Shankara20
Well, that is lovely
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Is wiggling something you negotiate in advance?
Wiggling = not allowed
Twitching = some allowed...
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Is wiggling something you negotiate in advance?
< So what is punishment for being naughty/wriggling during punishment? >

Excellent question. What is punishment? Surely not more spanking.
Note 1: I have no spanking experience so have no input.
Note 2: I hope to change that^ at some point!![]()
When you get to accomplish #2, we'd love for you to report back. And if you wiggled, what happened as a result.![]()

Hmmm. Normally wiggling gets me what I want.
I suspect that might not be the case in this particular instance....

So what is punishment for being naughty/wriggling during punishment?
I mainly wriggle when I want more or harder.

My preference depends entirely on what I want the focus and endpoint of the spanking. If I'm looking for a mostly intimate spanking, then I'm inclined to prefer over the knee in some form. I like having easy access to more than the ass in this case, too. However, if my end-point objective might be heavier pain, as in using a belt, crop, or paddle, then I like bent over the bed. Sometimers it's interesting to include the use of a spreader bar in these times,mbut not always. Having to control the impulse to close the thighs together can add a layer of submission that appeals to me.

Uhhhhhh. That all sounds...interesting. Yeah, let's go with interesting.
Sheesh! Is it hot in here?
*fans self*
Just getting warmed up, in fact. More detail, just in case I wasn't sufficiently clear earlier:
I like to start slowly with some caressing with her panties still on. I might slide my finger down her center line just far enough to tease both her entrances. At first, the spanking blows are light, almost teasingly so, but then I will begin to increase the force a bit. After a couple dozen I might ask her how we're doing. Does she want more? I like hearing, "Please, more." Soon, the panties come down to just above the knee. Gradually, I'll increase the force, repeating the check every couple dozen or so. During these checks, I might repeat that center line tease and will, eventually, actually push my finger in to check on wetness and do what I can to increase it.
This all takes time, as I'm not in a hurry. After some 50 or 60 blows I might ask her to lift her hips and insert a couple of fingers of my non-spanking hand into her wetness. Just to add another layer of sensation, you see. Still checking on her willingness to continue with every couple dozen blows. In my experience, she'll try to take as much as she can, but she might eventually break into tears. That's when we stop and suggest that it's time she thank me appropriately for being given the chance to hurt for me.
Does that help clarify any questions?
Is wiggling something you negotiate in advance?
)Just getting warmed up, in fact. More detail, just in case I wasn't sufficiently clear earlier:
I like to start slowly with some caressing with her panties still on. I might slide my finger down her center line just far enough to tease both her entrances. At first, the spanking blows are light, almost teasingly so, but then I will begin to increase the force a bit. After a couple dozen I might ask her how we're doing. Does she want more? I like hearing, "Please, more." Soon, the panties come down to just above the knee. Gradually, I'll increase the force, repeating the check every couple dozen or so. During these checks, I might repeat that center line tease and will, eventually, actually push my finger in to check on wetness and do what I can to increase it.
This all takes time, as I'm not in a hurry. After some 50 or 60 blows I might ask her to lift her hips and insert a couple of fingers of my non-spanking hand into her wetness. Just to add another layer of sensation, you see. Still checking on her willingness to continue with every couple dozen blows. In my experience, she'll try to take as much as she can, but she might eventually break into tears. That's when we stop and suggest that it's time she thank me appropriately for being given the chance to hurt for me.
Does that help clarify any questions?
It tends to be an on-the-fly directive. (I prefer it when his fly is open, of course.)
Was there a question ?.....oh my....yes, a little warm in here.
Just getting warmed up, in fact. More detail, just in case I wasn't sufficiently clear earlier:
I like to start slowly with some caressing with her panties still on. I might slide my finger down her center line just far enough to tease both her entrances. At first, the spanking blows are light, almost teasingly so, but then I will begin to increase the force a bit. After a couple dozen I might ask her how we're doing. Does she want more? I like hearing, "Please, more." Soon, the panties come down to just above the knee. Gradually, I'll increase the force, repeating the check every couple dozen or so. During these checks, I might repeat that center line tease and will, eventually, actually push my finger in to check on wetness and do what I can to increase it.
This all takes time, as I'm not in a hurry. After some 50 or 60 blows I might ask her to lift her hips and insert a couple of fingers of my non-spanking hand into her wetness. Just to add another layer of sensation, you see. Still checking on her willingness to continue with every couple dozen blows. In my experience, she'll try to take as much as she can, but she might eventually break into tears. That's when we stop and suggest that it's time she thank me appropriately for being given the chance to hurt for me.
Does that help clarify any questions?
Yank, I think youre responsible for a mass swooning !


