I was a lost cause. At first, he thought I was smart and sweet but misled by society and men, and I just needed some proper guidance (at fucking 36 years old). But my recalcitrance and "feeble" attempt at shaming him convinced him I was not as intelligent as he thought, and that I would never be more than a low woman and a slave to men and my baser instincts.

God/goddess/whoever my be listening, I hope he's serious about giving up on me.

 

[InCNCestBangPie]

“Boot scoot your way down to another store” has so much more pizzazz than the generic “go kick rocks”

Haha, I do try

 

[stickygirl]

Happy International Women's Day

 

[Zrosey]

Anyway, I seem to have hurt his feelings by opening up here.

Pretty sure I don't have this quoted accurately, but I think the saying is,
"Change never happens or comes from quiet, obedient women!"
Speaking up and being loud is power!

 

[RachelWalsh]

Why are you here?

I was curious too

 

[Lady2020]

One of the things that really bothers me about a few Lit men is their stance on hand/blow jobs, that it's something they love. Then later they say they're not really into it, but he's really into 100+ other kinks, like wanting me to be his high school teacher he had a hard on for when in high school. Like I'm some bimbo to relive their gd high school fantasies.

 

[SofiaLaFrench]

Kyleigh's Mom Ch. 02 is scheduled to publish tomorrow, March 18! Check it out and see if you can spot the nod to @InCNCestBangPie!

 

[SweetBaybeeGirl]

I guess that's right.

Agree. I would never talk to a couple that share an account.

 

[v_indigo]

Agree. I would never talk to a couple that share an account.

Agreed. It’s creepy

 

[SweetBaybeeGirl]

Agreed. It’s creepy

I don’t trust easily so I’m not sure I would ever talk to “a couple “

 

[SweetBaybeeGirl]

Hi everyone! 34 divorced and now totally lesbian and out with family and friends.

 

[stickygirl]

Hi everyone! 34 divorced and now totally lesbian and out with family and friends.

You don't have to be lesbian to share this thread...
but it doesn't do any harm
Welcome

 

[SofiaLaFrench]

Hi everyone! 34 divorced and now totally lesbian and out with family and friends.

Happy to hear that you're finally able to be yourself! Welcome!

 

[SweetBaybeeGirl]

Happy to hear that you're finally able to be yourself! Welcome!

Thank you!

 

[marriedbigrl]

Hi everyone! 34 divorced and now totally lesbian and out with family and friends.

That's awesome!!!!! Welcome!

 

[Christy2Cum]

Hi everyone! 34 divorced and now totally lesbian and out with family and friends.

So nice to hear from another divorcee!

 

[SweetBaybeeGirl]

So nice to hear from another divorcee!

Mine was horrible . I will always have scars. Real and emotional.

 

[Christy2Cum]

Both my ex-husband and I were bisexual and we openly slept with other men and women, then one day he decided he wasn't bi but completely gay and left me to live with another man.
I was shocked and really hurt at first, then I moved on.
When he found out I still sleep with his brother and his SIL he tried to commit suicide, severe mental issues that are not my problem any more.

 

[SweetBaybeeGirl]

Both my ex-husband and I were bisexual and we openly slept with other men and women, then one day he decided he wasn't bi but completely gay and left me to live with another man.
I was shocked and really hurt at first, then I moved on.
When he found out I still sleep with his brother and his SIL he tried to commit suicide, severe mental issues that are not my problem any more.

Good for you. My ex is still an absolute abusive a-hole

 

[Christy2Cum]

Good for you. My ex is still an absolute abusive a-hole

Sorry you have to go through that, maybe I got lucky with an ex, never thought about it like that.
I did have several offers of people wanting to take out my ex and I'd be lying if I said I didn't consider it...

 

[stickygirl]

Heard this on the radio this morning... finally dickpics seen as a crime and the first asshole jailed in UK

 

[Strixaluco]

Heard this on the radio this morning... finally dickpics seen as a crime and the first asshole jailed in UK

Here we got the first one fined over dickpicks this year. The receiver was an adult, unlike that one in the UK.