I'm so jealous! lol. I wouldn't even dream of seeing my husband with another man. I would just be happy if after 13 years he would allow me to do more than rim him. Hell, I can't even get a finger up into the first knuckle.
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I'm so jealous! lol. I wouldn't even dream of seeing my husband with another man. I would just be happy if after 13 years he would allow me to do more than rim him. Hell, I can't even get a finger up into the first knuckle.
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I have the opposite problem. My wife now knows that I'm bi, but won't consider things like using toys on me, never mind a strap-on. She doesn't rim at all, but will use a finger on me, rarely.
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I am bi sexual husband. I have not been with a man in years. My wife knows about me and loves the idea that I am bisexual. We watch bi or gay movies together. She would love to put on a strap and fuck me (which has not happened yet). She gave me rim job, fingering and using a toy up in my ass.
Right now, I am not looking for a man sexually however, it would be nice to know a bisexual men who lives in our area so we can share fantasies together.
Right now, I am not looking for a man sexually however, it would be nice to know a bisexual men who lives in our area so we can share fantasies together.
Well I can't tell you how much I appreciate seeing this thread. As a bi man I've faced nothing but discrimination and insecurity whenever I'm honest with my romantic partners about my sexual orientation. When you tell a woman you're bi, here's the usual reaction, in stages:
1. "Oh my God you're CHEATING on me aren't you!"
2. "Oh my God you're GOING to cheat on me aren't you?!"
3. "Oh my God you're going to LEAVE ME for a man, aren't you?!"
4. <repeat variations of the above ad infinitum until she calms the hell down and believes you when you say no.>
5. "Does this mean I should get tested for STDs?" (real quote.)
6. "Wait, are you telling me this because you want to do a threeway <mingled disgust/fear/desperately repressed arousal>?"
7. "I KNOW you've been cheating on me, you can't help it!" <repeat a few more variations.>
8. "Why have you been lying to me all this time?" (Gee, maybe cuz I knew this is how you'd take it...)
9. "I think you're disgusting, it's over, but instead of breaking up with you now I'm going to pretend that I'm comfortable with this so that we can go through six months of insecurity, paranoia, jealousy, anger, and unprovoked jealousy and recriminations."
10. "...you can tell me if you've been cheating, I won't get mad."
Sigh. You get the idea. And of course the only ones who take it worse than the women are the men (don't even get me started on gay men and anti-bi prejudice). Yeah, it's a tough lifestyle. But I'm glad there's SOME people out there who are open-minded enough not to completely lose their minds over this. Thanks ladies.
1. "Oh my God you're CHEATING on me aren't you!"
2. "Oh my God you're GOING to cheat on me aren't you?!"
3. "Oh my God you're going to LEAVE ME for a man, aren't you?!"
4. <repeat variations of the above ad infinitum until she calms the hell down and believes you when you say no.>
5. "Does this mean I should get tested for STDs?" (real quote.)
6. "Wait, are you telling me this because you want to do a threeway <mingled disgust/fear/desperately repressed arousal>?"
7. "I KNOW you've been cheating on me, you can't help it!" <repeat a few more variations.>
8. "Why have you been lying to me all this time?" (Gee, maybe cuz I knew this is how you'd take it...)
9. "I think you're disgusting, it's over, but instead of breaking up with you now I'm going to pretend that I'm comfortable with this so that we can go through six months of insecurity, paranoia, jealousy, anger, and unprovoked jealousy and recriminations."
10. "...you can tell me if you've been cheating, I won't get mad."
Sigh. You get the idea. And of course the only ones who take it worse than the women are the men (don't even get me started on gay men and anti-bi prejudice). Yeah, it's a tough lifestyle. But I'm glad there's SOME people out there who are open-minded enough not to completely lose their minds over this. Thanks ladies.
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You poor doll. I feel for you but I have to admit you made me giggle. I could so see those exact reactions from women. Not to put my sisters down, but a good many of them think things to damn death. They can't accept a statement just for what it is. In your case, you were trusting them by putting yourself out there and exposing your desires and preferences and they had to go and make it all about themselves. You hit the heart of the matter when you used the word insecurity.
Hopefully, you will find a woman out there that will be comfortable enough with herself that when you tell her you are bi she will see the positive possibilities to broaden her own sexual horizons and not to just drag out her insecurities and weigh you down with them.
best of luck,
PheeGee
You poor doll. I feel for you but I have to admit you made me giggle. I could so see those exact reactions from women. Not to put my sisters down, but a good many of them think things to damn death. They can't accept a statement just for what it is. In your case, you were trusting them by putting yourself out there and exposing your desires and preferences and they had to go and make it all about themselves. You hit the heart of the matter when you used the word insecurity.
Hopefully, you will find a woman out there that will be comfortable enough with herself that when you tell her you are bi she will see the positive possibilities to broaden her own sexual horizons and not to just drag out her insecurities and weigh you down with them.
best of luck,
PheeGee
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Damn. I knew I was lucky when my wife reacted by kissing me and saying, "I want to watch you," but the reminder always helps. I hope you find somebody who understands soon.
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Lucky SOB.
Ah, I forgot the ever important, ever reoccuring:
"This means you're gay right? You're gay and in denial? How long until you turn completely gay?"
Once I actually answered this one by saying: "About six more months. I signed onto a ten year plan back in college." Turns out, humor does NOT help defuse that situation. Oops.
"This means you're gay right? You're gay and in denial? How long until you turn completely gay?"
Once I actually answered this one by saying: "About six more months. I signed onto a ten year plan back in college." Turns out, humor does NOT help defuse that situation. Oops.
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2 Bi men looking for UK woman to join us
Hi
I am looking for a woman to join myself and another Lit guy - we want to explore our bi side, with a lady present, guiding, watching, touching and playing with us.
Any ladies in the Midlands, United Kingdom, please pm me and we can start by chatting online....see how it goes.
Thank you in advance
Mx
Hi
I am looking for a woman to join myself and another Lit guy - we want to explore our bi side, with a lady present, guiding, watching, touching and playing with us.
Any ladies in the Midlands, United Kingdom, please pm me and we can start by chatting online....see how it goes.
Thank you in advance
Mx
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Thought this could use a lil "bump" 
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Love this thread. Bi men are hot. Nuff said.
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Ha! I am reminded of on old episode of "sex in the city" where Samantha's gay friend Stanford and his boyfriend ask her to have sex with them. She's wearing a coral satin slip; they hand her onto the bed like a queen; the two men start kissing their way down her body... And I am watching this thinking "this isn't going to end well." And sure enough when they arrive at her crotch-- which is un-tented, and inches from their faces-- they raise their heads, look at each other, and say; "no." Pan up to her face looking disgruntled.
See, the thing is-- Pussy has a smell that is very different than the smell of a man's crotch. Even the cleanest freshest pussy will have some scent. And it's one we all react to in a much bigger way than the amount of smell would make you think. If you love pussy, you'll love the smell. If you don't love pussy-- NOT saying you hate it, just not like it-- you may react very badly to that smell.
So gay guys who are just getting to know about sex with a women-- I would say keep your nose away at first. Use your hands to explore until you get comfortable enough to take a sniff, okay?
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Another profound post- as one who loves pussy, I would never have thought of the aroma being a deal breaker ( aside from some horrid stench, of course). Leave it to Stella to point out what I missedHa! I am reminded of on old episode of "sex in the city" where Samantha's gay friend Stanford and his boyfriend ask her to have sex with them. She's wearing a coral satin slip; they hand her onto the bed like a queen; the two men start kissing their way down her body... And I am watching this thinking "this isn't going to end well." And sure enough when they arrive at her crotch-- which is un-tented, and inches from their faces-- they raise their heads, look at each other, and say; "no." Pan up to her face looking disgruntled.
See, the thing is-- Pussy has a smell that is very different than the smell of a man's crotch. Even the cleanest freshest pussy will have some scent. And it's one we all react to in a much bigger way than the amount of smell would make you think. If you love pussy, you'll love the smell. If you don't love pussy-- NOT saying you hate it, just not like it-- you may react very badly to that smell.
So gay guys who are just getting to know about sex with a women-- I would say keep your nose away at first. Use your hands to explore until you get comfortable enough to take a sniff, okay?
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Gotta bump this
Loving this thread, but want to find a couple or woman in my area for occasional companionship with myself and a suck buddy.
Rags
Loving this thread, but want to find a couple or woman in my area for occasional companionship with myself and a suck buddy.
Rags
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What she said.
I have a feeling these ladies are a rare breed or I am just looking under the wrong rock
The thought of a woman to be there while I service a guy gets me going every time. Better yet her directing me while sliding a strap-on deep inside me.....mmmm hard already just thinking about.
The thought of a woman to be there while I service a guy gets me going every time. Better yet her directing me while sliding a strap-on deep inside me.....mmmm hard already just thinking about.
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Try to explain to your girlfriend that you're a crossdresser (as well as being bi). The reaction is even worse.
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This is a good thing
I saw this thread and began dreaming again. hope to find someone that takes me home or wherever and utilizes me for all that she wants from me.
I saw this thread and began dreaming again. hope to find someone that takes me home or wherever and utilizes me for all that she wants from me.
I quite enjoyed this thread and wanted to share my own experience. For 19 years of my life I was strictly straight, I thought that two men getting together was disgusting, although naturally I considered two women getting together to be hot. I was actually quite of a bigot towards gay men, perhaps overcompensating for the fact that I hadn't discovered yet that I love cock.
When I was 19 I started dating my fantasy girl, she was very pretty, blonde, great body and even greater tits. She was 19 also and knew her way around a cock like a seasoned professional. The sex was always fantastic. One day she was giving me a blowjob and she asked me if I would like her to stock something up my ass. I was shocked. Why the hell would I want her to stick something up my ass, it sounded so gay. She told me her ex boyfriend loved it and always got off so much harder. I wasn't buying it though, it was far too close to gay for me.
A couple of months later and after a few drinks I told her I wanted to try a threesome with a second girl. She didn't even hesitate to agree, I couldn't believe my luck, it had been a fantasy for so long. But she quickly added that she would only do it if we did a threesome with another guy first. Talk about being torn! There was no way I wanted to share a bed with a guy but my ultimate fantasy was on the line here. I thought about it for a while and told her I would agree as long as I didn't have to touch the guy and he didn't have to touch me. She said that she was happy with that but that if I wanted her to do anything with the other girl I would have to do things with the other guy.
The day came that we were to have our MFM threesome. She invited the guy to our place, we started drinking and then kissing, undressing, groping etc. Soon she was on her knees sucking him, which made me feel quite uncomfortable just standing about watching. She asked me to help her suck him. I told her there is no way I was doing that. She told me that if I just tried it for one minute, she would do anything I wanted in our MFF threesome. I wanted to see her with another woman so bad and this was my opportunity. I agreed to do it for a minute but made them both promise that they could never tell anyone about it. They agreed and soon I was on my knees in front of my first cock. She held his cock and I put my lips around it, it felt so big and warm. I started to suck on it as she told me how sexy I looked with a cock in my mouth. Soon I was wanting to take more and more in my mouth, greedily shoving as much in as I could. He rewarded my efforts with precum, a delicious sample of what was to follow. I sucked his tasty gift down and kept working it. My minute had long since passed but I was addicted, I wanted to taste him squirt in my mouth. Soon he was pumping that delicious load deep in my mouth and I was drinking every drop.
We stayed together for two years after that, MMF threesomes became a regular thing. Eventually she even held my hand as I lost my anal virginity. We both loved my bisexuality so much and in all that time she never paid me back with the MFF threesome she had promised.
When I was 19 I started dating my fantasy girl, she was very pretty, blonde, great body and even greater tits. She was 19 also and knew her way around a cock like a seasoned professional. The sex was always fantastic. One day she was giving me a blowjob and she asked me if I would like her to stock something up my ass. I was shocked. Why the hell would I want her to stick something up my ass, it sounded so gay. She told me her ex boyfriend loved it and always got off so much harder. I wasn't buying it though, it was far too close to gay for me.
A couple of months later and after a few drinks I told her I wanted to try a threesome with a second girl. She didn't even hesitate to agree, I couldn't believe my luck, it had been a fantasy for so long. But she quickly added that she would only do it if we did a threesome with another guy first. Talk about being torn! There was no way I wanted to share a bed with a guy but my ultimate fantasy was on the line here. I thought about it for a while and told her I would agree as long as I didn't have to touch the guy and he didn't have to touch me. She said that she was happy with that but that if I wanted her to do anything with the other girl I would have to do things with the other guy.
The day came that we were to have our MFM threesome. She invited the guy to our place, we started drinking and then kissing, undressing, groping etc. Soon she was on her knees sucking him, which made me feel quite uncomfortable just standing about watching. She asked me to help her suck him. I told her there is no way I was doing that. She told me that if I just tried it for one minute, she would do anything I wanted in our MFF threesome. I wanted to see her with another woman so bad and this was my opportunity. I agreed to do it for a minute but made them both promise that they could never tell anyone about it. They agreed and soon I was on my knees in front of my first cock. She held his cock and I put my lips around it, it felt so big and warm. I started to suck on it as she told me how sexy I looked with a cock in my mouth. Soon I was wanting to take more and more in my mouth, greedily shoving as much in as I could. He rewarded my efforts with precum, a delicious sample of what was to follow. I sucked his tasty gift down and kept working it. My minute had long since passed but I was addicted, I wanted to taste him squirt in my mouth. Soon he was pumping that delicious load deep in my mouth and I was drinking every drop.
We stayed together for two years after that, MMF threesomes became a regular thing. Eventually she even held my hand as I lost my anal virginity. We both loved my bisexuality so much and in all that time she never paid me back with the MFF threesome she had promised.
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Love your story!
Too hot!
Too hot!
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