Women who like to be taken forcefully

[eroticspank]

Def. not for everyone.
Wouldn't have liked it when I was younger, but love it now!

Is the main turn on the fact that he is getting off on your body, using your body for his pleasure? Does that mean you can go through the scene without having an orgasm and still be satisfied because he did cum?

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[DominantGentleman45]

I love it when I’m giving a bj and he grabs my hair and starts pushing and pulling my head up and down and I love it when he presses my head down all the way so I choke on his cock. Then, he’ll push me and shove himself into me while putting one hand on my throat and the other somewhere else on my body. I love it. I like a man to use my body however he needs to for his pleasure.

I did this with my wife just yesterday. That and I had her on her stomach and pulled her arms back. She loved being pinned....

 

[AlwaysFara]

I love to be taken by and aggressive man, big man, muscular man; and crave being submissive!
Do NOT like violence and abuse.

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I know you’re all sexy, and shit, but that’s a horrible sunburn.

 

[Cindy69love]

I love being forced. That's why my boss gets me and hubby cleans up!

 

[warriorprincess9]

Once they go rough, they never go back.

I agree completely. Vanilla sex is a definite turn off for me.

 

[SparkyWalter]

For as long as I can remember I’ve always wanted sex to be rough & forceful. Being pushed & held down, my legs forced apart, feeling completely helpless; it’s all such a turn on for me. I’m drawn to both the physical feelings & the psychological implications.

I thoroughly enjoy when a woman loves to be taken and have slightly rough sex. There are other times where I want to make slow passionate love to my part there. It's nice to see that women like to be taken, but also I respect all women outside the bedroom and no one would ever know that's what we enjoy. I enjoy a submissive woman who loves to get an erotic spanking. No real pain just sensual domination. I enjoy binding her hands behind her as I take her from behind making her helpless for my every sexual whim.

It amazes me so many women enjoy having their hair pulled as well Not really yanked but having my hands in their hair as they're on their knees and I direct their face to my hard cock that they are more than willing to suck. Even pushing down on her head so she can take me deep in her throat. I enjoy it when a woman gags just a little bit. That really turns me on. However I also don't want to hurt her in any way. That's why you have to know what her limits and boundaries are even though she wants to submit, you want her to feel comfortable and satisfy her even if that means she only wants to pleasure you. I hope that makes sense. Sparky

 

[Dangerous_Curves27]

This is something I enjoy very very much. The rougher the better, in my opinion. Pull my hair, fuck me hard, choke me, smack my ass or breasts, etc.

 

[Katinhat1]

Oh sweetheart- I love how you stand....
I am an old butch lesbian who’d luv to put you into submission with such immense excitement and lust you can build on—-
What’s your first thought?
Oh oh ya that one lets go-

 

[Darkling_fae]

I got a taste of this about two years ago and now I can't get enough. The rougher the better in my book. Choking, slapping, gagging..... it's all wonderful.

 

[faraday69]

I love being rough with a woman. slapping, spanking, hair pulling, choking,

 

[hbcacouple]

I usually prefer tender and gentle but...

but sometimes, I like being taken very forcefully. Sometimes even brutally and painfully. Maybe more that sometimes. Harsh tit play sometimes really gets me to the greatest orgasms.

 

[VeraBad]

And how many of you women think about

being dominated by another woman?

 

[Blackandstrong]

I agree completely. Vanilla sex is a definite turn off for me.

For me, rough sex should always be followed with gentle caresses whilst the woman in question falls asleep in my arms, provided time permits. That is how it should be.

 

[AsiaRoamer]

For me, rough sex should always be followed with gentle caresses whilst the woman in question falls asleep in my arms, provided time permits. That is how it should be.

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[jessica767]

This is so me. I thought maybe I was interested in BDSM/being a sub etc but having experimented a bit in that area I've realised I'm not, I just enjoy rough sex.

 

[hardon4u2]

Jessica so refreshing to see a woman who enjoys rough sex.

 

[jessica767]

Nothing gained by being ashamed! and this is a good place to experiment and discuss these things.

 

[WrongVerb]

This is so me. I thought maybe I was interested in BDSM/being a sub etc but having experimented a bit in that area I've realised I'm not, I just enjoy rough sex.

I had the same realization the other way -- like giving spankings and restraining my lover during sexy time, but no interest in being a Dom or anything.

 

[badgirl2use]

Forceful / rough sex

From my point of view, I prefer to be taken. I like being dominated whether it be being held down as described with my hands held above my head or tied to the bed and him being a bit well forceful or tougher but that’s me.
Everyone’s different and I’m sure others enjoy it more gentle but not me.

 

[ace195008]

Open communications with your partner is real important also

 

[Rockwell12]

Just took one of those sex quizzes with the wife that match your interests. I had many "yes" items that matched to her many "if he's interested in it" answers. One of the few things she answered "yes" to, indicating a greater level of interest, was a desire to be submissive. I think it's not necessarily in my nature, but wanting to please her and support her kinks, I'm intrigued to give it a go. Just have to sort out exactly what that means for her. I'm pretty sure it's not full on Dom/sub type stuff. I think it's more like being bent over perhaps a bit forcibly and fucked from behind kind of stuff. I think she definitely doesn't have a rape fantasy but if she was into a man for instance and he "took" her, that'd be hot. She's told me about some of her fantasies she uses when she masturbates. Typically a guy in uniform like a police officer coercing her into sucking his dick and bending her over to fuck her. Similarly on a trip to Wyoming having a cowboy type from a trail ride bent her over something and fuck her from behind.

The quiz got the wheels in my head turning. A little disappointed that we didn't match on wanting it fist her (lol) but it did shed some light on other mutual interests.

 

[GuySLut]

What is this CNC that you speak of?

This is a new phrase for me. Please enlighten me.

 

[GuySLut]

maybe it's this?
consensual non-consent

Sounds fun.

 

[KimGordon67]

Just took one of those sex quizzes with the wife that match your interests. I had many "yes" items that matched to her many "if he's interested in it" answers. One of the few things she answered "yes" to, indicating a greater level of interest, was a desire to be submissive. I think it's not necessarily in my nature, but wanting to please her and support her kinks, I'm intrigued to give it a go. Just have to sort out exactly what that means for her. I'm pretty sure it's not full on Dom/sub type stuff. I think it's more like being bent over perhaps a bit forcibly and fucked from behind kind of stuff. I think she definitely doesn't have a rape fantasy but if she was into a man for instance and he "took" her, that'd be hot. She's told me about some of her fantasies she uses when she masturbates. Typically a guy in uniform like a police officer coercing her into sucking his dick and bending her over to fuck her. Similarly on a trip to Wyoming having a cowboy type from a trail ride bent her over something and fuck her from behind.

The quiz got the wheels in my head turning. A little disappointed that we didn't match on wanting it fist her (lol) but it did shed some light on other mutual interests.

This isn't the first time, even in this thread, that I've seen someone say something like this ... I always wonder what people think 'full on Dom/sub type stuff' actually is. For me, there's such a huge spectrum that comes under the 'd/s' category, including what you describe here, which sounds a great deal like your wife would like to submit to someone who's dominating her, and you're interesting in being on the dominating side of that equation.
You don't have to keep someone in a cage, or constantly call someone 'Sir' and not even get dressed without their permission, for a relationship to have a d/s dynamic. It doesn't have to be all the time - most guys I've talked to who're on the d side of the equation say that would just be exhausting, and also a little boring. And sometimes it can just be very little things. The last relationship I had, when my in charge guy and I were out doing stuff, sometimes when we held hands, he'd just hold me around my wrist instead. He wasn't telling me what to do, and I wasn't wanting him to ... it was just a reminder that, when we both wanted that, I was his.

 

[AccidentallyKinky]

I have often wondered how many women really like to be taken forcefully with the man in control.
My wife is not normally into S/M or anything like it, but sometimes I take her quite forcefully holding her hands over her head while fucking her and sucking and biting her tits and when she sits on top of me I grab her hips and ass very hard and force her down on my cock - and when we have done this she says afterwards that it was really good to be taken like that and to be without control.
Ihave had a similar experience with an earlier girlfriend, who normally liked it very gentle and soft, but sometimes got off really hard when I took command.
I would like to hear from both men and women your experiences and whether or not this would be an indication of her wanting more in that direction - and how I go about it - your help will be appreciated.
You can either send me a private message or give your opinion here - Thanks!

Being taken forcibly is open to interpretation. For me, a big part of sex is passion - I like to feel wanted and needed. I like the feeling of "I got to have you now." It's intoxicating knowing that a guy has an uncontrollable desire for you (consensually, of course).

I like rough sex. I like hair pulling, biting, gripping... I like to be taken. BUT, and this is a big but, there has to be some level of seduction to go with it. I do NOT like to feel used... I don't like feeling like an empty vessel for his pleasure. Rough sex is a dance for two. I like to be there for his pleasure... but he has to make me feel like a human being in the process, and not simply as an available fucktoy.