Worst Sex Experience
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FFOTS4Life
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That is lucky!!! I don't regret having sex with my ex...it was a learning experience but I definitly wish things had gone differently...(maybe that is regret)...who knows...I am so confused lol.
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My worst experience so far, was my first. I wanted to have sex with this guy, but had to fight about condom usage (he was from a culture that doesn't believe in condoms), then, once he had agreed to use the condom, he wanted sex right that second--no foreplay, nothing, so it was, needless to say, a bit uncomfortable for me, but only for about 45 seconds...then he rolled over and went to sleep, lol.
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The background is complicated, but at one point I let my ex try a BDSM scene with me. We were trying to 'fix' a failing marriage and, well, the rest is stupid. Anyway, it was terrible. I actually dozed off for a moment while he was flogging me. I mentally filed divorce papers that night.
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i haven't had that much sex (yet) so mine's not that bad. but there was month there where i kept having breakthrough bleeding from my birth control and every god damn time i went to have sex or masturbate, i started bleeding. it was ridiculous (not to mention embarrassing)
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I for one wish I knew now, regarding sex and exploring boundaries..extending the range of sex that two (or more) people may enjoy and experience, when I was a younger adult. Especially in my early mid 20's.
Had some very disappointing times, but also fantastic times exploring kinks, exploring boundaries.
Use your brain, the best sexual organ we all have.
Some of the worst sex I had recently was with a very beautiful younger woman, that was the problem, she thought beauty was all she needed.
Had some very disappointing times, but also fantastic times exploring kinks, exploring boundaries.
Use your brain, the best sexual organ we all have.
Some of the worst sex I had recently was with a very beautiful younger woman, that was the problem, she thought beauty was all she needed.
ownedsubgal
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do you think your being Dominant could have something to do with that? you choose your partners, initiate or delegate, aren't likely to have your boundaries crossed, etc. just a theory mind you, as i know Daddy has said that he's never had godawful sex either (he'd just end it completely if it was heading in that direction).
EmpressFi
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worst sex would be a one night stand I had. He excelled at oral sex...but with straight intercourse... well, his penis was so thin I actually wondered if it was even inside me. What was worse was him asking me to leave the hotel room at 2 am. Made me feel like a whore, not a dinner date
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Huh, I'd never really thought about that.
Maybe. Maybe because I'm more liable when someone's doing something badly to say "can you do that (higher up/harder/never again/whatever)"
I'm including sex with my vanilla ex, with whom I broke up over that impasse. The sex was *good* it wasn't shitty - but it wasn't how I needed to be to be happy.
Netzach
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Oh, my high dose pred year.
I just didn't have any sex. Therefore no shitty sex.
I don't know how M stuck it out or the other two either for that matter. I never thought in my entire life I could lose libido like that.
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graceanne
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Yeah, me either. And M stuck it out for the same reason K stuck it out - cause he loves you. Well K stuck it out cause he loves ME, but you get the idea.
But, yeah, I was surprised, and so was he. We didn't realize that I could just stop wanting sex. I was always available, but he didn't want to have sex with someone who was bored out of their minds.
ataxia.girl
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This is the only reason i'm not medicated. Maybe some people can deal with it and don't mind but life without sex gets old.
EmpressFi
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and sometimes .. it's NOT being medicated that leads you to not wanting it. I have hypothyroidism and because of that I take levothyroxine every day and will for the rest of my life. When I'm good with my meds, life is good and I have energy. When I'm out of my medication, my sex drive, my metabolism, my energy in general drops really low... almost slug low...
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This may well be. I've never had what I would call godawful sex either. I've had times that left me unsatisfied, or were dull, but that was usually a situational thing.
ataxia.girl
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Glad you found something that works.
If it weren't for the libido thing Prozac would be my best friend. It helped me through some tough times in the past. i have nothing against medication in general, quite the opposite in fact.
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With hypothyroidism, it's not so much about finding something that works.. there's only one treatment and that's synthetic thyroid hormones and taking those every day for the rest of your life. I could stop taking them, then then I put myself at all sorts of risks including depression, so I happily take my pill every day and get my levels checked every 6 months.
My ex. No imagination, and very little interest in sex. I could literally get her off while thinking of other things and never had to do anything different to get her to achieve orgasm. I, eventually, began to fake it with her just so it would be over.
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Very interesting responses from all of you...glad to see I am not the only one with a bad sex experience in my past! I thought the stuff about the PYL's not having bad sex experiences was very interesting...also I can completely understand the bit with the pill...I had the same problem...
LOL...works for me!
Pretty_VaCUNT
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worst: a boy who constantly tried to shove his dick in my arsehole, despite me telling him "that aint the right hole mister". He then came 1 minute later.
*le yawn*
*le yawn*
myinnerslut
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this may be cliche, but the first time was my worst. it hurt. i cried. i didnt understand why people were raving about this sex thing.
obviously my opinion has changed since.
obviously my opinion has changed since.
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ughhhh, instant limpnesss, wish this was one post I never read!
However, thanks subgal for an image forever etched in my mind when I want to prolong cumming. LOL My worst experience was with a gal who was otherwise wonderful, except for the fact that her pussy was so loose that I literally couldn't feel anything. I didn't know how to tell her and didn't want to hurt her feelings, so I actually faked an orgasm. After the first time we had sex, I told I thought it was better if were just friends.
FFOTS4Life
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ughhhh, instant limpnesss, wish this was one post I never read!
My worst experience was with a gal who was otherwise wonderful, except for the fact that her pussy was so loose that I literally couldn't feel anything. I didn't know how to tell her and didn't want to hurt her feelings, so I actually faked an orgasm. After the first time we had sex, I told I thought it was better if were just friends.
Yeah that description turned me off too....*shudders*
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I was with a guy once who thought he was a real stud. To demonstrate this, he thought it was a great trick to fuck me over and over six times.
That would have been fine IF he was doing anything for me, which he wasn't. I was too shy and probably too inexperienced to know or tell him what would work.
He was too inexperienced or uncaring to ask or try.
So I was left, just wishing I had a book or something while he did his miraculous "tricks" to prove to himself how great he was.
That would have been fine IF he was doing anything for me, which he wasn't. I was too shy and probably too inexperienced to know or tell him what would work.
He was too inexperienced or uncaring to ask or try.
So I was left, just wishing I had a book or something while he did his miraculous "tricks" to prove to himself how great he was.
