Worst Sex Experience

[FFOTS4Life]

I was with a guy once who thought he was a real stud. To demonstrate this, he thought it was a great trick to fuck me over and over six times.

That would have been fine IF he was doing anything for me, which he wasn't. I was too shy and probably too inexperienced to know or tell him what would work.

He was too inexperienced or uncaring to ask or try.

So I was left, just wishing I had a book or something while he did his miraculous "tricks" to prove to himself how great he was.

This seems to be a common theme on this thread for worst sex experience...women who have had overconfident guys and vice versa...

 

[Homburg]

I didn't know how to tell her and didn't want to hurt her feelings, so I actually faked an orgasm.

Heartening to see guys admitting to this. I've had something akin to this happen many years ago. It was less a matter of looseness and more a matter that I just knew that I was not going to come, so you know those little twitchy half orgasms you get sometimes? I decided that was good enough. This was before I'd realised the various issues I had, and still felt pressured to come every time I fucked, as well as before getting into BDSM. These days, if I'm not going to come I will fuck until I feel like she has had enough, and then just say "I think that's enough" as she gasps for breath.

Given the RE issues I have, it's not terribly uncommon. I've just gotten to the point where I realised that I can have enjoyable sex without coming, and don't sweat that pressure to ejaculate. Part of acknowledging my dominate nature...

 

[ataxia.girl]

I was with a guy once who thought he was a real stud. To demonstrate this, he thought it was a great trick to fuck me over and over six times.

That would have been fine IF he was doing anything for me, which he wasn't. I was too shy and probably too inexperienced to know or tell him what would work.

He was too inexperienced or uncaring to ask or try.

So I was left, just wishing I had a book or something while he did his miraculous "tricks" to prove to himself how great he was.

Now days just getting fucked is actually my favorite. i enjoy it immensely. It used to piss me off if that was all that happened but those were the days when i actually could get off. i don't that much anymore so unless they are doing all the extras just because they happen to enjoy it its basically a waste of time because my favorite is far and away just being fucked mercilessly.

 

[Feelfreetotouch]

Now days just getting fucked is actually my favorite. i enjoy it immensely. It used to piss me off if that was all that happened but those were the days when i actually could get off. i don't that much anymore so unless they are doing all the extras just because they happen to enjoy it its basically a waste of time because my favorite is far and away just being fucked mercilessly.

Yes, heated and passionate fucking is great.

 

[LadyC]

The first and second (last) times my husband decided I'd like to be buggered! OUCH!

 

[FurryFury]

Now days just getting fucked is actually my favorite. i enjoy it immensely. It used to piss me off if that was all that happened but those were the days when i actually could get off. i don't that much anymore so unless they are doing all the extras just because they happen to enjoy it its basically a waste of time because my favorite is far and away just being fucked mercilessly.

I usually get off in about 3.5 seconds these days. I'm easy that way now!

 

[FurryFury]

This seems to be a common theme on this thread for worst sex experience...women who have had overconfident guys and vice versa...

This guy is still a good bud of mine. I pity his wife a bit but maybe for her, it works?

The best sex I ever had with him was caused by a cat. She burrowed into my hair, biting and purring. That was pretty awesome. Meanwhile he was as uninspiring as ever.

After him I erroneously decided that if I weren't in "love" the sex felt like nothing.

Later, I happily found out how very wrong I was. LOL.

 

[Oceanmother]

I've had plenty of bad sex experiences.... at least half of them have been my own fault, or at least though my own inexperience.

I once gave a rather drunken blow-job and vomited all over the guys cock... that was pretty awful.

I have also had the 'big-cock-and-no-clue' experience, except that he was obviously trying out his domly side, the effect of which was to have me constantly spouting praise of his wonderful anatomy:
'Ah, it's so big and hard'
'Oh your cock is so huge please give it to me'
'I need your big cock'
I ran out of imaginative stuff to say, and the desire to say it, pretty quickly, but he just went on and on and on. I wouldn't have minded if he was any good, but I was just bored out of my mind, not to mention rather annoyed at having my cervix shoved into my throat over and over. It seemed like it went on for hours, and it probably did because he kept stopping himself from cumming. All I really wanted to say was IT'S REALLY NOT THAT GREAT OK, IT'S QUITE LONG BUT IT'S REALLY QUITE SKINNY AND I REALLY WISH YOU WOULD JUST CUM SO I COULD GO HOME AND STOP FAKING!!


My most embarrasing sex experience was the first time a guy stuck his finger up my ass. I was right on the point of orgasm and these days I would probably love it, but I had needed to take a shit the whole evening and of course it just came out! I was cumming and didn't even realize what had happened until I smelt it!!!
I never even looked him in the face again after that.

 

[tammytoodles]

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[FFOTS4Life]

My worst sexual experience involved a man who talked a good game and was old enough (42) that he should know how to lick pussy, but when it came down to it the poor guy apparently didn't know where a clit is located on a female. I kept trying to assist him, gently at first and then more aggressively but it was almost as if he was avoiding it on purpose he was so bad! He literally had NO clue! I was very, very disappointed, I've never had someone so bad before and oral is my absolute favorite thing and he had said it was HIS favorite thing to do as well! Hmmmmmm......Well over a year later and I'm still avoiding his phone calls, I'm too nice to tell him how terribly sucky he is in bed.

I have had that...been with a guy who did the same thing (talking the talk but not walking the walk)...though not with oral. It was a big let down...but in all honesty not the worst I have ever had.

 

[Anomily]

I once gave a rather drunken blow-job and vomited all over the guys cock... that was pretty awful.

I've had that, except I wasn't drunk. My boyfriend at the time just decided that the reason I wasn't good at deep throating was because I wasn't trying hard enough, and so he decided to "assist" me by shoving his cock down my throat over and over until I threw up on him. It was not a good night. Looking back, that's probably a big part of the reason I detested giving blow jobs for a long time even after he and I broke up. Luckily I got over it

 

[kitten]

I've only been with two separate people. One of them, the sex was never bad-- He made sure I came at least twice every time except once (We had sex, I slept over, woke up, we had sex again... I was too sore to achieve orgasm, but still enjoyed it, though slightly painful)

The other... It wasn't the same. I came a few times during our sex, but never fully enjoyed it. Why? I didn't love him, didn't care about him.

The times with him, I would consider my worst sex experience. He wasn't a bad lover, but the chemistry wasn't quite what it should have been.

Contrary to what people have been saying about their first times-- Mine has been one of the most amazing, memorable, and wonderful times of my life, and the feelings I had are still inexplicable to me, though I have been thinking about it for almost a year.

 

[LadyC]

My worst sexual experience involved a man who talked a good game and was old enough (42) that he should know how to lick pussy, but when it came down to it the poor guy apparently didn't know where a clit is located on a female. I kept trying to assist him, gently at first and then more aggressively but it was almost as if he was avoiding it on purpose he was so bad! He literally had NO clue! I was very, very disappointed, I've never had someone so bad before and oral is my absolute favorite thing and he had said it was HIS favorite thing to do as well! Hmmmmmm......Well over a year later and I'm still avoiding his phone calls, I'm too nice to tell him how terribly sucky he is in bed.

Get on his face and grind one out, Darlin'!

 

[kinkyknickers]

I'm pretty sure I've slept with all of the men who were the bad experiences mentioned in this thread, lol.

 

[LadyC]

I'm pretty sure I've slept with all of the men who were the bad experiences mentioned in this thread, lol.

All of them? Busy beaver....ooops, bad pun.

 

[twysted73]

I'm a locked heart case as well.

Any sexual encounter involving someone I barely know or knew...easily falls under this category.

But anyone can say that, post and walk so i have to write an actual experience. SO....

My best friend Shawn and I had just returned from Afghanistan (2001) to find his every supportive wife had cheated on him with three different men.
And so he was not only divorcing her, but packing her up and taking her back from an hour south of LA to her sister's place in Washington State.
(how's that for "return to sender")
We dropped her off but decided to rest a night before hitting the road again the next morning.
~ I love road trips ~
Her sister...Christina I believe, was a virgin. 28 and still as of yet deflowered.
I would soon discover why she had been so hessitant.
Anyway....being his very loyal and best friend..thick and thin, war and back....I was set to avenge him and his honor by temporarily tarnishing my own and so I was set to take this woman's virginity.
We were hanging out in her living room, drinking, telling stories, spending time and relaxing.
I was being quite evil and seducing this young woman with malitious intent.
When the hour was late & inhibitions were lowered enough I carried her back into her bedroom where I continued to kiss and beguile.
Fast foreward I have her naked from the waist down and I am on my stomach between her legs. It's very dark in the room and what light I did have was the moon filtering through between the slats of the blinds.
(having been medically trained and having treated many an STD, I was going to inspect our fair maiden with oral intentions before anything else)

And that's when I noticed she had an unformed penis about the size of a child's pinky off to the left of her clit.
I was drunk, I looked up and noticed she had passed out....so I took this as three very good signs to slooowwwwly back away from "The Finger".

 

[Martini Man]

Get on his face and grind one out, Darlin'!

That sounds fun!

 

[LadyC]

That sounds fun!

It beats be left wanting and waiting.

 

[Martini Man]

I find it extremely hot when a woman takes charge of her pleasure like that. Just thinking about a woman grinding herself into my face is making me all hot and bothered.

 

[Necroh_Skewer]

Oh goodness, I have yet to have an orgasm during sex. No matter how hard I try. I can bring myself off by masturbating, but it isn't enough. =(
I have had two sex partners in my life and they both sucked. Wanna know why? Well first off one of them NEVER gave me oral. He barely wanted foreplay; and when he did I was the one giving him a blowjob. Now the penetration part was okay. He lasted longer than two minutes at least, but it was still quick. I waited until he came for me to fake my orgasm. And when he left the room (never cuddled), I masturbate to get my peak. I don't think he really knew how to love a woman. I wonder how many other chicks he has been with who have been faking their orgasms?
The other sex partner (my true ex BF) was very good at foreplay. He always wanted to kiss all over my body, bite me (my favorite), and give me oral. And of course I would return the favor. But the downside was that he lasted about... a minute and a half. Yeah, I never said anything. I just waited and faked my orgasm once again.
Both of them had their pros and cons... my true ex was the better lover despite his one minute deal. *sigh*
Until I found out he had a fiancee....................

 

[LadyC]

Oh goodness, I have yet to have an orgasm during sex. No matter how hard I try. I can bring myself off by masturbating, but it isn't enough. =(
I have had two sex partners in my life and they both sucked. Wanna know why? Well first off one of them NEVER gave me oral. He barely wanted foreplay; and when he did I was the one giving him a blowjob. Now the penetration part was okay. He lasted longer than two minutes at least, but it was still quick. I waited until he came for me to fake my orgasm. And when he left the room (never cuddled), I masturbate to get my peak. I don't think he really knew how to love a woman. I wonder how many other chicks he has been with who have been faking their orgasms?
The other sex partner (my true ex BF) was very good at foreplay. He always wanted to kiss all over my body, bite me (my favorite), and give me oral. And of course I would return the favor. But the downside was that he lasted about... a minute and a half. Yeah, I never said anything. I just waited and faked my orgasm once again.
Both of them had their pros and cons... my true ex was the better lover despite his one minute deal. *sigh*
Until I found out he had a fiancee....................

Try a woman, darlin'! Or find an older man who has already been trained.

 

[Necroh_Skewer]

Try a woman, darlin'! Or find an older man who has already been trained.

Yes I need an older man. These young males are so selfish and don't know how to please a woman, *laughs*. My college campus has so many cocky wannabes.

 

[FurryFury]

Yes I need an older man. These young males are so selfish and don't know how to please a woman, *laughs*. My college campus has so many cocky wannabes.

If you've never had an orgasm during sex I'd say you need to explore yourself more and get your mind set in that sexy place first or no partner will work that well for you. Take control of your own pleasure. Relying on others leads to disappointment almost always.

 

[SweetErika]

If you've never had an orgasm during sex I'd say you need to explore yourself more and get your mind set in that sexy place first or no partner will work that well for you. Take control of your own pleasure. Relying on others leads to disappointment almost always.

Well said, and I couldn't agree more, Fury!

If I relied on my partner or intercourse to come, my orgasms would be few and far between. Instead, I tell my partner exactly what does and doesn't work for me, touch myself, fantasize and use toys. Apart from when I'm not at my best mentally, physically or decide I don't want to orgasm for whatever reason (e.g. it's a quickie and I'm satisfied w/o coming), I orgasm at least once before we ever get to sex. This allows me to relax more fully for sex and makes it far easier for me to come during intercourse.

But most importantly, orgasming apart from intercourse takes any pressure off of my partner and I. I don't care how long he lasts because I know I will always be satisfied in the end (my satisfaction isn't orgasm-dependent, however; it could simply emotional, mental or pleasure-based). Great sex is about everything we do, from start to finish--NOT what his cock does or does not do!

If you focus on your partner's cock and how long he lasts, or his ability to make you come, you'll likely be in for many more bad experiences and a lot of heartache in the future. If, however, you focus on pleasing yourself, teaching your partner what makes you tick and the entire experience, you'll likely really enjoy and feel good about your experiences. Yes, even when those sessions don't include intercourse, or your partner is so excited that he comes within the first couple of minutes!

You might want to consider how unproductive faking it is, too. Even if it's with a short-term partner, it can skew the guy's ideas so he doesn't work hard with his future partner(s) and determines there's something wrong with them when they're honest about not coming or need more than a few minutes of intercourse to come. There are an awful lot of women out there who aren't getting what they want and deserve because they got in the habit of faking it or their partner's previous partners faked it. And there are an awful lot of men who are clueless about pleasing a woman and have messed up ideas about orgasms because their partners faked it. Not orgasming is NOT a reflection of how capable you are in bed, or you, personally.

 

[tammytoodles]

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