❓ PLP Inquires II ❓

[AngelicaS1780]

02.25.25

How do outside factors affect your <---Horniness Spectrum--->? Does stress send you into a shell or make you want to take out your frustrations on something warm and willing? Does spring get you twitterpated or does winter make you want to work up a sweat? What unrelated life occurrences have a butterfly effect on your libido?

The better I feel, physically and mentally, the hornier I am. Exercising regularly and eating well increases my libido. Feeling confident and desired does as well. Feeling anxious and/or depressed does not. I'm especially frisky in the spring and autumn... something about going from more extreme conditions (less daylight, bitter cold, high heat and humidity) to milder weather significantly increases my sex drive.

 

[Deleted member 6568729]

I... what? That's very much not the case

Sorry I can't hear you over the sounds you're making from being asexual. Like my parents. And brothers.

 

[BongoGal]

02.25.25

Does spring get you twitterpated or does winter make you want to work up a sweat?

I don't know if it affects my horniness levels, but hot and humid weather makes me want to avoid being touched. I still shudder when I think about the guy on top of me who managed to drip beads of sweat into both my eyes at the same time. My own sweat in my eyes sucks, but someone else's is gross! And it stings! (It was an instant mood killer.)

 

[AlpineFresco]

Sorry I can't hear you over the sounds you're making from being asexual. Like my parents. And brothers.

Bahaha. How cute that my sexuality just existing weirds you out

 

[vibes]

I don't know if it affects my horniness levels, but hot and humid weather makes me want to avoid being touched. I still shudder when I think about the guy on top of me who managed to drip beads of sweat into both my eyes at the same time. My own sweat in my eyes sucks, but someone else's is gross! And it stings! (It was an instant mood killer.)

I hear you: sex only with A/C on during the summer

 

[Deleted member 6592667]

02.25.25

How do outside factors affect your <---Horniness Spectrum--->?

Eating good and excercising definitely have a positive effect on the horny spectrum. Being in a relaxed state is also positive. Feeling wanted and desired has a very big positive effect. Feeling blown off or on the recieving end of bad energy also has a not-so-great effect.

Does stress send you into a shell or make you want to take out your frustrations on something warm and willing?

Stress basically moves in and kicks my libido directly in the balls. I could be trying to rub one out and stress would kick open my door and let off an airhorn. It's like the sex factory just closes.

Does spring get you twitterpated or does winter make you want to work up a sweat?

Not really and not really.

What unrelated life occurrences have a butterfly effect on your libido?

Work stress, life stress, disasters. The house got flooded last year due to endless disaster rainstorms and I can honestly say I don't think my libido has fully recovered. It sucks.

 

[MedicalMuse]

Eating good and excercising definitely have a positive effect on the horny spectrum. Being in a relaxed state is also positive. Feeling wanted and desired has a very big positive effect. Feeling blown off or on the recieving end of bad energy also has a not-so-great effect.

Stress basically moves in and kicks my libido directly in the balls. I could be trying to rub one out and stress would kick open my door and let off an airhorn. It's like the sex factory just closes.

Not really and not really.

Work stress, life stress, disasters. The house got flooded last year due to endless disaster rainstorms and I can honestly say I don't think my libido has fully recovered. It sucks.

 

[Deleted member 6592667]

Oh I'm fine. But thank you, doll

 

[LadyLascivious1]

Great, now I’m horny again!

Are you sure you didn’t mean to say that you’re horny always?

If I was only a little bit Domme-y, you'd be in trouble!

You called?

 

[Dayhoosier]

Are you sure you didn’t mean to say that you’re horny always?


You called?

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

You called?

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[Dayhoosier]

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*Slips to the corner watching this all go down....sips drink*

 

[Deleted member 6568729]

Bahaha. How cute that my sexuality just existing weirds you out

LALALALALA

 

[deefalttwunnyfor]

If I was only a little bit Domme-y, you'd be in trouble!

You called?

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[AlpineFresco]

LALALALALA

Let me tell you, I'm going to have so much fun when I finish up work tonight, all the porn I want, no need to be quiet, so good!

 

[Deleted member 6568729]

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[hotwords229_A]

Are you sure you didn’t mean to say that you’re horny always?

There are entire moments when I’m not horny at all.

 

[StacyLeigh]

02.25.25

How do outside factors affect your <---Horniness Spectrum--->? Does stress send you into a shell or make you want to take out your frustrations on something warm and willing? Does spring get you twitterpated or does winter make you want to work up a sweat? What unrelated life occurrences have a butterfly effect on your libido?

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I run pretty high most of the time (no matter the time of year), but stress is definitely my crux. I know that sex will make the stress melt - even if only temporary - releasing dopamine and providing some reprieve....but it's getting myself over the hurdle of focusing on what is (the situation) to what could be (a beautiful orgasm) that is the challenge. I'm probably horniest in the summer and after exercise.....something about sweating, I suppose

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

03.01.25

Happy March! Let's talk ~flirting~

Do yo like to flirt? Do you like to be flirted with? Are you good at it? What's your favorite form of flirtation?

Do you like to flirt for flirtations sake or does your flirtation always signal your desire for something more? Do you have friends that you know are just flirty friends and that you both know will never be more than that? Is this just an implicit knowledge or have you had an actual conversation?

How can someone tell the difference in your fun flirts and your intentional flirts? Have you ever gotten carried away with a stream of flirtation? How did that end up??

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[MrMakersMark]

03.01.25

Happy March! Let's talk ~flirting~

Do yo like to flirt?

Love it!

Do you like to be flirted with?

Of course!

Are you good at it?

No! I am not.

What's your favorite form of flirtation?

I didn't realize there was nuance. Refer to the answer above.

Do you like to flirt for flirtations sake or does your flirtation always signal your desire for something more?

It's just flirt. I've no motives.

Do you have friends that you know are just flirty friends and that you both know will never be more than that?

Yeah.

Is this just an implicit knowledge or have you had an actual conversation?

We both know. She's my best friend.

How can someone tell the difference in your fun flirts and your intentional flirts?

They can't. I suck. Lol.
We've covered this.

Have you ever gotten carried away with a stream of flirtation? How did that end up??

Have to be more specific.
Getting carried away, kind of implies it wasn't a mutually accepted move toward a desired end.
I will say, it's almost always just a flirt for nothing more than the sake of having a fun conversation with a funny and interesting girl that gets both of us revved up.
The fun in flirting is wanting more.

Always ends up with me still being me, and vice-versa.

Eventually I will say something that triggers the, "What the fuck? Oh shit. Oh....no. This was a mistake. I need to run.", response.

Not really. Lol..but maybe.

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[Whiskeyjack]

03.01.25

Happy March! Let's talk ~flirting~

Do yo like to flirt?

Yes, of course! Who doesn't like flirting?

Do you like to be flirted with?

Even better than flirting is being flirted with!

Are you good at it?

I'm charmingly inept.

What's your favorite form of flirtation?

Memes and pop culture references.

Do you like to flirt for flirtations sake or does your flirtation always signal your desire for something more?

Depends. In person, it's always flirtation for flirtation's sake. There's no desire for something more IRL. Online it varies. There's more room for "more" online within the bounds of my marriage. But not in person.

Do you have friends that you know are just flirty friends and that you both know will never be more than that?

Yes. And I have a massive crush on her because of her flirtatiousness, and I know it will never be more than that.

Is this just an implicit knowledge or have you had an actual conversation?

There may have been a conversation while I was high af on a new prescription where I told her I wanted to make out with her thighs. That later gave way to a more sober conversation.

How can someone tell the difference in your fun flirts and your intentional flirts?

I tell them.

Have you ever gotten carried away with a stream of flirtation?

Yes.

How did that end up??

Sticky.

 

[RosewoodTulip]

Do yo like to flirt? Do you like to be flirted with? Are you good at it? What's your favorite form of flirtation?

I am terrible with all things flirt. I can't do it. Can't tell if it's being done to me. I respond more to honesty, weird humour and thoughtfulness. Get me smiling and thinking. Is that flirting though if someone does that to me? No idea.
I personally try to get by on awkwardness

Do you like to flirt for flirtations sake or does your flirtation always signal your desire for something more? Do you have friends that you know are just flirty friends and that you both know will never be more than that? Is this just an implicit knowledge or have you had an actual conversation?

I like witty banter but it doesn't mean I'd want more than that. I enjoy talking to lots of people but it takes an awful lot for me to actually be interested in anything else. I'm also rubbish at letting people know if I would want more.
Gee Rosie, why are you still single?

How can someone tell the difference in your fun flirts and your intentional flirts? Have you ever gotten carried away with a stream of flirtation? How did that end up??

Again I can't really do or recognise flirting towards me so maybe there have been times when what I thought was just having a laugh was more meaningful to the other person or the other way round even

 

[Dayhoosier]

03.01.25

Happy March! Let's talk ~flirting~

Do yo like to flirt? Do you like to be flirted with? Are you good at it? What's your favorite form of flirtation?

I think I do
Would love to be flirted with but I'm terrible at recognizing it in the moment. It's later when I'm like...wait a minute was she flirting?
I'm definitely not good at it, but fav form is more like banter with just a dusting of innuendo

Do you like to flirt for flirtations sake or does your flirtation always signal your desire for something more?

Can my answer be both? Doesn't always signal anything but also if someone thought it did and pressed me on it? Well testosterone is a powerful drug lol

Do you have friends that you know are just flirty friends and that you both know will never be more than that? Is this just an implicit knowledge or have you had an actual conversation?

Not that im aware of. Although sometimes I think one of my bosses might be flirting with me kind of frequently? I don't know

How can someone tell the difference in your fun flirts and your intentional flirts?

I imagine intentional ones are extra awkward?

Have you ever gotten carried away with a stream of flirtation? How did that end up??

I wish? Lol no but really I don't think so. If it did ....again ...I didn't even notice

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[PrettyLilPussy19]

03.01.25

Happy March! Let's talk ~flirting~

Do yo like to flirt? Do you like to be flirted with? Are you good at it? What's your favorite form of flirtation?

Do you like to flirt for flirtations sake or does your flirtation always signal your desire for something more? Do you have friends that you know are just flirty friends and that you both know will never be more than that? Is this just an implicit knowledge or have you had an actual conversation?

How can someone tell the difference in your fun flirts and your intentional flirts? Have you ever gotten carried away with a stream of flirtation? How did that end up??

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I love to flirt and, in general, I quite like to be flirted with especially when it's someone clever or funny or teasing and not just immediately or overtly sexual. I mean, I like that too sometimes but just not at first. I quite like being teased by someone who knows how to do it. This is very me but like others have said - a perfect gif is just <chef's kiss>. Am I good at it? Depends on the day, my friends.

I'd say 99.9% of my flirting, especially publicly on Lit, is for fun - that's what the Playground is for really and that's really all I'm interested in for the most part. Almost all my friends are flirty friends sometimes. I think flirting is a nice way to make someone else feel nice. And sometimes you can give a compliment in a flirty way that would come across far more awkwardly in all seriousness. I've had to have a few conversations when things were maybe taken a little more seriously that I had intended. If we still speak, it was a good conversation. Unfortunately, I've also had the - I'm sorry the boner I accidentally gave you just isn't my responsibility - talk way too often. I've also been very pro-active in making sure that the flirting I do doesn't make anyone uncomfortable or cross a line. (Always invite the "no".)

If I'm more serious, I'll usually be a little blunt about it if I get the vibes that might be reciprocated. This does take 3 years, 4 shots and an act of god but...

Has it ever gone too far? Less that I'd like and more than I'd admit.


(Thank you everyone for not pointing out my continues experimentation with hypnotizing you all.)

 

[Addam829]

03.01.25

Happy March! Let's talk ~flirting~

Do yo like to flirt? Do you like to be flirted with? Are you good at it? What's your favorite form of flirtation?

Do you like to flirt for flirtations sake or does your flirtation always signal your desire for something more? Do you have friends that you know are just flirty friends and that you both know will never be more than that? Is this just an implicit knowledge or have you had an actual conversation?

How can someone tell the difference in your fun flirts and your intentional flirts? Have you ever gotten carried away with a stream of flirtation? How did that end up??

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This is honestly really interesting! So I will say I enjoy being flirted with. I can tell after a certain point and how far either I or the person I’m flirting with goes. It’s very fun and entertaining because it’s like a game of who will push the envelope. Will the limits even be pushed.
I enjoy flirting by banter and sometimes by physical touch, depending. Physically flirting can be hard sometimes because of how the world is currently shaped and never want to come off as forceful. Hence why I prefer flirting through banter.

I am pretty good at telling when flirting with conversations because once either person keeps upping the stakes in the flirt I can it’s flirting with intention as opposed to flirting for the sake of it. For example I was flirting with a mom at my daughter’s school when we would see each other. She one day needed help with a tire. And after running to the store for plug and doing it myself. She joked and said she’s glad I did it, with the wallet tight she thought she would have to give head or a handy for a good discount. I chuckled and responded with “a handy would be worth a jump start. And head would be good payment depending and where you let me finish”. As I laughed she looked at me while laughing slightly as she liked her lips and responded with “well would you like and IOU or payment in the parking lot”. And that was us flirting throughout the year complimenting me or saying she wishes her husband was like me.