❓ PLP Inquires II ❓

[MrMakersMark]

03.01.25

Happy March! Let's talk ~flirting~

Do yo like to flirt?

Love it!

Do you like to be flirted with?

Of course!

Are you good at it?

No! I am not.

What's your favorite form of flirtation?

I didn't realize there was nuance. Refer to the answer above.

Do you like to flirt for flirtations sake or does your flirtation always signal your desire for something more?

It's just flirt. I've no motives.

Do you have friends that you know are just flirty friends and that you both know will never be more than that?

Yeah.

Is this just an implicit knowledge or have you had an actual conversation?

We both know. She's my best friend.

How can someone tell the difference in your fun flirts and your intentional flirts?

They can't. I suck. Lol.
We've covered this.

Have you ever gotten carried away with a stream of flirtation? How did that end up??

Have to be more specific.
Getting carried away, kind of implies it wasn't a mutually accepted move toward a desired end.
I will say, it's almost always just a flirt for nothing more than the sake of having a fun conversation with a funny and interesting girl that gets both of us revved up.
The fun in flirting is wanting more.

Always ends up with me still being me, and vice-versa.

Eventually I will say something that triggers the, "What the fuck? Oh shit. Oh....no. This was a mistake. I need to run.", response.

Not really. Lol..but maybe.

 

[Whiskeyjack]

03.01.25

Happy March! Let's talk ~flirting~

Do yo like to flirt?

Yes, of course! Who doesn't like flirting?

Do you like to be flirted with?

Even better than flirting is being flirted with!

Are you good at it?

I'm charmingly inept.

What's your favorite form of flirtation?

Memes and pop culture references.

Do you like to flirt for flirtations sake or does your flirtation always signal your desire for something more?

Depends. In person, it's always flirtation for flirtation's sake. There's no desire for something more IRL. Online it varies. There's more room for "more" online within the bounds of my marriage. But not in person.

Do you have friends that you know are just flirty friends and that you both know will never be more than that?

Yes. And I have a massive crush on her because of her flirtatiousness, and I know it will never be more than that.

Is this just an implicit knowledge or have you had an actual conversation?

There may have been a conversation while I was high af on a new prescription where I told her I wanted to make out with her thighs. That later gave way to a more sober conversation.

How can someone tell the difference in your fun flirts and your intentional flirts?

I tell them.

Have you ever gotten carried away with a stream of flirtation?

Yes.

How did that end up??

Sticky.

 

[RosewoodTulip]

Do yo like to flirt? Do you like to be flirted with? Are you good at it? What's your favorite form of flirtation?

I am terrible with all things flirt. I can't do it. Can't tell if it's being done to me. I respond more to honesty, weird humour and thoughtfulness. Get me smiling and thinking. Is that flirting though if someone does that to me? No idea.
I personally try to get by on awkwardness

Do you like to flirt for flirtations sake or does your flirtation always signal your desire for something more? Do you have friends that you know are just flirty friends and that you both know will never be more than that? Is this just an implicit knowledge or have you had an actual conversation?

I like witty banter but it doesn't mean I'd want more than that. I enjoy talking to lots of people but it takes an awful lot for me to actually be interested in anything else. I'm also rubbish at letting people know if I would want more.
Gee Rosie, why are you still single?

How can someone tell the difference in your fun flirts and your intentional flirts? Have you ever gotten carried away with a stream of flirtation? How did that end up??

Again I can't really do or recognise flirting towards me so maybe there have been times when what I thought was just having a laugh was more meaningful to the other person or the other way round even

 

[Dayhoosier]

03.01.25

Happy March! Let's talk ~flirting~

Do yo like to flirt? Do you like to be flirted with? Are you good at it? What's your favorite form of flirtation?

I think I do
Would love to be flirted with but I'm terrible at recognizing it in the moment. It's later when I'm like...wait a minute was she flirting?
I'm definitely not good at it, but fav form is more like banter with just a dusting of innuendo

Do you like to flirt for flirtations sake or does your flirtation always signal your desire for something more?

Can my answer be both? Doesn't always signal anything but also if someone thought it did and pressed me on it? Well testosterone is a powerful drug lol

Do you have friends that you know are just flirty friends and that you both know will never be more than that? Is this just an implicit knowledge or have you had an actual conversation?

Not that im aware of. Although sometimes I think one of my bosses might be flirting with me kind of frequently? I don't know

How can someone tell the difference in your fun flirts and your intentional flirts?

I imagine intentional ones are extra awkward?

Have you ever gotten carried away with a stream of flirtation? How did that end up??

I wish? Lol no but really I don't think so. If it did ....again ...I didn't even notice

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

03.01.25

Happy March! Let's talk ~flirting~

Do yo like to flirt? Do you like to be flirted with? Are you good at it? What's your favorite form of flirtation?

Do you like to flirt for flirtations sake or does your flirtation always signal your desire for something more? Do you have friends that you know are just flirty friends and that you both know will never be more than that? Is this just an implicit knowledge or have you had an actual conversation?

How can someone tell the difference in your fun flirts and your intentional flirts? Have you ever gotten carried away with a stream of flirtation? How did that end up??

I love to flirt and, in general, I quite like to be flirted with especially when it's someone clever or funny or teasing and not just immediately or overtly sexual. I mean, I like that too sometimes but just not at first. I quite like being teased by someone who knows how to do it. This is very me but like others have said - a perfect gif is just <chef's kiss>. Am I good at it? Depends on the day, my friends.

I'd say 99.9% of my flirting, especially publicly on Lit, is for fun - that's what the Playground is for really and that's really all I'm interested in for the most part. Almost all my friends are flirty friends sometimes. I think flirting is a nice way to make someone else feel nice. And sometimes you can give a compliment in a flirty way that would come across far more awkwardly in all seriousness. I've had to have a few conversations when things were maybe taken a little more seriously that I had intended. If we still speak, it was a good conversation. Unfortunately, I've also had the - I'm sorry the boner I accidentally gave you just isn't my responsibility - talk way too often. I've also been very pro-active in making sure that the flirting I do doesn't make anyone uncomfortable or cross a line. (Always invite the "no".)

If I'm more serious, I'll usually be a little blunt about it if I get the vibes that might be reciprocated. This does take 3 years, 4 shots and an act of god but...

Has it ever gone too far? Less that I'd like and more than I'd admit.


(Thank you everyone for not pointing out my continues experimentation with hypnotizing you all.)

 

[Addam829]

03.01.25

Happy March! Let's talk ~flirting~

Do yo like to flirt? Do you like to be flirted with? Are you good at it? What's your favorite form of flirtation?

Do you like to flirt for flirtations sake or does your flirtation always signal your desire for something more? Do you have friends that you know are just flirty friends and that you both know will never be more than that? Is this just an implicit knowledge or have you had an actual conversation?

How can someone tell the difference in your fun flirts and your intentional flirts? Have you ever gotten carried away with a stream of flirtation? How did that end up??

This is honestly really interesting! So I will say I enjoy being flirted with. I can tell after a certain point and how far either I or the person I’m flirting with goes. It’s very fun and entertaining because it’s like a game of who will push the envelope. Will the limits even be pushed.
I enjoy flirting by banter and sometimes by physical touch, depending. Physically flirting can be hard sometimes because of how the world is currently shaped and never want to come off as forceful. Hence why I prefer flirting through banter.

I am pretty good at telling when flirting with conversations because once either person keeps upping the stakes in the flirt I can it’s flirting with intention as opposed to flirting for the sake of it. For example I was flirting with a mom at my daughter’s school when we would see each other. She one day needed help with a tire. And after running to the store for plug and doing it myself. She joked and said she’s glad I did it, with the wallet tight she thought she would have to give head or a handy for a good discount. I chuckled and responded with “a handy would be worth a jump start. And head would be good payment depending and where you let me finish”. As I laughed she looked at me while laughing slightly as she liked her lips and responded with “well would you like and IOU or payment in the parking lot”. And that was us flirting throughout the year complimenting me or saying she wishes her husband was like me.

 

[morelikeasong]

Do you like to flirt? Do you like to be flirted with? Are you good at it? What's your favorite form of flirtation?

I am a notorious flirt. I love it, both giving and receiving .
I believe I am good at it. Even better in person.

I really love flirtatious eye contact, but obviously that’s not a thing here.
I like all the flirting: witty banter, teasing, meme sharing, obvious thirst posting, genuine conversation with a flirtatious undertone… all of it.

Do you like to flirt for flirtations sake or does your flirtation always signal your desire for something more?

It definitely doesn’t always signal something more. Usually it doesn’t. It’s fun just to flirt.

Do you have friends that you know are just flirty friends and that you both know will never be more than that? Is this just an implicit knowledge or have you had an actual conversation?

I love flirty friends! I have had the explicit conversation to clarify that the flirtation is just that when I think it’s warranted. Otherwise I think it’s mostly implicit.
IRL, my best friend’s husband is very flirty with me. I would NEVER cross that line (even if I’ve thought about it ). And I think, as much as he wishes he could finagle a threesome, we’ve got a pretty solid understanding that it’s just fun to be playful.

How can someone tell the difference in your fun flirts and your intentional flirts? Have you ever gotten carried away with a stream of flirtation? How did that end up??

Uhhhhh… well, I don’t really know specifically. I think I generally set boundaries in a pretty organic way.

I’ve definitely gotten carried away in the past. It leads to fun places!

Come flirt with me and see…
Don’t worry about that song you hear. Or those rocks you see in the distance.

 

[NakedStoryLover]

I am a notorious flirt. I love it, both giving and receiving .
I believe I am good at it. Even better in person.

I really love flirtatious eye contact, but obviously that’s not a thing here.
I like all the flirting: witty banter, teasing, meme sharing, obvious thirst posting, genuine conversation with a flirtatious undertone… all of it.


It definitely doesn’t always signal something more. Usually it doesn’t. It’s fun just to flirt.


I love flirty friends! I have had the explicit conversation to clarify that the flirtation is just that when I think it’s warranted. Otherwise I think it’s mostly implicit.
IRL, my best friend’s husband is very flirty with me. I would NEVER cross that line (even if I’ve thought about it ). And I think, as much as he wishes he could finagle a threesome, we’ve got a pretty solid understanding that it’s just fun to be playful.


Uhhhhh… well, I don’t really know specifically. I think I generally set boundaries in a pretty organic way.

I’ve definitely gotten carried away in the past. It leads to fun places!

Come flirt with me and see…
Don’t worry about that song you hear. Or those rocks you see in the distance.

Followed. For this and so much more.

 

[Dayhoosier]

*waiting for his daily dose of hypnosis*

 

[TomTeacher19]

03.01.25

Happy March! Let's talk ~flirting~

Do yo like to flirt?

Very much so

Do you like to be flirted with?

Very much so

Are you good at it?

I don't think I am but I try

What's your favorite form of flirtation?

I like complimenting people. People tend to be wonderful in many ways already so it's great to keep reminding them of how they are.

Do you like to flirt for flirtations sake or does your flirtation always signal your desire for something more?

Both

Do you have friends that you know are just flirty friends and that you both know will never be more than that?

Yes. Flirting is still very fun

Is this just an implicit knowledge or have you had an actual conversation?

Depends on the person.

How can someone tell the difference in your fun flirts and your intentional flirts?

Excellent question. Not sure. At a certain point if it has not become more of something then I think you need to be clear and implicit.

Have you ever gotten carried away with a stream of flirtation? How did that end up??

Honestly usually it ends up with getting ghosted. And apologies. But doesn't happen too often.

 

[Neanderthal247]

03.01.25

Happy March! Let's talk ~flirting~

Do yo like to flirt? Do you like to be flirted with? Are you good at it? What's your favorite form of flirtation?

I like to flirt and be flirted with, I think I'm good at flirting. My favorite type of flirting is emotional, when they mean something to you, every word is that much more extreme

Do you like to flirt for flirtations sake or does your flirtation always signal your desire for something more?

Depending on who, some are just for fun and doesn't have any implications of my wants.

Do you have friends that you know are just flirty friends and that you both know will never be more than that?

Currently I don't have any flirty friends

Is this just an implicit knowledge or have you had an actual conversation?

N/A

How can someone tell the difference in your fun flirts and your intentional flirts?

I am very direct and I'll pm you, you will know.

Have you ever gotten carried away with a stream of flirtation? How did that end up??

Yes, it usually turns out ok or very sexy. I will pm and apologize and things will be OK or they'll let me know they want it too.

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

*waiting for his daily dose of hypnosis*

My plan is already working!

 

[Dayhoosier]

My plan is already working!

yes ma'am.....your plan.....our plan....the plan..

 

[SalaciousMonkey22]

Come flirt with me and (you’ll) see

In a world

 

[SalaciousMonkey22]

03.01.25

Happy March! Let's talk ~flirting~

Do yo like to flirt?

Me? No. Not at all.

Do you like to be flirted with?

Depends. I do have an ego. It likes to be stroked. But I can get uncomfortable if I don’t know the person and don’t know if they know the rules/respect boundaries

Are you good at it?

I have my moments

What's your favorite form of flirtation?

I don’t know what the forms are?

Do you like to flirt for flirtations sake or does your flirtation always signal your desire for something more? Do you have friends that you know are just flirty friends and that you both know will never be more than that? Is this just an implicit knowledge or have you had an actual conversation?

For me flirting is always the goal in itself. Almost everyone I flirt hard with knows that it is all it is. Some of them I’ve had the conversation with. Some I haven’t. I’m usually okay at reading a room.

How can someone tell the difference in your fun flirts and your intentional flirts? Have you ever gotten carried away with a stream of flirtation? How did that end up??

I don’t know that I have a tell. I think if I’m interested in someone as more than a friend it comes through in conversation more than banter. But you’d have to ask them.

I don’t know that I’ve gotten carried away. A couple of times I’ve gotten concerned that the other person might be taking it more seriously than I was. And I’ll usually just ask and clarify if that’s the case .

 

[morelikeasong]

It likes to be stroked

Who doesn’t love a good stroking?

 

[Wand3rlust]

03.01.25

Happy March! Let's talk ~flirting~

Do yo like to flirt? Do you like to be flirted with? Are you good at it? What's your favorite form of flirtation?

I like to flirt. I don't think I'm good at it at all. I don't recognise it in others. I think I can appear uninterested and get friend zoned very quickly. But that is masking an horrendous shyness at times.

Do you like to flirt for flirtations sake or does your flirtation always signal your desire for something more? Do you have friends that you know are just flirty friends and that you both know will never be more than that? Is this just an implicit knowledge or have you had an actual conversation?

I wish I was good at conversations like that. Alas, I'm terrible. And no, I can't always tell the difference. Ha. I guess I've gotten hurt a lot.

How can someone tell the difference in your fun flirts and your intentional flirts? Have you ever gotten carried away with a stream of flirtation? How did that end up??

Again, I don't know. I need someone else to take the lead. I'm not good at it.

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

Again, I don't know. I need someone else to take the lead.

Well that's all you had to say, pretty!

 

[RosewoodTulip]

which is perhaps not your style,

Running away, hiding under a rock and never speaking to them again is more my style but I appreciate the advice

 

[Otis_Ravelli]

I do enjoy a bit of a flirt. There are some people I've reached a point if friendship where it would be weird if I started flirting now, others where flirting is pretty standard and yet others where I know I might be able to go further but as I'm not totally sure I don't want to make anything awkward.

 

[LadyLascivious1]

03.01.25

Happy March! Let's talk ~flirting~

Do yo like to flirt? Do you like to be flirted with? Are you good at it?

Yes, yes, and yes! What’s not to love about it? Other than some specific work situations or with family, I think flirting makes most interactions more fun.

And I flirt as easily as I breathe

What's your favorite form of flirtation?

I think I like all of them in their own way. Variety is one of my favorite things.

Do you like to flirt for flirtations sake or does your flirtation always signal your desire for something more?

I flirt because it’s fun and I have a genuine appreciation for the other person (or people) involved. It’s rarely flirting with a specific intent. It’s a sign that I genuinely enjoy someone and find them delightful. It could be platonic, romantic, sexual, or any combination. The intent is to engage the people I enjoy in a pleasurable manner.

Do you have friends that you know are just flirty friends and that you both know will never be more than that?

I have friends I think are in that camp, but I have been pleasantly surprised and sometimes even shocked when it took a less platonic turn. I’m not an oracle so I don’t pretend even to myself I know all the things or what’s going to happen. I mostly just enjoy the ride

Is this just an implicit knowledge or have you had an actual conversation?

The only time I have a conversation is if I think things are going in a problematic direction. That could mean someone is getting one sided, deep feelings or it could be that I think I might have said something that came across differently than I intended. I’m a communicator, so when in doubt (on my end), I’ll say something.

How can someone tell the difference in your fun flirts and your intentional flirts?

They’re all intentional flirts, so it’s probably hard to tell on the surface. If we start talking privately, I think it’s usually easier to distinguish just by the frequency of the communication and content. It’s not hard to notice if the banter, flirting, and escalating is equally shared or more one sided.

Have you ever gotten carried away with a stream of flirtation? How did that end up??

I don’t think I have online. I can think of two times offline when I was younger, a little more oblivious, and didn’t realize there were genuine feelings on the other side that I should have been more careful with. I like to think I’m more aware now.

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

03.06.25

Do you have any scars? Do you have an interesting story behind it or a moment of regret? Tell us about your unintentional body art!

 

[AlpineFresco]

03.06.25

Do you have any scars? Do you have an interesting story behind it or a moment of regret? Tell us about your unintentional body art!

Yes, I do have 2 small scars, and neither has an interesting story attached
The first is a small one from childhood chicken pox, the other is also from childhood where I fell off some climbing equipment in a playground.
I'm very very dull.

 

[MrMakersMark]

03.06.25

Do you have any scars? Do you have an interesting story behind it or a moment of regret? Tell us about your unintentional body art!

Yeah 2 long ones on my scalp, mostly hidden above my hairline.
Aquired from a dog bite when I was between 2 and 3.
90 stitches.

My poor Mom.

Funny part of the story:
I joined the Army after High School so of course they buzzed us all really short and the one on the right side looked like I had put a funky fresh part in.
It was late 80s, early 90s. The side part had become a crazy hip-hop fad.

The Brothers in my unit would always compliment my part.

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

Yes, I do have 2 small scars, and neither has an interesting story attached
The first is a small one from childhood chicken pox, the other is also from childhood where I fell off some climbing equipment in a playground.
I'm very very dull.

I'll give you a cool scar when we have coffee ... you don't need all your fingers do you? As an asexual?

Yeah 2 long ones on my scalp, mostly hidden above my hairline.
Aquired from a dog bite when I was between 2 and 3.
90 stitches.

My poor Mom.

Funny part of the story:
I joined the Army after High School so of course they buzzed us all really short and the one on the right side looked like I had put a funky fresh part in.
It was late 80s, early 90s. The side part had become a crazy hip-hop fad.

The Brothers in my unit would always compliment my part.

I always saw you as funky fresh. Glad I'm right.