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That sounds like a nice combo :) Do you have any marathons planned that aren't officially canceled? :(

And yes...some guys need the writing on the walls to be written in thick Sharpie :p I mean, none of the visitors to my thread of course :kiss:


I know. Always nice to get the heart beating isn’t it; and in a couple of different ways.

Half, maybe more, of my races (not all marathons) this year have been cancelled. I still have two marathons which aren’t cancelled yet but I fully expect them to be. I’m still out running though, just not on a training plan.

Hey, I’m pretty sure I could do with some of those sharpie instructions sometimes... :)

Have an awesome weekend when it comes round and it’s time to shut down that computer!
 
I’m a bit curious if men even give a second thought to a woman’s “irregularities” in breast size/shape/color/etc....or if it’s just one of those things women focus on for no good reason...

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We all have irregularities. They make us...us. So no, it has not mattered. But I also have never dated anyone that had obvious differences, like an A cup for one and a D cup on the other. Would it matter? If it bothered her to the point of not acting free...then sure I suppose it could.
 
We all have irregularities. They make us...us. So no, it has not mattered. But I also have never dated anyone that had obvious differences, like an A cup for one and a D cup on the other. Would it matter? If it bothered her to the point of not acting free...then sure I suppose it could.

Certainly there is a difference between minor “flaws“ and things more obvious. But I find that as women, we are harder on ourselves than those we fear would judge us could ever be.

And you’re right...it’s difficult for a partner to look past the emotion and distance if we let it get to us.
 
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Certainly there is a difference between minor “flaws“ and things more obvious. But I find that as women, we are harder on ourselves than those we fear would judge us could ever be.

And you’re right...it’s difficult for a partner to look past the emotion and distance if we let it get to us.

This is difficult. I have been married twice. Both times, over the years, they gained weight...got gray hairs...added wrinkles...had stretch marks...boobs sagged more...fucking normal life. Yet, they lamented these changes. I loved them the same. I didn't see the changes as they did. They were mine. And being mine meant everything. I didn't wish for different. More. Younger. I was content. If I say mine...I mean it. Just as you are...as you will be.

But it was their view that mattered. Not mine. My question...why would you be harder on yourself than those that love you? I know why I am harder on myself...but it rarely has to do with anything physical. Easier to use what I have, than wish for something I don't have.
 
I’m a bit curious if men even give a second thought to a woman’s “irregularities” in breast size/shape/color/etc....or if it’s just one of those things women focus on for no good reason...

I had a female roommate in college who seemed overly concerned that one was bigger than the other. At some point, she actually showed me and asked my opinion. I honestly could not see any size difference. I told her so, and I told her that the guy down the hall with a crush on her would be extremely jealous of me at the moment.
 
My question...why would you be harder on yourself than those that love you? I know why I am harder on myself...but it rarely has to do with anything physical. Easier to use what I have, than wish for something I don't have.

Great question, Dribble... For me, I look at someone I care about and see all the things I adore. Any flaw is either overlooked or seen as something unique. But when I look at myself I see all the little things I want to improve and my focus becomes quite narrow.
 
I’m a bit curious if men even give a second thought to a woman’s “irregularities” in breast size/shape/color/etc....or if it’s just one of those things women focus on for no good reason...

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I’m a connoisseur of the female form and exploring a woman’s body and finding those irregularities is very sexy, I love making a woman feel sexy about those things she may irrationally be insecure about
 
^^ I can’t believe you posted the photo I took of you, Raw ;)

Also, god that looks amazing right now!
 
Beyond the Surface

A good friend of mine told me today that he had a sex dream about me last night. Of course this made me smile and of course I asked for details. If you have a dream about me I need to make sure I was at least a very good girl in it ;)

Not too long ago, I had a similar dream about another really good friend of mine. I told him about it because...well...why not? I seem to tell him everything else. It's just a silly dream anyway...it didn't mean that I wanted him. But it was a delightful dream nonetheless.


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I know you all have had sex dreams about friends or co-workers. Did you tell them? Did it make it awkward? Would you want to know if someone had a dream about you?

"Sex dreams about friends are a horror that plague almost all of us, but they're seriously nothing to worry about. Dreaming about having sex with a friend can actually be a reflection of the level of closeness that you feel with that friend. (Yes, this is true.) It can also mean that this person has a trait you'd like to make a part of yourself. (Yes, many awesome traits)...So don't sweat friend sex dreams, but don't be the weirdo who tells your friend about it. (oops!!) That is literally never something that you want to hear over brunch. (But what about as a present of embarrassment? haha)"
 
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Just friends don’t get to know about my sex dreams even if they star in them

Would Lit women want to know? I doubt it
 
don't sweat friend sex dreams, but don't be the weirdo who tells your friend about it. [/I](oops!!) That is literally never something that you want to hear over brunch. (But what about as a present of embarrassment? haha)"

I don’t know where this quote came from, but A) I hate their use of the word literally and B) Yes. Yes, we do want to hear about the sex dreams about us over brunch. Why wouldn’t we?
 
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