"Women Who Love Bi Men" Fan Club

I feel like this thread needs to be resurrected. There's a lot of discussion of MF, MM and FF sex here in Lit, but surprisingly little about bisexual MMF sex. I've fucked a lot of women and sucked a few cocks, but I have yet to fulfill my number one fantasy--sucking a guy or being sucked by a guy while his wife of gf watches or better yet, participates. Just thinking about taking a guy's cum in my mouth and sharing it with his wife or gf is making me hard.

There must be others here who share similar experiences of fantasies. And there must be women here who are into this. If so, I would love to hear from them.
 
I will apologize right now for the length of this post. I didn't want to hijack this thread, but I really wanted to give my personal account. Hopefully someone will find it helpful or at least interesting coming from this female's point of view.
Two years ago I met this incredible guy who has been my boyfriend ever since. On our third date it was pretty obvious there was some very serious connection between us and that night (in my mind) would be the night we first we got between the sheets. As we were finishing our after meal drinks, he stopped me and told me he had something he needed to say before we went to his place. He let me know he was bisexual. I still can't fully define the reaction I had. So many things went through my head at once. I had never known or even thought about a bisexual man - ever. "What is this? What does that mean?" swirled through my head. After what seemed like an hour of awkward silence I managed to squeak out an "ok".
Looking at him I could tell he felt crushed by my clumsy reaction. He said maybe we should go home and you can call me if you ever want to see my again. So we left the restaurant with both of us trying to wrap our heads around what just happened.
I felt like shit as I drove home. I came to realize this guy who just shared what had to be a deeply personal piece of him and I couldn't even offer a coherent response. I wanted to call him the second I was home but just couldn't. I thought about him as a person, what I thought of his sexuality, and what to do next for the rest of the week. I pledged I would call him by Saturday which would make one full week. I got together with three of my best friends for drinks and told my story asking for their input. Two of them were as stunned as I was on the date night. The third without any hesitation told me to move on. She was certain he would cheat with other men behind my back and was really just gay and afraid to be honest with himself. After her sermon the other two sheepishly agreed and the evening ended.
It was now Friday night and I had to figure out what I was going to tell him tomorrow night. The more I thought about my friend's response I became angry. Everything she said was a load of stereotypes and I didn't want to be dumb enough to follow her ignorant bull shit. (By the way, we're no longer friends). I kept thinking back to how he had been honest with me by letting me know he was bi even though it may wreck his chances of getting laid that night and ending a potential relationship.
So Saturday I called Jeff and apologized for my shitty reaction and delay in calling him back. He was gracious and said he was simply happy I called back. We set up a date for that night. I had him over to my place for a dinner and drinks. We spent the whole night with me asking him questions. I hated the questioning of his sexuality but I was completely ignorant. I really wanted to understand and make things work this guy who seemed so fabulous.
As I said, we've been together two years now. I've learned a lot and am still learning. I find it interesting my two friends who once were so sheepish are now asking me questions about my sex life with Jeff (which is fucking fantastic).
For last two years I've been coming to this site reading threads like this one. Trying to understand and be a little more understanding of bisexual men. There's whole lot more of you than I could have ever guessed. It beaks my heart and makes me want to hug all of the guys feeling like they can't share who they are. That they must hide. Women will be repulsed. The truth is, some women will be repulsed. Others will be indifferent but unattracted. My advice to all you lovely gentlemen is to be honest with your woman. Find yourself a woman who has some brains, great passion, a sense of openness and is willing to explore.
Thank you if you read all the way through my brain dump. I wish you all the best!:rose::heart::kiss:
 
I will apologize right now for the length of this post. I didn't want to hijack this thread, but I really wanted to give my personal account. Hopefully someone will find it helpful or at least interesting coming from this female's point of view.
Two years ago I met this incredible guy who has been my boyfriend ever since. On our third date it was pretty obvious there was some very serious connection between us and that night (in my mind) would be the night we first we got between the sheets. As we were finishing our after meal drinks, he stopped me and told me he had something he needed to say before we went to his place. He let me know he was bisexual. I still can't fully define the reaction I had. So many things went through my head at once. I had never known or even thought about a bisexual man - ever. "What is this? What does that mean?" swirled through my head. After what seemed like an hour of awkward silence I managed to squeak out an "ok".
Looking at him I could tell he felt crushed by my clumsy reaction. He said maybe we should go home and you can call me if you ever want to see my again. So we left the restaurant with both of us trying to wrap our heads around what just happened.
I felt like shit as I drove home. I came to realize this guy who just shared what had to be a deeply personal piece of him and I couldn't even offer a coherent response. I wanted to call him the second I was home but just couldn't. I thought about him as a person, what I thought of his sexuality, and what to do next for the rest of the week. I pledged I would call him by Saturday which would make one full week. I got together with three of my best friends for drinks and told my story asking for their input. Two of them were as stunned as I was on the date night. The third without any hesitation told me to move on. She was certain he would cheat with other men behind my back and was really just gay and afraid to be honest with himself. After her sermon the other two sheepishly agreed and the evening ended.
It was now Friday night and I had to figure out what I was going to tell him tomorrow night. The more I thought about my friend's response I became angry. Everything she said was a load of stereotypes and I didn't want to be dumb enough to follow her ignorant bull shit. (By the way, we're no longer friends). I kept thinking back to how he had been honest with me by letting me know he was bi even though it may wreck his chances of getting laid that night and ending a potential relationship.
So Saturday I called Jeff and apologized for my shitty reaction and delay in calling him back. He was gracious and said he was simply happy I called back. We set up a date for that night. I had him over to my place for a dinner and drinks. We spent the whole night with me asking him questions. I hated the questioning of his sexuality but I was completely ignorant. I really wanted to understand and make things work this guy who seemed so fabulous.
As I said, we've been together two years now. I've learned a lot and am still learning. I find it interesting my two friends who once were so sheepish are now asking me questions about my sex life with Jeff (which is fucking fantastic).
For last two years I've been coming to this site reading threads like this one. Trying to understand and be a little more understanding of bisexual men. There's whole lot more of you than I could have ever guessed. It beaks my heart and makes me want to hug all of the guys feeling like they can't share who they are. That they must hide. Women will be repulsed. The truth is, some women will be repulsed. Others will be indifferent but unattracted. My advice to all you lovely gentlemen is to be honest with your woman. Find yourself a woman who has some brains, great passion, a sense of openness and is willing to explore.
Thank you if you read all the way through my brain dump. I wish you all the best!
I will apologize right now for the length of this post. I didn't want to hijack this thread, but I really wanted to give my personal account. Hopefully someone will find it helpful or at least interesting coming from this female's point of view.
Two years ago I met this incredible guy who has been my boyfriend ever since. On our third date it was pretty obvious there was some very serious connection between us and that night (in my mind) would be the night we first we got between the sheets. As we were finishing our after meal drinks, he stopped me and told me he had something he needed to say before we went to his place. He let me know he was bisexual. I still can't fully define the reaction I had. So many things went through my head at once. I had never known or even thought about a bisexual man - ever. "What is this? What does that mean?" swirled through my head. After what seemed like an hour of awkward silence I managed to squeak out an "ok".
Looking at him I could tell he felt crushed by my clumsy reaction. He said maybe we should go home and you can call me if you ever want to see my again. So we left the restaurant with both of us trying to wrap our heads around what just happened.
I felt like shit as I drove home. I came to realize this guy who just shared what had to be a deeply personal piece of him and I couldn't even offer a coherent response. I wanted to call him the second I was home but just couldn't. I thought about him as a person, what I thought of his sexuality, and what to do next for the rest of the week. I pledged I would call him by Saturday which would make one full week. I got together with three of my best friends for drinks and told my story asking for their input. Two of them were as stunned as I was on the date night. The third without any hesitation told me to move on. She was certain he would cheat with other men behind my back and was really just gay and afraid to be honest with himself. After her sermon the other two sheepishly agreed and the evening ended.
It was now Friday night and I had to figure out what I was going to tell him tomorrow night. The more I thought about my friend's response I became angry. Everything she said was a load of stereotypes and I didn't want to be dumb enough to follow her ignorant bull shit. (By the way, we're no longer friends). I kept thinking back to how he had been honest with me by letting me know he was bi even though it may wreck his chances of getting laid that night and ending a potential relationship.
So Saturday I called Jeff and apologized for my shitty reaction and delay in calling him back. He was gracious and said he was simply happy I called back. We set up a date for that night. I had him over to my place for a dinner and drinks. We spent the whole night with me asking him questions. I hated the questioning of his sexuality but I was completely ignorant. I really wanted to understand and make things work this guy who seemed so fabulous.
As I said, we've been together two years now. I've learned a lot and am still learning. I find it interesting my two friends who once were so sheepish are now asking me questions about my sex life with Jeff (which is fucking fantastic).
For last two years I've been coming to this site reading threads like this one. Trying to understand and be a little more understanding of bisexual men. There's whole lot more of you than I could have ever guessed. It beaks my heart and makes me want to hug all of the guys feeling like they can't share who they are. That they must hide. Women will be repulsed. The truth is, some women will be repulsed. Others will be indifferent but unattracted. My advice to all you lovely gentlemen is to be honest with your woman. Find yourself a woman who has some brains, great passion, a sense of openness and is willing to explore.
Thank you if you read all the way through my brain dump. I wish you all the best!:rose::heart::kiss:
Thank you for that. May I ask if you and Jeff share a cock together? It's what I want to do with my wife but she won't hear of it. Took a while to get our marriage back on track after I told her. I just think it would be a beautiful, intensely arousing thing to do. What a re your feelings?
:rose::heart::kiss:

 
I feel like this thread needs to be resurrected. There's a lot of discussion of MF, MM and FF sex here in Lit, but surprisingly little about bisexual MMF sex. I've fucked a lot of women and sucked a few cocks, but I have yet to fulfill my number one fantasy--sucking a guy or being sucked by a guy while his wife of gf watches or better yet, participates. Just thinking about taking a guy's cum in my mouth and sharing it with his wife or gf is making me hard.

There must be others here who share similar experiences of fantasies. And there must be women here who are into this. If so, I would love to hear from them.
BMD,
I couldn't agree more. Your fantasy sounds right up my alley. I'd love to meet a fit young married couple to play with like that. At the very least read about it. Haha...

Good luck fulfilling that fantasy!
 
I will apologize right now for the length of this post. I didn't want to hijack this thread, but I really wanted to give my personal account. Hopefully someone will find it helpful or at least interesting coming from this female's point of view.
Two years ago I met this incredible guy who has been my boyfriend ever since. On our third date it was pretty obvious there was some very serious connection between us and that night (in my mind) would be the night we first we got between the sheets. As we were finishing our after meal drinks, he stopped me and told me he had something he needed to say before we went to his place. He let me know he was bisexual. I still can't fully define the reaction I had. So many things went through my head at once. I had never known or even thought about a bisexual man - ever. "What is this? What does that mean?" swirled through my head. After what seemed like an hour of awkward silence I managed to squeak out an "ok".
Looking at him I could tell he felt crushed by my clumsy reaction. He said maybe we should go home and you can call me if you ever want to see my again. So we left the restaurant with both of us trying to wrap our heads around what just happened.
I felt like shit as I drove home. I came to realize this guy who just shared what had to be a deeply personal piece of him and I couldn't even offer a coherent response. I wanted to call him the second I was home but just couldn't. I thought about him as a person, what I thought of his sexuality, and what to do next for the rest of the week. I pledged I would call him by Saturday which would make one full week. I got together with three of my best friends for drinks and told my story asking for their input. Two of them were as stunned as I was on the date night. The third without any hesitation told me to move on. She was certain he would cheat with other men behind my back and was really just gay and afraid to be honest with himself. After her sermon the other two sheepishly agreed and the evening ended.
It was now Friday night and I had to figure out what I was going to tell him tomorrow night. The more I thought about my friend's response I became angry. Everything she said was a load of stereotypes and I didn't want to be dumb enough to follow her ignorant bull shit. (By the way, we're no longer friends). I kept thinking back to how he had been honest with me by letting me know he was bi even though it may wreck his chances of getting laid that night and ending a potential relationship.
So Saturday I called Jeff and apologized for my shitty reaction and delay in calling him back. He was gracious and said he was simply happy I called back. We set up a date for that night. I had him over to my place for a dinner and drinks. We spent the whole night with me asking him questions. I hated the questioning of his sexuality but I was completely ignorant. I really wanted to understand and make things work this guy who seemed so fabulous.
As I said, we've been together two years now. I've learned a lot and am still learning. I find it interesting my two friends who once were so sheepish are now asking me questions about my sex life with Jeff (which is fucking fantastic).
For last two years I've been coming to this site reading threads like this one. Trying to understand and be a little more understanding of bisexual men. There's whole lot more of you than I could have ever guessed. It beaks my heart and makes me want to hug all of the guys feeling like they can't share who they are. That they must hide. Women will be repulsed. The truth is, some women will be repulsed. Others will be indifferent but unattracted. My advice to all you lovely gentlemen is to be honest with your woman. Find yourself a woman who has some brains, great passion, a sense of openness and is willing to explore.
Thank you if you read all the way through my brain dump. I wish you all the best!:rose::heart::kiss:
Jeff is a very lucky man. You’re right that it is so hard to be open about a guy being bi in the current world. When I was married I had these desires but in no way would she understand, I once opened up about sharing and that was a disaster. We eventuality divorced and I thought that open minded women (like yourself) were a pipe dream.

I finally was able to explore my bi side for a few years but I could never have a relationship with a guy, it’s just for fun for me. I was lucky enough to meet an amazing woman a few years ago who, she actually asked me to be part of a bi threesome with her, which I knew then that I could be open and be myself around her. We had many bi threesomes with this guy and have a hotwife relationship (minus the marriage part) which I never in a million years thought I would find someone open to both.

I rambled but just wanted to say thank you for your story and your open mind as well as other women who feel the same. As a guy that was in that situation of hiding it’s great to know there are amazing women out there like yourself to give hope to other men in this situation. You do sounds awesome and Jeff is a lucky man.
 
Jeff is a very lucky man. You’re right that it is so hard to be open about a guy being bi in the current world. When I was married I had these desires but in no way would she understand, I once opened up about sharing and that was a disaster. We eventuality divorced and I thought that open minded women (like yourself) were a pipe dream.

I finally was able to explore my bi side for a few years but I could never have a relationship with a guy, it’s just for fun for me. I was lucky enough to meet an amazing woman a few years ago who, she actually asked me to be part of a bi threesome with her, which I knew then that I could be open and be myself around her. We had many bi threesomes with this guy and have a hotwife relationship (minus the marriage part) which I never in a million years thought I would find someone open to both.

I rambled but just wanted to say thank you for your story and your open mind as well as other women who feel the same. As a guy that was in that situation of hiding it’s great to know there are amazing women out there like yourself to give hope to other men in this situation. You do sounds awesome and Jeff is a lucky man.
I'm glad to hear things worked out well for you. Hiding in the closet and intolerant women are two things I hate to see. The hot wife relationship can also be a lot of fun - no such thing as too many cocks for me or Jeff.
 
I feel like this thread needs to be resurrected. There's a lot of discussion of MF, MM and FF sex here in Lit, but surprisingly little about bisexual MMF sex. I've fucked a lot of women and sucked a few cocks, but I have yet to fulfill my number one fantasy--sucking a guy or being sucked by a guy while his wife of gf watches or better yet, participates. Just thinking about taking a guy's cum in my mouth and sharing it with his wife or gf is making me hard.

There must be others here who share similar experiences of fantasies. And there must be women here who are into this. If so, I would love to hear from them.
I have that exact same fantasy. It is my my #1 also..
 
I’m a closet bisexual male I’ve been curious sense before my teens and finally got up the nerve to experiment just a little bit starting in my early thirties but before that I had past girlfriends that tried to get me to admit that I was interested in sex with men but I was always to afraid of my very conservative family and friends would find out so I’d always deny it anyway I’ve been married twice my first wife was very conservative that I couldn’t never let know about my curiosities my second wife had had a same sex relationship with a very sexy young woman that was working for her so I thought I could finally be honest with someone but one night while we was watching a really hot cock sucking seen on a porn I told her I’d like to watch her suck another man’s cock she didn’t have a response at first but she finally asked if I was serious I said yes she said she’d probably like it to so I made the mistake and said something like I might have to join in and help her and holy fuck all hell broke loose she started yelling how she could never be with a cock sucker along with other things will I spend the next few weeks trying like hell to walk back what I said but it didn’t work and all the fun kinky things we used to enjoy just seemed strange. We divorced a few years later and we moved on but saying all that I’m trying to figure out how I can meet a sexual open minded woman that would like being and being part of a bisexual man’s like myself journey I come from a very straight conversation family so I’d have to know I could trust her to keep our sex life private
Maybe join some swinger sites and get to know a mf couple that are bi and see if they know any women that would be open to date, etc.
 
I am an old bisexual male cross-dresser and my wife loves it. She is more into the ladies and I'm more into the guys, so it works out great when we hook up with a couple.
 
I am a Huge Fan! Love love love bi sex. From my experience bi men have a much better understanding of sex. The men I have been with are incredible lovers. My husband was amazing prior to us opening up to bi group sex but oh my goodness he is off the chart fabulous now. His understanding of anal and oral is always in tune. He has helped me improve my oral and my orgasms from anal are singularly as strong as my vaginal. Dual penetration orgasms are so strong now I prefer it over almost all sex, thanks to what my husband has learned from his anal experiences.
 
Guys, you know that hidden fantasy of you watching your wife down between the legs of another woman? Many wives also have that hidden fantasy of watching you on your knees sucking the cock of another man, and to go a little deeper, even better if you are sucking the cock of her lover.

In my younger days, I was involved in that scene, and have taken more than a few husbands. The comment I heard the most out of the wife was " that is so hot. Thank you for doing this for me." I hate labels, so I refuse to call them bisexual or any other name, but it sure expanded their sexual experience
 
I think my wife’s biggest problem or fear with my bi curiosity is it leading to a lack of interest is sex with her. While I’m certainly curious, I’m not in any rush to open the marriage or cheat. Honestly, just watching gay porn satisfies a lot of the desire and if she would just peg me (or let me suck on her strapon) it would do the trick. Yes, I’d love to feel a real cock pumping cum, but it’s unlikely to happen anytime soon.
 
I think my wife’s biggest problem or fear with my bi curiosity is it leading to a lack of interest is sex with her. While I’m certainly curious, I’m not in any rush to open the marriage or cheat. Honestly, just watching gay porn satisfies a lot of the desire and if she would just peg me (or let me suck on her strapon) it would do the trick. Yes, I’d love to feel a real cock pumping cum, but it’s unlikely to happen anytime soon.
Do the two of you RP this way at all?
 
I would love to have any woman pm me and discuss this. Its hard to find a woman who is turned on by a man wanting her to watch me be with another man. Just seems like there unicorns and ive only read about woman that are into this in dirty magizines. Id love to chat with a woman out there who has experience with this. My wife thinks its disgusting.
 
I would love to have any woman pm me and discuss this. Its hard to find a woman who is turned on by a man wanting her to watch me be with another man. Just seems like there unicorns and ive only read about woman that are into this in dirty magizines. Id love to chat with a woman out there who has experience with this. My wife thinks its disgusting.
My wife won’t discuss, so perhaps she’s one of those unicorns?

She’s extremely turned on by my descriptions of encounters I’ve had a few of my good friends. Sadly, she won’t actually participate in any real life adventures, but it is always part of our pillow talk, and has been so for decades.
 
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