A Place 🤍 for The Girl Next Door ☕️🌷

[Portobelllobelle]

Top of my list, see you soon

 

[StacyLeigh]

 

[StacyLeigh]

 

[StacyLeigh]

You can thank the Ring Pop

 

[Beardpositive77]

This is exquisitely said.

 

[StacyLeigh]

Merry (nearly) Christmas, my lovely friends

I wish you all a wonderful holiday - full of love & warmth.

Stacy

 

[TheOlderGuy]

Merry (nearly) Christmas, my lovely friends

I wish you all a wonderful holiday - full of love & warmth.

Stacy

Merry Christmas, Sweetie
May you and all your desires meet face to face . . .

 

[Boots_and_Bourbon]

Every woman deserves this kind of man. #shedoes

 

[StacyLeigh]

One last gift, all wrapped up for you

 

[StacyLeigh]

 

[Boots_and_Bourbon]

#word

 

[StacyLeigh]

 

[StacyLeigh]

 

[LizVegas79]

I know this is kind of an old topic but I'm going to swing back to it if that's okay ....

Have never really thought about it, but my guess is it has everything to do with where one grew up.

On the East Coast where everyone is, more or less, crammed together, people tend to talk about their neighborhoods and what street something is on. NYC, for instance, is all about the street.

I think in "middle America" there is a bigger spread. The girl down the street is really next door.

Also, I think the girl next door is considered the traditional idea of what a girl/woman in America is. The girl who lives down the street is usually not.

Two cents.

I agree with this. As someone who was never the girl next door but always the girl down the street this has pretty much been my experience exactly.

Musings, interests, humor, and insights...

Cute girls are usually the more publicly tame and reserved type of female. The prototypical ‘girl next door’, if you will. They dress in a more conservative fashion and wear just the right amount of make-up. These are the girls you are proud to bring home to mom and have the most marriage potential, if you are into that kind of thing. They are extra sexy because when you get a cute girl behind closed doors and bring out that sexy part of her, she becomes hotter than the hottest slut in the club. Cute girls also tend to be a little awkward with themselves, making them even more adorable. My personal favorites.

Agreed. I was never the girl guys brought home to introduce to their mother.
But they sure AF did have my phone number in their cell phones!

I guess I would define the archetypal differences as:

The Girl Next Door may be:
• Outwardly wholesome
• Attractive in a pretty way
• Book smart
• Shy at first
• Charming
• Modest
• Wears heart on her sleeve

The Girl Down the Street may be:
• Rebellious
• Exotically beautiful
• Street smart
• Attention seeking
• Party girl
• Aggressive/Assertive
• Wears her sexuality on her sleeve

Neither is right or wrong and everyone has their own tastes. Some like the excitement of “The Girl Down the Street” – she may be easier to read and you may enjoy knowing what you’re in for. Some like the mystery of “The Girl Next Door” – she may hide her secrets a bit and you may enjoy peeling back the layers.

I agree and disagree with this. I love your two lists. I think those nail some of the key diffs really, really well.

But I disagree about the "knowing what you're in for" with the girl down the street.

Unless by that you mean knowing that contacting her is going to be an unpredictable roller coaster that may go off the rails right from the beginning - or straight to sex without buying her a drink or dinner or sometimes barely getting a 'how are you?'. I also disagree about the girl down the street being easier to read. But then again, maybe I wasn't as complicated as I thought LOL

#word

So, SOOOOO true

(two and a half cents)

 

[StacyLeigh]

I agree and disagree with this. I love your two lists. I think those nail some of the key diffs really, really well.

But I disagree about the "knowing what you're in for" with the girl down the street.

Unless by that you mean knowing that contacting her is going to be an unpredictable roller coaster that may go off the rails right from the beginning - or straight to sex without buying her a drink or dinner or sometimes barely getting a 'how are you?'. I also disagree about the girl down the street being easier to read. But then again, maybe I wasn't as complicated as I thought LOL

Well hi Liz Thanks for popping in.

Ever girl next door, down the street, or across the global are incredibly different. What I posted was absolutely a generalization and my descriptions are simply archetypal.

 

[LizVegas79]

Well hi Liz Thanks for popping in.

Ever girl next door, down the street, or across the global are incredibly different. What I posted was absolutely a generalization and my descriptions are simply archetypal.

Well I thought they were spot on - if nothing else it made me reconsider my own attitudes about my past and also the present since I'm trying to raise my two daughters to be more the Girl Next Door types.

(I'm pretty sure I've just moved on to being That Woman Down The Street though LOL)

 

[Dribble]

There has to be a new acronym here somewhere...moms down the street I'd fuck....twice

 

[StacyLeigh]

There has to be a new acronym here somewhere...moms down the street I'd fuck....twice

How about WHIP? Or is that too women’s lib for this purpose?

https://www.independent.co.uk/life-...en-sex-prime-bibi-lynch-cougars-a7917901.html

 

[StacyLeigh]

 

[StacyLeigh]

 

[StacyLeigh]

I’m bringing cautious optimism into 2021 and focusing on just a few simple goals...

 

[StacyLeigh]

 

[Booboobear84]

I’m bringing cautious optimism into 2021 and focusing on just a few simple goals...

I get lots of fresh fruit, guess I will have to work on the other two.

 

[Booboobear84]

I know this is kind of an old topic but I'm going to swing back to it if that's okay ....



I agree with this. As someone who was never the girl next door but always the girl down the street this has pretty much been my experience exactly.



Agreed. I was never the girl guys brought home to introduce to their mother.
But they sure AF did have my phone number in their cell phones!


[/I]

Then there are the guys who are incredibly intimidated by the girls down the street. Who know that the girls down the street go out with all of attractive alpha males, and wouldn't give the good guys a second look. Truth is some girls would and some wouldn't, but most of the nice guys didn't know it at the time.

 

[StacyLeigh]

I get lots of fresh fruit, guess I will have to work on the other two.

We can be accountability buddies

Then there are the guys who are incredibly intimidated by the girls down the street. Who know that the girls down the street go out with all of attractive alpha males, and wouldn't give the good guys a second look. Truth is some girls would and some wouldn't, but most of the nice guys didn't know it at the time.

That’s a really interesting perspective. I never really thought of one being more approachable than the other. Personally, I’ve had more interactions with the “bad boys”...some, not all and not by choice. The other side of approachable might be novelty...?