A guy sees a pretty girl and he says,"I'd love to fuck her". So, what's the reverse??

[FlamingoBlue]

Expertise, email me, if you wish....

Maybe I can help you open a new door to a different level of your relaionship with your father. I am 57 and my kids are 29, 27 and 25. I'll be glad to help if I can.

blue

 

[CreamyLady]

It's not that my libido is nonexistent or anything, but the major turn on for me is a man's brain, and while I might admire the package I don't tend to think immediately in terms of sex. I tend to think in terms of geometry -- angles, planes, lines and how to draw them.

I start thinking of sex after some intelligent conversation. If his mind isn't there, neither is my body.

 

[FlamingoBlue]

More responses,

Please.


blue

 

[Whispersecret]

I think you should be careful, Blue, about taking the responses you get here and thinking that this is the way most women think. Remember, this is a sex site, and the women who frequent it are more comfortable with their sexuality, more open to sexual things (perhaps more than most "normal" women), and maybe even fixated on sex.

Lately, I find myself fantasizing about many men, even the ones who aren't classically attractive. I wasn't always like this, and I probably won't be from now on either. One interesting point, when I think about a stranger sexually, I think something along the lines of, "I wonder what kind of lover he'd be?" in a passive way, like he would be the lover, and I would be the one he was loving. Whereas, if as a male, you think, "I'd like to fuck her," you're thinking about it as an action you're doing yourself. That probably says more about me personally than it does about men or women in general.

 

[Svedish_Chef]

Uhmmm *blushing* revealing a Hecate secret here ... look at him and quick check:

- Teeth ok? Face ok? = kissable
- body and shape halfway decent and pleasant to the eye? = potetially screwable

Then I wonder if I still would find him that attractive if he took off his shoes and socks...

if then the answer is still yes I wonder what he would look like collared and on a leash

So babe have I passed inspection?

 

[naudiz]

I start thinking of sex after some intelligent conversation. If his mind isn't there, neither is my body.

What she said. To me, it doesn't matter how good looking a guy is, if he's not intelligent or at least has an intriguing personality, he's just a flesh dildo that talks too much.

Not that I'm a pig or anything.

So I guess how it goes is: I see a good looking guy and don't think much about it. If he turns out to be witty or well read, unless he's hideously deformed or has never heard of the word 'shower', I start thinking "Man, I want to fuck him." Let's just say I had no trouble paying attention to many of my professors in college.

Still, there have been times I've gotten a little fire burning inside for a hottie with no more brains than god gave a house fly. Nothing wrong with flesh dildos. It's just that the morning-after conversation tends to go, "You're still here?" And it ain't him saying it.

 

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[Countess DeWinter]

Yep, Indy, we're a minority because we're next door...in Kansas!
I evaluate almost everyone I meet sexually. Can't help it. And almost everyone gets a favorable evaluation...especially those who are smart and witty.

 

[FlamingoBlue]

Imagine that??? Women are just ....

like men .Provesthat the biological imperative is gender nuetral.


blue

 

[Queen Bee]

For me to lust at first sight, the man has to be extremely pretty. When that happens, there's nothing passive about my fantasies. Like Hecate, I'd like to snap on a leash and lead him home. Unfortunately, my lust is often deflated as soon as he opens his mouth.

The converse is true, too. I meet men whose sex appeal makes no impression on me at first meeting, but who later wow me with intellect or wit or playfulness. This happens much more often than lust at first sight.

 

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[Queen Bee]

Indy, I think it's probably true that many "beautiful people" take sexual attention for granted. I wonder if they have to work harder at deepening relationships, since they have to get past the event of rendering others speechless and drooling?

I've only had one sexual encounter with an attractive stranger. I'll try to dig up the written account and submit it for your entertainment.

 

[Whispersecret]

Hey, Indy Dark, thanks for really reading my post. I realized "fixated" was a harsh and judgmental term, which is why I qualified it with a "maybe."

Blue, it seems to me that women are "just like men" only in that SOME of them think sex right away, and SOME of them don't.

Queen, I agree. Beautiful people probably take sexual attention for granted. I've seen posts here where women talk blithely about being stared at, or receiving wolf whistles and such. They sometimes are even annoyed by that attention. I imagine if I got that all the time I might be tired of it too, but the fact is that some of us wallflowers long for attention like that. That's probably a large part of the reason I come here to this bulletin board.

[Edited by whispersecret on 12-14-2000 at 03:07 PM]

 

[Isabella Thorne]

Spill it ... Unzip it

The old "zippless" fuck, huh. Been there, done that. Brings a smile to my face, now that I think about it.

ohhhh Blue ... darling ... you had a real zipless fuck .... in real life?????

wow!!!! i'm impressed ...

but ... you have to tell now ... please tell what happened ... what was it like ... oh god blue ... please tell ... i am dying ...

 

[Cyan BloodsBane]

Re: Expertise, email me, if you wish....

Maybe I can help you open a new door to a different level of your relaionship with your father. I am 57 and my kids are 29, 27 and 25. I'll be glad to help if I can.

blue

Hey gramps! Can you pay for my schooling next sem... its only 12,000cdn... and some change..


Sorry had to do it...

 

[Melody_lane]

I've seen posts here where women talk blithely about being stared at, or receiving wolf whistles and such. They sometimes are even annoyed by that attention. I imagine if I got that all the time I might be tired of it too, but the fact is that some of us wallflowers long for attention like that.

I was having a conversation with my brother about this just the other night. Not to sound cocky or anything, but we're both attractive people and get our share of attention from the opposite sex. Howevever, like with everything-there are always good and bad aspects. I'm always wondering if I didn't have jennifer lopez's ass(), if a guy would even be interested in me. I wonder if any given guy listens when I talk, or if he is just waiting to get a piece. It IS tiring to ALWAYS be viewed as nothing more than a sexual object (believe or not). If you are not careful you can fall into the trap of believing you are nothing more, and then you find yourself becoming more dependent on your looks. Not much growth can come from that!
I'm just glad I am only cute, otherwise I would really drive myself mad with all those thoughts. Yikes!

 

[pistol pete]

well said melody...
i'll start by saying, i'm no adonis...but i'm
not chopped liver either...i am very confident
and successful(thanx god)...i cannot begin
to tell you how many times i get hit on by both
men & women...i'm flattered...until a woman whom
i may be having a good conversation with starts
to get the wrong idea...i listen...i pay attention...
i notice the details...big deal..."dems got eyes
that can see, dems got ears that can hear"...
so then they ask me if i'm a twink or something...
i never answer that one...sometimes i say you
figure it out...pisses me off...the weak ones...
such fragile egos...why isn't he throwing
himself at me...get over it...i'm nice about it...
i tell them "i'm only here for fun "...most walk away on that one ...some understand immidiately...
than the strong ones i'm looking for will foloow
with something like..**** or pleasure...or
just what do you consider fun...etc.etc.etc.
i have to scare the weak ones early...i'm too crazy
for them...they usually want my money or my life...
or both...or they want to change me...break me...
ain't gonna happen...the men... i just tell them
straight up..." i like women "...they're usually
harmless...i live in a very trendy/hip/diverse
neighborhood in chicago...we get all types...

anyways...thanx for letting me vent...
that strong caring man is out there Melody...he will
find you...just be careful in the meantime...
there are many,many wolves...keep the faith...

 

[Chuckus]

Melody.....how is the Lopez factor this morning?

I've seen posts here where women talk blithely about being stared at, or receiving wolf whistles and such. They sometimes are even annoyed by that attention. I imagine if I got that all the time I might be tired of it too, but the fact is that some of us wallflowers long for attention like that.

I was having a conversation with my brother about this just the other night. Not to sound cocky or anything, but we're both attractive people and get our share of attention from the opposite sex. Howevever, like with everything-there are always good and bad aspects. I'm always wondering if I didn't have jennifer lopez's ass(), if a guy would even be interested in me. I wonder if any given guy listens when I talk, or if he is just waiting to get a piece. It IS tiring to ALWAYS be viewed as nothing more than a sexual object (believe or not). If you are not careful you can fall into the trap of believing you are nothing more, and then you find yourself becoming more dependent on your looks. Not much growth can come from that!
I'm just glad I am only cute, otherwise I would really drive myself mad with all those thoughts. Yikes!

You know it is interesting, the posts to this thread. I find the looks as the "first" physical thing I notice, but more importantly as I get to know someone the mind and their thoughts become very sexy in and of themselves. The looks will fade (for most of us....or have the potential) and the mind will be there (until we get half-heimers!!) and so that is very attractive to me, the looks sure do help. I wonder sometimes when I am talking to a lady "What does she look like naked?" (Of course if there is that attraction) if she is doing the same, and I would say that I believe in general it is true. Maybe it is just not as prominent or in the front of their minds.....but just the same true. Dunno.......sometimes a woman who is beautiful opens her mouth and I quit wondering what she looks like naked because her mouth has spewed seeds that are ugly and un intelligent and not in the least attractive. I also know this applies to both sexes, not just men and women....

And Melody.........the answer to your question is YES. *wink wink wink*

 

[Melody_lane]

I forgot...

what was the question?

 

[Chuckus]

Re: I forgot...

what was the question?

Something along the lines of this "I was wondering if I didn't have Jennifer Lopez ass, would.......?"

And my reply was YES.

 

[Melody_lane]

how would you know? I have already confirmed that I do have her ass...so, you can't really know, now can ya?

 

[Chuckus]

how would you know? I have already confirmed that I do have her ass...so, you can't really know, now can ya?

See here we go again, there is nothing wrong with what you are packing on the backside........if it is similar in size and shape to Ms. Lopez, so-beit it is O-Tay with me. Now as for the other side of that, I am sure that you are witty, funny, serious, interesting, attractive, ........what were we talking about? I lost my self there.......

 

[Melody_lane]

I wasn't saying there was anything wrong with my cute little backend. That was a fleeting moment the other night.

What I am saying is...would you realize that I am funny, witty, serious, et al-if you didn't first see my ass?
How do you know that men aren't only interested to get a piece?
Sure, there might be a slim few that would rather have a conversation about the morality of casual sex, however most would rather just take the casual sex.

 

[Chuckus]

I wasn't saying there was anything wrong with my cute little backend. That was a fleeting moment the other night.

What I am saying is...would you realize that I am funny, witty, serious, et al-if you didn't first see my ass?
How do you know that men aren't only interested to get a piece?
Sure, there might be a slim few that would rather have a conversation about the morality of casual sex, however most would rather just take the casual sex.

Hold my attention, I am sure you would and not be just casual....I cannot speak for anyone other than myself........ooops I said that out loud didn't I?

 

[Melody_lane]

Flattered, but I don't remember corresponding to you BEFORE you saw my ass, sweetums.

[Edited by Melody_lane on 12-15-2000 at 04:53 AM]