a survey for married couples...

I'm in the same boat with ya.
Last year was the best year we've had in a long time. 7 times all year.
While I'm flirty and playful, she sees me as a perv these days. She doesn't flirt at all. Ever. She used to be quite playful but that stopped suddenly a few years ago. Since then it's a once a month thing at best.
She loves when I give her oral but her jaw tires way too fast to return the favor.
Penetration is painful for her so that's a turn off.
Of course if I so much as think about anyone else she's beside herself with anger.
I've had to stay away from here for the past couple of months for just that reason.
And so it goes......
 
Couple times a week, which isn't enough.....he's so tired all the time. So I guess a couple of times lasting 15 minutes is better than nothing.
Been married going on 21 years.
 
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We make love 2x a week an average. More on vacations without the kids. I am 50yo and my wife is 47yo. She is very open in bed and enjoys all oral, so I believe the mix of activities is what keeps it going
 
Varies but usually 2-3 as week on average.......About half the time it's sugar and sweet.....the other half cinnamon and hot......No matter what we both enjoy it.......She has an orgasm at least 1/2 the time and the others (at least by her comments) she enjoys and is just happy to be able to be next to me.....Married for 13 years and I still love her beautiful tits and ass, and fucking her!!!
 
Married 24 yrs, once a month usually, but then there are times its once a week. I guess it depends whats going on with our lives.
 
Frequency

Married in 95 - sex STOPPED Sept of 2008 as if she turned off a light switch. I am 52 she is 54 so that means since we were 47 and 49 respectively. I have tried Seduction to outright asking to F&*K - and nothing has worked --- "But there is nothing wrong" ---- AGHHHHH Who brought this subject up anyway !!!!

Thank God for my son -- He is the reason I get up everyday

Hope you all have a great Christmas Season -- and a Happy New Year !!!!

me
 
not very often

Married since 1997. Used to have sex a couple times a month. Over the past year or two it is down to once every couple of months. I try to get her interested, but she has very little desire. Haven't had sex since early October. She has no drive, and I flirt with her and tell her how beautiful she looks. Nothing works. Really sucks and depresses me.
 
married 6 years, im 50 she is 40. once a week even if it just me jacking off onto her tits
 
Married 24 yrs, together 32. Once a week. She has some minor health issues right now. It used to be daily, sometimes 2-3 Saturday and Sunday (how I miss those times). I still yearn for her touch and melt every time she touches me.

It is improving though, she is now able to cum multiple times when we do have sex!!
 
37 years together. Currently 1 or 2 per week with the occasional week without, and on holidays 1 or 2 per day. In our mid 40's when the kids were getting more independent was the peak of both frequency and wildness for us. More recently we had an 18 month period without penetrative intercourse which was tough for us both yet has given us a whole new tenderness and delight now that time is over and past. We count ourselves really fortunate with our sex life over the decades and didn't expect to get so hot together aged 60, but we do.
 
Couple times a week, which isn't enough.....he's so tired all the time. So I guess a couple of times lasting 15 minutes is better than nothing.
Been married going on 21 years.
my 2 cents worth - when we were dating (late 50s couple married 6 1/2 years), her mindset was after sex "if you get horny during the night, please wake me up..."... now it's, when I initiate, "are you kidding, we just did that last week".....
 
Well, if you guys were my neighbors, you'd at least be getting a show,both indoor and out!

Tifani
 
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