Women who like to be taken forcefully

[NastyDom40]

Consenting to be taken in a non consent way comes right on top of my favorites. I love taking my woman that way ...

 

[babygirlslave19]

My two cents

As a masochistic sub, nothing gets me going like the thought of being taken forcefully. I've never had it in real life, but my mind often goes to that place where my Master is angry, rough and wishes to punish me by rape. I'm wired to think sex can be used as a tool of pleasure or a weapon. My mind generates violent situations, there is a fine line between consent and abuse.

 

[Specula]

As a masochistic sub, nothing gets me going like the thought of being taken forcefully. I've never had it in real life, but my mind often goes to that place where my Master is angry, rough and wishes to punish me by rape. I'm wired to think sex can be used as a tool of pleasure or a weapon. My mind generates violent situations, there is a fine line between consent and abuse.

you can consent to be 'abused'..... little things like nipple torture..... bigger things too.... tied down and violated.....

 

[bob29061234]

My wife had this fantasy and had me tie her up and come in as a stranger and she begged him to fuck her. She loved it blindfolded.
Wants that same fantasy a lot.

 

[Love2cum85]

Hi

I love the idea of being taken roughly but sadly my husband isn’t really comfortable with it. I think if your wife didn't enjoy it she would say so, so I would continue you push the boundaries with her. You never know how far she might be willing to go.

 

[Knoturnal]

Hi

I love the idea of being taken roughly but sadly my husband isn’t really comfortable with it. I think if your wife didn't enjoy it she would say so, so I would continue you push the boundaries with her. You never know how far she might be willing to go.

I’m not totally getting what your saying here. Consensual means just that and you shouldn't push what isn't.
Either way I don't think you have to be a genius to figure it out.

 

[croydon2000]

Yep..

I was with a "lady" who loved to be taken roughly whilst out...pushed on floor.....and rammed in...dress gets dirty...then brushes off and carries on night.xx

 

[eroticspank]

Hi

I love the idea of being taken roughly but sadly my husband isn’t really comfortable with it. I think if your wife didn't enjoy it she would say so, so I would continue you push the boundaries with her. You never know how far she might be willing to go.

I was with a lady many years ago that really liked it rough. She challenged me to twist and pinch her nipples very hard among other things. I felt like I was really hurting her so it was something I didn't find arousing. But later on I met a woman with similar interests and I did get into it. The difference was we talked and she was able to communicate how much of a turn on to her it was for me to be rough with her. That plus we talked about safety and my fears of hurting her etc. I was transformed.

I know talking and communication is not for everyone. We all have things in our nature that we just can't do, based on our past experiences and lifestyle. I do think it works sometimes as it did in my case.

ES

 

[Discoverer]

It seems most of us girls think pretty much the same. I don't know if men see it in my personality, maybe my size (I am rather small... well with one area being the exception), but most of my sexually active life, men have just "taken" me. Many times it was rough and very physical and I was used for their pleasures and then like my husband who would take me, but sometimes more loving and gentle and other times roughly. As some one mentioned about enjoying being used and giving pleasure, that is what I have always been taught and that also seems natural to me and gives me the most pleasure at the same time. It's hard to explain to anyone that does not have these feelings and to my thinking that would mostly be men as I believe most women have at least wanted a strong man, in complete control and taking what he needs, at some point in their lives. I do think that is natural. Personally, I prefer strong decisive men not only sexually, but socially and business. There is something very sexy about confident (not arrogant) strong men to me.

all of this makes sense to me, my hubby strong treats me with respect but fucks me hard holds me down grinds his cock into me, like to be taken as if i'm the water of life

You two may hold the key to my sexless marriage, which, if you readers will be patient with me, may relate to what this thread touches upon.

I was raised to respect women, to not force my will on them, to ask them first what they want, to satisfy them first, to never use a woman, etc. This carried over into my marriage. I don't take control of her much because I never know what she wants - she truly is a poor communicator. So, I wait for a clue, some inkling of what she wants and needs. Never happens. Her sexual tastes are vanilla, and because of our backgrounds, we don't experiment enough, nor do we talk about our sex life. It all spirals downward from there. I feel dejected, she feels unfulfilled, and neither of us figure out how to break the cycle.

Am I decisive? Yes, I know pretty much what I want, and I find ways to get it. I know what I want her to do for me. Not going to make her do any of it either, I want her to choose to do so. Does she want a strong man? Probably so, but she doesn't tell me what that means to her. Should I just "take what I need"? Perhaps, but she has never been too receptive to me or excited those times I have. Does this mean we are both lifelong subs and, like magnets, equal forces do not attract? I think some of my new friends in Lit can help from here....

 

[AlwaysFara]

You two may hold the key to my sexless marriage, which, if you readers will be patient with me, may relate to what this thread touches upon.

I was raised to respect women, to not force my will on them, to ask them first what they want, to satisfy them first, to never use a woman, etc. This carried over into my marriage. I don't take control of her much because I never know what she wants - she truly is a poor communicator. So, I wait for a clue, some inkling of what she wants and needs. Never happens. Her sexual tastes are vanilla, and because of our backgrounds, we don't experiment enough, nor do we talk about our sex life. It all spirals downward from there. I feel dejected, she feels unfulfilled, and neither of us figure out how to break the cycle.

Am I decisive? Yes, I know pretty much what I want, and I find ways to get it. I know what I want her to do for me. Not going to make her do any of it either, I want her to choose to do so. Does she want a strong man? Probably so, but she doesn't tell me what that means to her. Should I just "take what I need"? Perhaps, but she has never been too receptive to me or excited those times I have. Does this mean we are both lifelong subs and, like magnets, equal forces do not attract? I think some of my new friends in Lit can help from here....

Maybe a sex therapist or marriage counselor can.

 

[VioletII]

I’m more of a extremist than a true submissive, I think, so force during sex is one I adore. I like licking up his cum off the wall, but I want my head shoved down and ordered to do so. Weird rules, possession, etc. While I definitely have fantasies of being made to just “shut up and take it”, the person doing it is the person I love and trust so while non-con and force is hot to me, at the end of the day it’s consensual and love. I also have a fantasy of getting fondled and fucked awake by my partner while I sleep, some people have told me that’s not a healthy one because I’m not awake to say yes but if I’ve already said I want it, I think that’s good enough.

 

[eroticspank]

Stories

This seems to be one subject or fantasy area that is great for erotic stories.

We have talked about the problems of finding the right partner that understands the desire to be taken forcefully and still with limits, consent respected. When I read stories on here all of that is in each story with great animalistic fucking, awesome orgasms, unexpected emotions, intense play, all in a safe environment---in a story. Happy endings for all! (At least this is true for the really good stories in my opinion.)

ES

 

[EverFrumious]

The most important word in your post is 'communicator'. Both of you can benefit from learning some structured ways to express your needs and offer solutions. Communication is hard and we're not taught how to do it!

Personally I found a book called "Non-Violent Communication" by Marshall Rosenberg incredibly helpful. You don't need her to read it first: it will help you uncover her needs. It she's willing to try it, even better. That's my suggestion, take it as you would any comment from a stranger.

 

[MattIsRight]

Oh Hell Yes. When my ex started seeing escorts he suddenly changed. As lovers it was unspoken. As a married couple he would ask... like a shy boy. Such a fucking turn off. Can I do this , can I do that. WTF are we here for? So you can work on your game. "who has a pretty little pussy?" ... I don't want to sing, get down to business asshole. Can I do this? UGH. I was the scene partner in his little acting class. Working on game. Finally I just said NO. I knew he as cheating. I could have been anyone.

 

[SweetMarie2323]

For as long as I can remember I’ve always wanted sex to be rough & forceful. Being pushed & held down, my legs forced apart, feeling completely helpless; it’s all such a turn on for me. I’m drawn to both the physical feelings & the psychological implications.

 

[Knoturnal]

Myself I think this rough sex everyones talking about here falls into one of the areas of RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink.)When i first began BDSM and Kinky acts people were always talking about SSC (Safe, Sane, and Consensual.)

Some things might not be as safe as some think they are and some may not be as Sane. Then RACK became more of a battle cry if you will for things that might be a little rougher.

With Rack everyone involved needs to know the Risk involved and be consensually responsible in lots of ways by gaining knowledge of what it is they are doing for submissive, as well as Dom’s thats why we have safe words or most people should. Playing without any limits really isn't that smart. In some play bad things ARE possible.

Myself I believe and adhere to Rack. Everyone should be aware of the risk involved and that they consent to them. That makes things safer for all involved.

Some would argue that this isn't always possible but adhering to this is better when it is possible than doing acts that are not. Some don't want to take responsibility for the acts they are doing at all. Thats not my problem.

If you take care of the acts you inspire or begin then you are doing the most that you can for needed safety.

 

[HeidiThompson]

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[SubmissiveMom]

Yes please x read my posts x such a thrill when taken this way always during sexplay situations or just plain horny fucking x x x

 

[Knottybrat13]

This is my biggest fantasy, to be taken forcefully. I always prefer sex to be focused on the mans pleasure, and it turns me on when he will take what he wants because he can.

 

[Shi_One81]

I love it when I’m giving a bj and he grabs my hair and starts pushing and pulling my head up and down and I love it when he presses my head down all the way so I choke on his cock. Then, he’ll push me and shove himself into me while putting one hand on my throat and the other somewhere else on my body. I love it. I like a man to use my body however he needs to for his pleasure.

 

[Cubantripod]

Outside the bedroom my wife and I are like to giant moose bashing heads just like you see on the nature shows. In the bedroom, she is a total 180. She wife wants me to just take what I want. Sometimes I am not in the mood to fight. I just want her to go along with minimal pushback though.

 

[Deeannamontana]

Aggressive Men Rock!

I have often wondered how many women really like to be taken forcefully with the man in control.
My wife is not normally into S/M or anything like it, but sometimes I take her quite forcefully holding her hands over her head while fucking her and sucking and biting her tits and when she sits on top of me I grab her hips and ass very hard and force her down on my cock - and when we have done this she says afterwards that it was really good to be taken like that and to be without control.
Ihave had a similar experience with an earlier girlfriend, who normally liked it very gentle and soft, but sometimes got off really hard when I took command.
I would like to hear from both men and women your experiences and whether or not this would be an indication of her wanting more in that direction - and how I go about it - your help will be appreciated.
You can either send me a private message or give your opinion here - Thanks!

I love to be taken by and aggressive man, big man, muscular man; and crave being submissive!
Do NOT like violence and abuse.

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[Deeannamontana]

I love it when I’m giving a bj and he grabs my hair and starts pushing and pulling my head up and down and I love it when he presses my head down all the way so I choke on his cock. Then, he’ll push me and shove himself into me while putting one hand on my throat and the other somewhere else on my body. I love it. I like a man to use my body however he needs to for his pleasure.

I second that!

 

[Deeannamontana]

Is your wife a submissive naturally? If she isn't then she may not like sex in this way and only allow you to do it because she loves you x you need to discuss this with her x

I've been submissive sexually since my teens, when I first discovered masturbation and then sex. In the past 34 years since have experienced much more thanks to an experienced Dom first husband and a couple of Dom lovers and party experiences etc have experienced every type of forced sex and enjoyed in my own way but is not for everyone and maybe not for her if she is a normal loving wife x x x

Def. not for everyone.
Wouldn't have liked it when I was younger, but love it now!

 

[eroticspank]

I love to be taken by and aggressive man, big man, muscular man; and crave being submissive!
Do NOT like violence and abuse.

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Amazing! I used to have a bedspread that same style and color. Looks much better in this photo

ES