A question about fantasies

[lucky-E-leven]

Stud fantasies? (Sorry, couldn't resist.)

Not exactly.

Carpentry? Getting nailed? Hard pounding? Men using their tools?

Yes. Doing the nailing. Absolutely. Men/tools? *shudder*

In Lucky's case you are probably talking more tongue in groove woodwork

Getting warmer...

~lucky

p.s. One of my fantasies requires a bit of lumber, assembled just so and the proper hardware... Go figgah!

 

[KarenAM]

The thing that fascinates me about fantasies is the ultimate level of control they bring. If one fantasizes about being a sex slave or being raped, one still has control. This is why those sorts of dark fantasies are difficult to impossible to reproduce in real life. The fantasy is empowering whereas the real life situation is not.

It's also interesting how youthful repression of sexual thoughts, including fantasies, has been shown by researchers to tie directly to an increased liklihood of someone actually committing a sex crime later in life. So if you want to be sexually moral, you should fantasize and masturbate a lot.

 

[Guest]

 

[impressive]

So if you want to be sexually moral, you should fantasize and masturbate a lot.

Not a problem!

 

[matriarch]

Exactly. It's very rare that tasteing forbiddin fruit is as fullfilling as imagening whatmight be if you tasted it.

-Colly

 

[rydia57]

living fantasies....

I've had fantasies that I've actually gotten to live out, but when I did, it was so good, I just fantasized about doing it again, adding the feelings of what happened when I did it in the first place, so it just gets better! I have had fantasies that were so....weird, that if I found someone that wanted to help me live out, I'd do it just to see if it was so weird Iwouldn't... kinda like a challenge. But fantasies in general keep you sane when you haven't been boinked for...... a GOOD while Lust helps too!
Just lusting...
El

 

[oggbashan]

This, I totally understand. I definitely have categories:

- fantasy only, would never actually want to do it
- can't wait to try
- been there, done that, yes, wanna do it again and again
- been there, done that, and poof! don't think about it anymore

I would add other categories:

- been there, done that, and hated it.
- been there, done that, hated it and regretted doing it.
- been there, done that, fulfilled the other person's fantasy and enjoyed doing it.
- been there, done that, fulfilled the other person's fantasy and hated doing it.
- been there, done that, fulfilled the other person's fantasy and regretted doing it, and/or destroyed the relationship.
- written to explore someone else's fantasy and succeeded.
- written to explore someone else's fantasy and failed.
- tried to write to explore someone else's fantasy and unable to sustain the story because the fantasy was so far from anything that I could find remotely arousing.


Having added all those, the vast majority of my fantasies would be in LadyJeanne's first category: 'fantasy only, would never actually want to do it'.

Og

Edited for PS:
Add:
- been there, done that, fulfilled the other person's fantasy and THEY hated/regretted it.
- been there, done that, failed to fulfil the other person's fantasy because of lack of communication.

Og

 

[LadyJeanne]

I would add other categories:

- been there, done that, and hated it.
- been there, done that, hated it and regretted doing it.
- been there, done that, fulfilled the other person's fantasy and enjoyed doing it.
- been there, done that, fulfilled the other person's fantasy and hated doing it.
- been there, done that, fulfilled the other person's fantasy and regretted doing it, and/or destroyed the relationship.
- written to explore someone else's fantasy and succeeded.
- written to explore someone else's fantasy and failed.
- tried to write to explore someone else's fantasy and unable to sustain the story because the fantasy was so far from anything that I could find remotely arousing.


Having added all those, the vast majority of my fantasies would be in LadyJeanne's first category: 'fantasy only, would never actually want to do it'.

Og

Edited for PS:
Add:
- been there, done that, fulfilled the other person's fantasy and THEY hated/regretted it.
- been there, done that, failed to fulfil the other person's fantasy because of lack of communication.

Og

My, you've been busy, Og!

 

[oggbashan]

My, you've been busy, Og!

It is one of the advantages (or disadvantages) of being very, very old.

Og