A Place 🤍 for The Girl Next Door ☕️🌷

[StacyLeigh]

 

[StacyLeigh]

Hmmm yes, please

 

[StacyLeigh]

 

[Whiskeyjack]

Ohh... this pic reminds me of a story.

 

[StacyLeigh]

Ohh... this pic reminds me of a story.

Are we going to get the story? Or are you just a tease?

 

[Whiskeyjack]

Are we going to get the story? Or are you just a tease?

I'm in a church meeting at the moment. I'll PM you.

 

[Mei5ter]

That’s not how this works!! We all want the story, and telling a dirty story during a church meeting makes it even better!

Give the poor man an hour or two to get off his knees....

 

[StacyLeigh]

That’s not how this works!! We all want the story, and telling a dirty story during a church meeting makes it even better!

Give the poor man an hour or two to get off his knees....

It's a good story... "illicit affair meets moral dilemma but hotel sex for the win"... I'm pretty sure @Whiskeyjack had to loosen his tie a bit to just type it out

 

[StacyLeigh]

 

[Captex44]

You know its good when you can smell it years later and the craving is still there. Always on point with your GIFs.

 

[PandemicReader8]

Okay, so this may sound like a stupid question, but...

What is the difference between the girl next door as opposed to the girl who lives down the street?

Asking for a friend.

Please pardon me while I go, full geek.

Here's hoping all of this hasn't been said already and I just missed it.

The questions about the "girl next door" piqued my curiosity. I've heard the saying all my life but had no clue where it started or what - if any - meaning there was to it.

So, I did what I do, research.

The basis of the "girl next door" [GND] seems to be rooted in the tendency of viewers - teenage boys in this case - to experience cognitive failure or change blindness.

Things change slowly over time and the viewer doesn't notice.

In the case of the GND, we'll call her Amy, the viewer has seen her every day for years. Amy is a fixture in the viewer's life. When life happens and Amy starts to develop into a young woman, it goes unnoticed for multiple reasons.

By the time the viewer discovers that girls are so much cooler than Hot Wheels, Amy is well on her way to being beautiful. At this point, one of two things happens in the brain of the viewer:

1: First Crush. The viewer realizes that the girl he rode the school bus with is pretty.

2. Other Is Better: The viewer's familiarity with Amy causes change blindness - he still sees her as the little girl he grew up with - and she becomes lost in the sea of "pretty girls he sees just rarely and at a distance.

The Girl Down the Street [GDS] might fit into the GND model if she is part of the viewer's regular playgroup as a child. Proximity isn't as important as exposure. If he sees her every day, sometimes for hours and she is simply another kid, then she is a GND.

Yep, I'm a geek.

 

[Dribble]

Please pardon me while I go, full geek.

Here's hoping all of this hasn't been said already and I just missed it.

The questions about the "girl next door" piqued my curiosity. I've heard the saying all my life but had no clue where it started or what - if any - meaning there was to it.

So, I did what I do, research.

The basis of the "girl next door" [GND] seems to be rooted in the tendency of viewers - teenage boys in this case - to experience cognitive failure or change blindness.

Things change slowly over time and the viewer doesn't notice.

In the case of the GND, we'll call her Amy, the viewer has seen her every day for years. Amy is a fixture in the viewer's life. When life happens and Amy starts to develop into a young woman, it goes unnoticed for multiple reasons.

By the time the viewer discovers that girls are so much cooler than Hot Wheels, Amy is well on her way to being beautiful. At this point, one of two things happens in the brain of the viewer:

1: First Crush. The viewer realizes that the girl he rode the school bus with is pretty.

2. Other Is Better: The viewer's familiarity with Amy causes change blindness - he still sees her as the little girl he grew up with - and she becomes lost in the sea of "pretty girls he sees just rarely and at a distance.

The Girl Down the Street [GDS] might fit into the GND model if she is part of the viewer's regular playgroup as a child. Proximity isn't as important as exposure. If he sees her every day, sometimes for hours and she is simply another kid, then she is a GND.

Yep, I'm a geek.

So...do girls next door and girls down the street turn into soccer moms I'd like to fuck?

 

[PandemicReader8]

So...do girls next door and girls down the street turn into soccer moms I'd like to fuck?

I'm guessing there are a lot of difficult to quantify variables there.

 

[StacyLeigh]

Please pardon me while I go, full geek.

Here's hoping all of this hasn't been said already and I just missed it.

The questions about the "girl next door" piqued my curiosity. I've heard the saying all my life but had no clue where it started or what - if any - meaning there was to it.

So, I did what I do, research.

The basis of the "girl next door" [GND] seems to be rooted in the tendency of viewers - teenage boys in this case - to experience cognitive failure or change blindness.

Things change slowly over time and the viewer doesn't notice.

In the case of the GND, we'll call her Amy, the viewer has seen her every day for years. Amy is a fixture in the viewer's life. When life happens and Amy starts to develop into a young woman, it goes unnoticed for multiple reasons.

By the time the viewer discovers that girls are so much cooler than Hot Wheels, Amy is well on her way to being beautiful. At this point, one of two things happens in the brain of the viewer:

1: First Crush. The viewer realizes that the girl he rode the school bus with is pretty.

2. Other Is Better: The viewer's familiarity with Amy causes change blindness - he still sees her as the little girl he grew up with - and she becomes lost in the sea of "pretty girls he sees just rarely and at a distance.

The Girl Down the Street [GDS] might fit into the GND model if she is part of the viewer's regular playgroup as a child. Proximity isn't as important as exposure. If he sees her every day, sometimes for hours and she is simply another kid, then she is a GND.

Yep, I'm a geek.

I’ve been MIA for a bit, so just now seeing this post…and I appreciate the overly thought out interpretation veering into geekdom

I agree for the most part, but I, personally, found myself often in ”the one that got away” space.

So...do girls next door and girls down the street turn into soccer moms I'd like to fuck?

I have to second PandemicReader and say that I’ve seen soccer moms of too many variations to make a clear determination. (But chances are good )

 

[StacyLeigh]

You know its good when you can smell it years later and the craving is still there. Always on point with your GIFs.

Craving the coffee? Have a cup for me next time
Thank you for the compliment, my dear

 

[StacyLeigh]

 

[PandemicReader8]

I agree for the most part, but I, personally, found myself often in ”the one that got away” space.

But didn't the one get away because he was to dim to see who she was until she had found her lobster?

 

[StacyLeigh]

But didn't the one get away because he was to dim to see who she was until she had found her lobster?

If I had a trophy, this might win Favorite Post

 

[StacyLeigh]

aaaaaand gimme your hoodie

 

[PandemicReader8]

aaaaaand gimme your hoodie

I have lost more hoodies, and a peacoat, this way...

 

[StacyLeigh]

I have lost more hoodies, and a peacoat, this way...

You can’t blame us…it’s an oddly natural desire

 

[PandemicReader8]

You can’t blame us…it’s an oddly natural desire

::grumbles:: Fine.

 

[PandemicReader8]

oh man, there is nothing better than a worn in, comfy hoodie that smells like him
I miss stealing hoodies…

It's a freaking conspiracy!

 

[PandemicReader8]

Bit its cold outside and you got my hoodie! LOL

 

[StacyLeigh]

It’s a comfort thing!! It’s like being wrapped up in a strong hug by a man who smells like coming home

Exactly! You get it

Bit its cold outside and you got my hoodie! LOL

But your girl is happy…isn’t that what really matters?