Your Creepy PM's

I have gotten a few where the sender writes a whole sex scene between he and I. There was ONE that was from someone I had lengthy friendly convos with and that was fine. But coming from someone I have never spoken to before...creepy.

I have gotten a rapey one before. Ick. *shudder* Hate those.

I also got freaked out by one sender who's name insinuated that he might possibly live nearby and he said things like "bet you haven't worn that in awhile" or something along those lines. Creeped me the fuck out! Ignored, immediately!!!
 
Once in a while I get a pm from a "priest" who tells me what he is going to do to me..with a crucifix or rosary. Makes me think of The Exorcist.
 
I have gotten a few where the sender writes a whole sex scene between he and I.

Yes, exactly. And they're full of presumptions about my sexuality, likes, etc., when they don't know me at all, never talked to me. Not usually creepy, per se. Just irritating.

And then there are those who don't understand why I am not eternally grateful for receiving their stories about me and about what they would do to me. Don't play like this is a "gift" for me, buddy. It's all about their fantasies, not mine.

But I digress. lol

Once in a while I get a pm from a "priest" who tells me what he is going to do to me..with a crucifix or rosary. Makes me think of The Exorcist.

That's fucking disturbing.
 
I've gotten full-fledged novellas before....twice it was the exact same message from presumably the same person....Some people...
 
Yes, exactly. And they're full of presumptions about my sexuality, likes, etc., when they don't know me at all, never talked to me. Not usually creepy, per se. Just irritating.

And then there are those who don't understand why I am not eternally grateful for receiving their stories about me and about what they would do to me. Don't play like this is a "gift" for me, buddy. It's all about their fantasies, not mine.

But I digress. lol



That's fucking disturbing.

Yes!! X10!
 
This is my new favorite thread ever! Whatever happened to guys just saying nice things?

For what it's worth, I'm sending you all creepy PM's now. :rose:
 
This is my new favorite thread ever! Whatever happened to guys just saying nice things?

For what it's worth, I'm sending you all creepy PM's now. :rose:

For me, about half of the PMs I receive are decent. The rest are creepy, way too pervy, and/or illiterate. When did punctuation and capitalization stop being a part of communicating with the written English language?? Without it, I presume the writer is either in his early 20s or an idiot, neither of which are categories I'm interested in. :rolleyes:

*End of slightly off-topic rant.*
 
For me, about half of the PMs I receive are decent. The rest are creepy, way too pervy, and/or illiterate. When did punctuation and capitalization stop being a part of communicating with the written English language?? Without it, I presume the writer is either in his early 20s or an idiot, neither of which are categories I'm interested in. :rolleyes:

*End of slightly off-topic rant.*

Aw shit...I use entirely to many periods in mine don't it?

Dammit! :D
 
For me, about half of the PMs I receive are decent. The rest are creepy, way too pervy, and/or illiterate. When did punctuation and capitalization stop being a part of communicating with the written English language?? Without it, I presume the writer is either in his early 20s or an idiot, neither of which are categories I'm interested in. :rolleyes:

*End of slightly off-topic rant.*

This...just this.
 
I get a few but tbh the vast majority are from nice blokes. I prefer politeness to " hey bitch" or "hey slut". But luckily those are very few and far between.
 
Hopefully I'm not creepy :)

******
 
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Here's one I just got today - a slight cheat because it's not a PM, but a feedback email I got from one of my audios. And no, I've never heard from the sender before. Nor have I ever hinted that I'm into daddy stuff or mildly disguised child abuse (because negative on both. lol).

An excerpt, because it was long and bizarre, and I removed some of the descriptive language because this borders on child molestation fantasy:

"youve been a good little slut for daddy, you deserve that special massage, you know the one I used to do when you were younger... daddy likes to massage his princesses's **** with his tounge, while he teases your ***.... you are daddys good little slut arent you, so I know you wont tell mommy"​
Holy shit that wins! fuck...
 
I have gotten a few where the sender writes a whole sex scene between he and I. There was ONE that was from someone I had lengthy friendly convos with and that was fine. But coming from someone I have never spoken to before...creepy.

I have gotten a rapey one before. Ick. *shudder* Hate those.

I also got freaked out by one sender who's name insinuated that he might possibly live nearby and he said things like "bet you haven't worn that in awhile" or something along those lines. Creeped me the fuck out! Ignored, immediately!!!
Gah! shudder! ewww
 
For me, about half of the PMs I receive are decent. The rest are creepy, way too pervy, and/or illiterate. When did punctuation and capitalization stop being a part of communicating with the written English language?? Without it, I presume the writer is either in his early 20s or an idiot, neither of which are categories I'm interested in. :rolleyes:

*End of slightly off-topic rant.*

Preach it!!! I am by no means perfect when it comes to grammar, but come on! If a person is too lazy to be bothered with punctuation, capitalization and the actual spelling out of a work (2, u, I c UGH!!!) then they obviously have nothing to say that I am interesting in hearing.

I have yet to get any outright creepy PMs. More irritating ones than anything.
 
I've had some women get REALLY pushy about physical meetups. I've met three litsters, but one way you can be sure of never earning my trust is to demand it.
 
They get pushy
!?!!?

why has this never happened to me :p
jokes

yeah thats not really going to work is it :)
 
I've had some women get REALLY pushy about physical meetups. I've met three litsters, but one way you can be sure of never earning my trust is to demand it.

Really?! Good grief. GI Joe said something similar. What is with all that?

So, to recap in broad sweeping generalizations, the ladies get pushy and want to force trust and RL meetups, and the men get all presumptive and rapey. Got it.
 
I don't like detailed personal intros, so it depends on the person. I want funny/genuine/get to the point. That gets me interested. No offense, but I don't like when someone immediately jumps into their lame hobbies and what they do for a living. I can get that at work.

:)



I'm guilty of sending out a copied and pasted somewhat generic introductory PM to women I see on Lit. I get made fun of sometimes (which is probably deserved) but my message isn't obscene or (I don't think, anyway) creepy. Obviously most women would prefer a detailed, original introductory message tailored to their own posted profile or whatever thread I first noticed them in, but the sad reality is that there are many times more guys than women on Lit so it takes a LOT of messages to get an interested reply. Even though my intro PM isn't particularly unique, I did work hard to make it friendly and non-offensive. The most embarrassing thing is when I send it to the same person twice and she remembers and calls me out on it, lol.

The positive thing, though, is that I've met several really cool women on Lit that have been really fun to talk to, though only one has been a truly ongoing chat partner that I really consider to be a friend, even though we've never actually met.
 
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