Paul_Chance
The Watcher
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03.29.21
In your opinion....
What's your sexual strength?? Amazing dirty talk? Enchanting oral? Extra giddyup in your cowgirl?
Tell us your flex.![]()
Let me find my trumpet for my solo...
Let me answer this two ways - what do I think is my strength?
I'd have to say two things make me a better than average lover - attention to detail and knowing what a feedback loop is. All sex is a duet (well, sometimes it can be everything from a jazz trio to a full orchestra, but essentially it's a duet). Know the instrument and paying attention to your partner and incorporating the things you feel, observe and are told are critical to the performance.
What have I been told is my strength?:
I've been sexually active for 40+ years, the consistent things I get feedback on are these:
I'm told I play wicked mind games and that I can get inside their head (both meant as compliments).
I've been told that I excel at dirty talk during sex - both in doing it and in coaxing it gently out of a partner. This usually comes in the form of "I've never done that, that was dirty and hot!".
I've got a position I am fond of that seems to bring intense orgasmic waves (basically, cowgirl with me sitting on a chair, them on top - excellent position to touch everything and watch the feedback loop, works across genders).
And oddly enough, I've been told "You're funny" more than once because quite often I bring my sense of humor to bed with me and I've been told "I never laughed and had an orgasm at the same time" more than once.
<----Finishes trumpet solo. Bows. Sit's down.