❓ PLP Inquires II ❓

[Addam829]

03.01.25

Happy March! Let's talk ~flirting~

Do yo like to flirt? Do you like to be flirted with? Are you good at it? What's your favorite form of flirtation?

Do you like to flirt for flirtations sake or does your flirtation always signal your desire for something more? Do you have friends that you know are just flirty friends and that you both know will never be more than that? Is this just an implicit knowledge or have you had an actual conversation?

How can someone tell the difference in your fun flirts and your intentional flirts? Have you ever gotten carried away with a stream of flirtation? How did that end up??

This is honestly really interesting! So I will say I enjoy being flirted with. I can tell after a certain point and how far either I or the person I’m flirting with goes. It’s very fun and entertaining because it’s like a game of who will push the envelope. Will the limits even be pushed.
I enjoy flirting by banter and sometimes by physical touch, depending. Physically flirting can be hard sometimes because of how the world is currently shaped and never want to come off as forceful. Hence why I prefer flirting through banter.

I am pretty good at telling when flirting with conversations because once either person keeps upping the stakes in the flirt I can it’s flirting with intention as opposed to flirting for the sake of it. For example I was flirting with a mom at my daughter’s school when we would see each other. She one day needed help with a tire. And after running to the store for plug and doing it myself. She joked and said she’s glad I did it, with the wallet tight she thought she would have to give head or a handy for a good discount. I chuckled and responded with “a handy would be worth a jump start. And head would be good payment depending and where you let me finish”. As I laughed she looked at me while laughing slightly as she liked her lips and responded with “well would you like and IOU or payment in the parking lot”. And that was us flirting throughout the year complimenting me or saying she wishes her husband was like me.

 

[morelikeasong]

Do you like to flirt? Do you like to be flirted with? Are you good at it? What's your favorite form of flirtation?

I am a notorious flirt. I love it, both giving and receiving .
I believe I am good at it. Even better in person.

I really love flirtatious eye contact, but obviously that’s not a thing here.
I like all the flirting: witty banter, teasing, meme sharing, obvious thirst posting, genuine conversation with a flirtatious undertone… all of it.

Do you like to flirt for flirtations sake or does your flirtation always signal your desire for something more?

It definitely doesn’t always signal something more. Usually it doesn’t. It’s fun just to flirt.

Do you have friends that you know are just flirty friends and that you both know will never be more than that? Is this just an implicit knowledge or have you had an actual conversation?

I love flirty friends! I have had the explicit conversation to clarify that the flirtation is just that when I think it’s warranted. Otherwise I think it’s mostly implicit.
IRL, my best friend’s husband is very flirty with me. I would NEVER cross that line (even if I’ve thought about it ). And I think, as much as he wishes he could finagle a threesome, we’ve got a pretty solid understanding that it’s just fun to be playful.

How can someone tell the difference in your fun flirts and your intentional flirts? Have you ever gotten carried away with a stream of flirtation? How did that end up??

Uhhhhh… well, I don’t really know specifically. I think I generally set boundaries in a pretty organic way.

I’ve definitely gotten carried away in the past. It leads to fun places!

Come flirt with me and see…
Don’t worry about that song you hear. Or those rocks you see in the distance.

 

[NakedStoryLover]

I am a notorious flirt. I love it, both giving and receiving .
I believe I am good at it. Even better in person.

I really love flirtatious eye contact, but obviously that’s not a thing here.
I like all the flirting: witty banter, teasing, meme sharing, obvious thirst posting, genuine conversation with a flirtatious undertone… all of it.


It definitely doesn’t always signal something more. Usually it doesn’t. It’s fun just to flirt.


I love flirty friends! I have had the explicit conversation to clarify that the flirtation is just that when I think it’s warranted. Otherwise I think it’s mostly implicit.
IRL, my best friend’s husband is very flirty with me. I would NEVER cross that line (even if I’ve thought about it ). And I think, as much as he wishes he could finagle a threesome, we’ve got a pretty solid understanding that it’s just fun to be playful.


Uhhhhh… well, I don’t really know specifically. I think I generally set boundaries in a pretty organic way.

I’ve definitely gotten carried away in the past. It leads to fun places!

Come flirt with me and see…
Don’t worry about that song you hear. Or those rocks you see in the distance.

Followed. For this and so much more.

 

[Dayhoosier]

*waiting for his daily dose of hypnosis*

 

[TomTeacher19]

03.01.25

Happy March! Let's talk ~flirting~

Do yo like to flirt?

Very much so

Do you like to be flirted with?

Very much so

Are you good at it?

I don't think I am but I try

What's your favorite form of flirtation?

I like complimenting people. People tend to be wonderful in many ways already so it's great to keep reminding them of how they are.

Do you like to flirt for flirtations sake or does your flirtation always signal your desire for something more?

Both

Do you have friends that you know are just flirty friends and that you both know will never be more than that?

Yes. Flirting is still very fun

Is this just an implicit knowledge or have you had an actual conversation?

Depends on the person.

How can someone tell the difference in your fun flirts and your intentional flirts?

Excellent question. Not sure. At a certain point if it has not become more of something then I think you need to be clear and implicit.

Have you ever gotten carried away with a stream of flirtation? How did that end up??

Honestly usually it ends up with getting ghosted. And apologies. But doesn't happen too often.

 

[Neanderthal247]

03.01.25

Happy March! Let's talk ~flirting~

Do yo like to flirt? Do you like to be flirted with? Are you good at it? What's your favorite form of flirtation?

I like to flirt and be flirted with, I think I'm good at flirting. My favorite type of flirting is emotional, when they mean something to you, every word is that much more extreme

Do you like to flirt for flirtations sake or does your flirtation always signal your desire for something more?

Depending on who, some are just for fun and doesn't have any implications of my wants.

Do you have friends that you know are just flirty friends and that you both know will never be more than that?

Currently I don't have any flirty friends

Is this just an implicit knowledge or have you had an actual conversation?

N/A

How can someone tell the difference in your fun flirts and your intentional flirts?

I am very direct and I'll pm you, you will know.

Have you ever gotten carried away with a stream of flirtation? How did that end up??

Yes, it usually turns out ok or very sexy. I will pm and apologize and things will be OK or they'll let me know they want it too.

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

*waiting for his daily dose of hypnosis*

My plan is already working!

 

[Dayhoosier]

My plan is already working!

yes ma'am.....your plan.....our plan....the plan..

 

[SalaciousMonkey22]

Come flirt with me and (you’ll) see

In a world

 

[SalaciousMonkey22]

03.01.25

Happy March! Let's talk ~flirting~

Do yo like to flirt?

Me? No. Not at all.

Do you like to be flirted with?

Depends. I do have an ego. It likes to be stroked. But I can get uncomfortable if I don’t know the person and don’t know if they know the rules/respect boundaries

Are you good at it?

I have my moments

What's your favorite form of flirtation?

I don’t know what the forms are?

Do you like to flirt for flirtations sake or does your flirtation always signal your desire for something more? Do you have friends that you know are just flirty friends and that you both know will never be more than that? Is this just an implicit knowledge or have you had an actual conversation?

For me flirting is always the goal in itself. Almost everyone I flirt hard with knows that it is all it is. Some of them I’ve had the conversation with. Some I haven’t. I’m usually okay at reading a room.

How can someone tell the difference in your fun flirts and your intentional flirts? Have you ever gotten carried away with a stream of flirtation? How did that end up??

I don’t know that I have a tell. I think if I’m interested in someone as more than a friend it comes through in conversation more than banter. But you’d have to ask them.

I don’t know that I’ve gotten carried away. A couple of times I’ve gotten concerned that the other person might be taking it more seriously than I was. And I’ll usually just ask and clarify if that’s the case .

 

[morelikeasong]

It likes to be stroked

Who doesn’t love a good stroking?

 

[Wand3rlust]

03.01.25

Happy March! Let's talk ~flirting~

Do yo like to flirt? Do you like to be flirted with? Are you good at it? What's your favorite form of flirtation?

I like to flirt. I don't think I'm good at it at all. I don't recognise it in others. I think I can appear uninterested and get friend zoned very quickly. But that is masking an horrendous shyness at times.

Do you like to flirt for flirtations sake or does your flirtation always signal your desire for something more? Do you have friends that you know are just flirty friends and that you both know will never be more than that? Is this just an implicit knowledge or have you had an actual conversation?

I wish I was good at conversations like that. Alas, I'm terrible. And no, I can't always tell the difference. Ha. I guess I've gotten hurt a lot.

How can someone tell the difference in your fun flirts and your intentional flirts? Have you ever gotten carried away with a stream of flirtation? How did that end up??

Again, I don't know. I need someone else to take the lead. I'm not good at it.

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

Again, I don't know. I need someone else to take the lead.

Well that's all you had to say, pretty!

 

[RosewoodTulip]

which is perhaps not your style,

Running away, hiding under a rock and never speaking to them again is more my style but I appreciate the advice

 

[Otis_Ravelli]

I do enjoy a bit of a flirt. There are some people I've reached a point if friendship where it would be weird if I started flirting now, others where flirting is pretty standard and yet others where I know I might be able to go further but as I'm not totally sure I don't want to make anything awkward.

 

[LadyLascivious1]

03.01.25

Happy March! Let's talk ~flirting~

Do yo like to flirt? Do you like to be flirted with? Are you good at it?

Yes, yes, and yes! What’s not to love about it? Other than some specific work situations or with family, I think flirting makes most interactions more fun.

And I flirt as easily as I breathe

What's your favorite form of flirtation?

I think I like all of them in their own way. Variety is one of my favorite things.

Do you like to flirt for flirtations sake or does your flirtation always signal your desire for something more?

I flirt because it’s fun and I have a genuine appreciation for the other person (or people) involved. It’s rarely flirting with a specific intent. It’s a sign that I genuinely enjoy someone and find them delightful. It could be platonic, romantic, sexual, or any combination. The intent is to engage the people I enjoy in a pleasurable manner.

Do you have friends that you know are just flirty friends and that you both know will never be more than that?

I have friends I think are in that camp, but I have been pleasantly surprised and sometimes even shocked when it took a less platonic turn. I’m not an oracle so I don’t pretend even to myself I know all the things or what’s going to happen. I mostly just enjoy the ride

Is this just an implicit knowledge or have you had an actual conversation?

The only time I have a conversation is if I think things are going in a problematic direction. That could mean someone is getting one sided, deep feelings or it could be that I think I might have said something that came across differently than I intended. I’m a communicator, so when in doubt (on my end), I’ll say something.

How can someone tell the difference in your fun flirts and your intentional flirts?

They’re all intentional flirts, so it’s probably hard to tell on the surface. If we start talking privately, I think it’s usually easier to distinguish just by the frequency of the communication and content. It’s not hard to notice if the banter, flirting, and escalating is equally shared or more one sided.

Have you ever gotten carried away with a stream of flirtation? How did that end up??

I don’t think I have online. I can think of two times offline when I was younger, a little more oblivious, and didn’t realize there were genuine feelings on the other side that I should have been more careful with. I like to think I’m more aware now.

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

03.06.25

Do you have any scars? Do you have an interesting story behind it or a moment of regret? Tell us about your unintentional body art!

 

[AlpineFresco]

03.06.25

Do you have any scars? Do you have an interesting story behind it or a moment of regret? Tell us about your unintentional body art!

Yes, I do have 2 small scars, and neither has an interesting story attached
The first is a small one from childhood chicken pox, the other is also from childhood where I fell off some climbing equipment in a playground.
I'm very very dull.

 

[MrMakersMark]

03.06.25

Do you have any scars? Do you have an interesting story behind it or a moment of regret? Tell us about your unintentional body art!

Yeah 2 long ones on my scalp, mostly hidden above my hairline.
Aquired from a dog bite when I was between 2 and 3.
90 stitches.

My poor Mom.

Funny part of the story:
I joined the Army after High School so of course they buzzed us all really short and the one on the right side looked like I had put a funky fresh part in.
It was late 80s, early 90s. The side part had become a crazy hip-hop fad.

The Brothers in my unit would always compliment my part.

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

Yes, I do have 2 small scars, and neither has an interesting story attached
The first is a small one from childhood chicken pox, the other is also from childhood where I fell off some climbing equipment in a playground.
I'm very very dull.

I'll give you a cool scar when we have coffee ... you don't need all your fingers do you? As an asexual?

Yeah 2 long ones on my scalp, mostly hidden above my hairline.
Aquired from a dog bite when I was between 2 and 3.
90 stitches.

My poor Mom.

Funny part of the story:
I joined the Army after High School so of course they buzzed us all really short and the one on the right side looked like I had put a funky fresh part in.
It was late 80s, early 90s. The side part had become a crazy hip-hop fad.

The Brothers in my unit would always compliment my part.

I always saw you as funky fresh. Glad I'm right.

 

[Whiskeyjack]

03.06.25

Do you have any scars? Do you have an interesting story behind it or a moment of regret? Tell us about your unintentional body art!

I have 2, probably 3 scars.

The first is a scar on my left index finger, from a particularly vicious cat claw when I was 4 or 5 years old. That old orange tabby was mean and violent and his claws dug deep.
The second is a scar on my abdomen from getting my appendix removed when I was 6. Not much of a story there.
The probable third is from my vasectomy. But it's hard to tell if there's actually a scar there among all the hair and wrinkles of the scrotum.

I hear that scars can be a turn-on for some women. I can only imagine that's doubly true for scars on a hairy, wrinkly ballsack. He said, enticingly.

 

[morelikeasong]

03.06.25

Do you have any scars? Do you have an interesting story behind it or a moment of regret? Tell us about your unintentional body art!

Biggest is my scar from two c-sections.
Smallest is probably the little circle on my knee from where I stubbed out a cigarette back in the day

 

[Wand3rlust]

03.06.25

Do you have any scars? Do you have an interesting story behind it or a moment of regret? Tell us about your unintentional body art!

Like MLAS, my biggest scar is from 2 c-sections. I have a scar across one eyebrow, not that noticeable, from a childhood 'jumping on a bed like a trampoline and diving head first off into a plastic toy' injury.

I have a weird lump on the inside of my right calf, from a mosquito bite gone weird when I went to the carribean.

And I have a weird double scar on my knee from when I fell up some stairs and knelt into the gripper rods for the carpet that hadn't been laid yet.

Are you going to clone us?

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

Are you going to clone us?

But you'll like it

 

[NRJLIVES4ever]

03.01.25

Happy March! Let's talk ~flirting~

Do yo like to flirt?

Not at all. Just kidding. Yes.

Do you like to be flirted with?

Ewww gross. Just kidding. Yes

Are you good at it?

I like to think so

What's your favorite form of flirtation?

Making them laugh. Make em laugh, make em gaz. I'm good for both.

Do you like to flirt for flirtations sake or does your flirtation always signal your desire for something more?

I think really its just part of my personality. I'm silly and open and naturally loving. If we vibe in the right way we could could take it someplace

Do you have friends that you know are just flirty friends and that you both know will never be more than that? Is this just an implicit knowledge or have you had an actual conversation?

There are definitely people where its kind of understood we're friends. And thats totally cool. And it doesnt always have to be discussed per se. Sometimes you cast a line and get nothing which is also perfect cool.

How can someone tell the difference in your fun flirts and your intentional flirts?

Literally no difference. I dont think anyway?

Have you ever gotten carried away with a stream of flirtation? How did that end up??

It's happened for sure. I think really it's just a matter of reading the room and knowing to calm the H down.