❓ Inquiring Minds Want To Know - Discussion Thread

[Wild_Honey_66]

#48

Where do you draw your line with bodily fluids? Do some turn you on more than others? How do you feel about your own fluids? Are there certain areas that you'd like to explore more in this area with your partner?

To ask some specific questions -

How do you feel about your own cum?
Spit - where is a yes and where is a no?
Period sex (this is a hot topic right now over on the PG) hot or not?
Pee play - have you? would you?

Feel free to add anything else!

1. Cum - I'm willing to suck my cum off of my own fingers, or a partner's, if that gets them hot and bothered, but it does nothing for me. On the other hand, smelling and tasting myself on his face and mouth i find hugely erotic. And of course I'm happy to go down on him after I've been riding him, something for both of us there.

2. Spit - A normal amount of spit when he's using his mouth on any part of me is fine, but i don't want to be actively spat upon. But if I've got my bossy knickers on? Hell yes, i will spit on him if it's not a hard limit. Kinda gross, but kinda hot, too.

https://i.ibb.co/D18NSZ2/Spit-Sharing.jpg​

3. Period sex - I was always up for period sex, and never had a partner say no. Oral was out during that time (pussies! ), but it wasn't a deal breaker for me.

4. Pee - This is one of the kinks i am most looking forward to exploring with a new partner. I've had loads of discussions, and am pretty comfortable with my stance on it. As with spit, i don't want to be peed on, but there are lots of other things we can do. My hard limit is i don't want it anywhere near his face.

 

[twister947]

#48

Where do you draw your line with bodily fluids? Do some turn you on more than others? How do you feel about your own fluids? Are there certain areas that you'd like to explore more in this area with your partner?

To ask some specific questions -

How do you feel about your own cum?
Spit - where is a yes and where is a no?
Period sex (this is a hot topic right now over on the PG) hot or not?
Pee play - have you? would you?

Feel free to add anything else!

Yes.
Next question.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Yes.
Next question.

 

[Paul_Chance]

#48

Where do you draw your line with bodily fluids? Do some turn you on more than others? How do you feel about your own fluids? Are there certain areas that you'd like to explore more in this area with your partner?

To ask some specific questions -

How do you feel about your own cum?
Spit - where is a yes and where is a no?
Period sex (this is a hot topic right now over on the PG) hot or not?
Pee play - have you? would you?

Feel free to add anything else!

Okay, I'm hygiene conscious, so, I have a complex relationship with some bodily fluids.

I don't have a problem with my own cum and have shared it with lovers, smeared it, licked it, etc.

Spit - uh, no. I find spit to be crass and slightly disgusting. Buy a good lube.

Period sex - I've got no problem with it, if the relationship is that intimate and the partner is willing.

Pee - have and would, with the right partner it's nasty and exciting. It isn't a fetish I actively pursue, but I've no objections is my partner likes it - either peeing or being peed upon.

Shit - uh, no. Just no.

Sweat - I find sweat to be highly erotic. I love the taste of it, I love the scent of it, I love the feel of it.

Now, as I am at the end of this - remember STD's folks. They're real and there are all kinds of nasty things spread by contact with bodily fluids. Generally speaking, fluids of any sort are best exchanged by partners in a monogamous, committed relationship and with a good knowledge of each others health issues so you or your partner can make informed choices.

 

[cookiecat]

#48

Where do you draw your line with bodily fluids? Do some turn you on more than others? How do you feel about your own fluids? Are there certain areas that you'd like to explore more in this area with your partner?

To ask some specific questions -

How do you feel about your own cum?
Spit - where is a yes and where is a no?
Period sex (this is a hot topic right now over on the PG) hot or not?
Pee play - have you? would you?

Feel free to add anything else!

Yes.
Next question.

Ditto.

How do I feel about my own cum? Amazing, thanks.

I don't get my period anymore but it was hot in the day. I had someone who wanted to change my tampon, which at first I squealed in disgust and embarrassment and later squealed in delight and embarrassment.

Pee play? Yes. On. In. There's something about being marked, being used like that.

Is sweat a bodily fluid? I am NOT in to that! Weird? I read about some people who like armpits. Nope. No. I'll lick an asshole before an armpit.

 

[Bramblethorn]

#48

Where do you draw your line with bodily fluids?

I believe "in the snow" is traditional.

Do some turn you on more than others? How do you feel about your own fluids? Are there certain areas that you'd like to explore more in this area with your partner?

Feces, vomit, and snot would be hard boundaries for me. (I've never encountered a snot fetishist but I assume they exist.)

Piss: not my kink, but would consider if I had a partner who was into it. So far that hasn't come up.

Others: sure, subject to safety considerations. In particular blood is much less of a squick for me than it seems to be for a lot of people, as long as infection control is taken care of and the donor isn't being harmed by the process.

Period sex (this is a hot topic right now over on the PG) hot or not?

Don't mind, don't get particularly excited about it either way.

 

[cookiecat]

I believe "in the snow" is traditional.



Feces, vomit, and snot would be hard boundaries for me. (I've never encountered a snot fetishist but I assume they exist.)

Piss: not my kink, but would consider if I had a partner who was into it. So far that hasn't come up.

Others: sure, subject to safety considerations. In particular blood is much less of a squick for me than it seems to be for a lot of people, as long as infection control is taken care of and the donor isn't being harmed by the process.



Don't mind, don't get particularly excited about it either way.

When I did the phone sex thing, I had a gentleman caller who wanted me to snort IN, as if I had a runny nose and was trying to breathe it back in. Then he'd want me to "hack" up the snot over and over again and pretend I was spitting on him. It was really tough to do. He was a regular caller -- I tried things like half swallowing pudding in order to keep my throat lubricated and actually have something to cough up.

 

[Miles Long]

When I did the phone sex thing, I had a gentleman caller who wanted me to snort IN, as if I had a runny nose and was trying to breathe it back in. Then he'd want me to "hack" up the snot over and over again and pretend I was spitting on him. It was really tough to do. He was a regular caller -- I tried things like half swallowing pudding in order to keep my throat lubricated and actually have something to cough up.

Were you still smoking two packs of Misty Lights at that point?

http://tobacco.stanford.edu/tobacco_web/images/tobacco_ads/womens_cigarettes/misty/large/misty_11.jpg

 

[Bramblethorn]

When I did the phone sex thing, I had a gentleman caller who wanted me to snort IN, as if I had a runny nose and was trying to breathe it back in. Then he'd want me to "hack" up the snot over and over again and pretend I was spitting on him. It was really tough to do. He was a regular caller -- I tried things like half swallowing pudding in order to keep my throat lubricated and actually have something to cough up.

This reminds me of reading about a Goon Show episode where they got a sound effect by filling a sock with custard and swinging it against the wall.

Not my kink but it's fascinating hearing about other people's kinks!

 

[cookiecat]

Were you still smoking two packs of Misty Lights at that point?

Hi Miles!

Hey, if he paid me 1.99 a minute, I would have found a way to pretend I was smiling Misty Lights.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

I like armpits.

 

[twister947]

Good sex is wet, sloppy, messy, and leads to sharing the shower. And sometimes a new mattress.

 

[Miles Long]

Hi Miles!

Hey, if he paid me 1.99 a minute, I would have found a way to pretend I was smiling Misty Lights.

Hi cookie! You ain't just whistling dixie!

 

[Threadbare42]

#48

Where do you draw your line with bodily fluids? Do some turn you on more than others? How do you feel about your own fluids? Are there certain areas that you'd like to explore more in this area with your partner?

To ask some specific questions -

How do you feel about your own cum?
Spit - where is a yes and where is a no?
Period sex (this is a hot topic right now over on the PG) hot or not?
Pee play - have you? would you?

Feel free to add anything else!

Spit I'm actually pretty comfortable with, as I view it as an extension of kissing/licking really. I love things like rubbing a partners saliva on my nipples for example.

I feel very icky about my own cum, but a partner's I will happily taste or have on a finger etc.

Period sex I've never tried, would probably give it a go

Pee is a funny one because the degradation element of someone being pissed on does excite me when I'm in the right mood as a fantasy, but I don't know if I'd ever want to try it for real, it also makes me feel kind of icky

 

[Karabare]

#48

Where do you draw your line with bodily fluids? Do some turn you on more than others? How do you feel about your own fluids? Are there certain areas that you'd like to explore more in this area with your partner?

To ask some specific questions -

How do you feel about your own cum? apparently girl cum is hot? I don't really think about it
Spit - where is a yes and where is a no? it's ok, just don't actively spit on me
Period sex (this is a hot topic right now over on the PG) hot or not? my husband is a prude but I would have sex at any time. That's what towels and showers are for
Pee play - have you? would you?look, if you came in contact with someone else's urine as much as I did you would not find this sexy

Feel free to add anything else!

I swallow like a champ

 

[Karabare]

I mean, if we're talking fluids and not solids, I don't know if I have a line. At least not one I've been asked to cross yet.

I'm perfectly comfortable with my own as well as someone else's. I don't know if I'd say the fluid itself is a kink for me - moreso the act of being so full of lust that you have this incredibly carnal desire to share everything and make a filthy, beautiful mess of the person you're with.

My own come is fine. I mean, it's a little bland and could prob use some seasoning.

Spit is okay. Preferably in me, not on me. Drool is even better.

Period sex is good. Just throw a towel down, guys. It feels pretty fucking fantastic.

Pee play? Um. Sure. Let's try it!

Sweat, though. Fuck yes. If you're not a sweaty, sticky mess - you're doing it wrong.

Hahaha! Seasoning!

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

#48

Where do you draw your line with bodily fluids? Do some turn you on more than others? How do you feel about your own fluids? Are there certain areas that you'd like to explore more in this area with your partner?

To ask some specific questions -

How do you feel about your own cum?
Spit - where is a yes and where is a no?
Period sex (this is a hot topic right now over on the PG) hot or not?
Pee play - have you? would you?

Feel free to add anything else!

I agree that safety is the highest priority so assuming we are both clean and safe. Yes some things turn me on more but it also depends so much on the person.
My own wetness was something I was embarrassed of for a long time. Being young and having guys remark on how wet I got was mortifying but as I get older I realize it's definitely a blessing.

Breaking it down -
Cum - mine/his - yes please! I like cum play. Touching, tasting, facials, all of the above. And my cum is pretty awesome too.
Spit - is a soft limit for me. I am a fan of humiliation and degradation play but this is deep seeded as one of the dirtiest things you can do to someone so... it would have to be a trusted partner and something we agreed on. (Also I dont mean spit as lube that's just regular I think).
Period sex - I've never done it. I've always been of the "secluded thyself" background but my hormones are out of control then and my orgasms are 5x better so if my partner was down... I'd be ok.
Pee play - Again not something I've done but something that with the right person in the right context... yes. It's the most primal form of claiming right? Literally marking your territory?
Sweat - God, is there anything better than you both being slippery and sweaty together? Grr...

OK I need a cold shower....

 

[twister947]

Light years of difference between spitting on someone, and exchanging spit lovingly. Just sayin'...

 

[supercollider00]

So.... I just bought my first chastity device and I am absolutely THRILLED with it. It feels absolutely great and I love the feeling it gives me. I'm wondering though, how would I make the lock more silent? It's a Mancage made in plastic. It's not that big of a deal if I can't wear it out.... but I would like the thrill of it.

 

[AlwaysFara]

So.... I just bought my first chastity device and I am absolutely THRILLED with it. It feels absolutely great and I love the feeling it gives me. I'm wondering though, how would I make the lock more silent? It's a Mancage made in plastic. It's not that big of a deal if I can't wear it out.... but I would like the thrill of it.

Hi. Why don’t you start a thread for this? BDSM Talk or in the How To Forum. You won’t get answers here. We are here to answer and discuss weekly questions on this thread.

 

[cascadiabound]

Hi. Why don’t you start a thread for this? BDSM Talk or in the How To Forum. You won’t get answers here. We are here to answer and discuss weekly questions on this thread.

as proof, this thread has gone silent for FOUR DAYS

where is everyone????

 

[AlwaysFara]

as proof, this thread has gone silent for FOUR DAYS

where is everyone????

On Hiney’s threads on the PG.

 

[gracie920101]

as proof, this thread has gone silent for FOUR DAYS

where is everyone????

Hi CB!

Everyone is lurking, as usual.

 

[cascadiabound]

On Hiney’s threads on the PG.

I guess I will have to wander over there and see what is happening.

I'd like to file a formal complaint with management.

<cough>PLP<cough>

yes... a complaint... and a compliment. PLP has been doing an excellent job with this thread.

Hi CB!

Everyone is lurking, as usual.

Hey gracie!!!!!
I guess I am as guilty of this as many others.
Hope you are doing well my friend.

 

[TANSTAAFL58]

#48

Where do you draw your line with bodily fluids? Do some turn you on more than others? How do you feel about your own fluids? Are there certain areas that you'd like to explore more in this area with your partner?

To ask some specific questions -

How do you feel about your own cum?
Spit - where is a yes and where is a no?
Period sex (this is a hot topic right now over on the PG) hot or not?
Pee play - have you? would you?

Feel free to add anything else!

Okay, I wasn't going to answer this one because I don't think I have much to add, but here goes.

I am addicted to her nectar. She doesn't flow as freely as she once did, but like old, rare whisky, its worth the effort to get a taste of her musky, sweet essence. Oh fuck, to Hell with euphemisms. I crave pussy juice. How great is it to get a reward like that just for doing something I was going to do anyways? When she is excited enough and in the proper frame of mind she still produces a nice steady flow. I love when I can still smell it on my fingers or mustache and beard the next day. Hmm. I wonder if she's awake yet...

Spit: a great lubricant. And who doesn't get a little excited by the words "sloppy blowjob"?

Period sex? I already mentioned (here?) that I loved it when it was available and miss it now that it isn't. Guys: JUST DO IT! Put down a towel and FFS make she she cums! The shower often lead to round two...

Pee? I'm a little curious. A little.

My own cum? I tasted it once years ago, found it to be not unpleasant. That leads to oral after vaginal: yes, I eat her out after i cum in her, enjoying our mixed cum.

How's that?