a survey for married couples...

[Lost_Yonder]

After 16 years of marriage our sex life sorta cums and goes in spurts! but never often enough - ranging from several times a month to months without... We've gone through different ways of "spicing" things up - one thing we never lost was the ability to communicate and share. we just don't connect sexually...

 

[old_flattop]

Once this year, I think it was in March.

 

[ChaffII]

who is the prime minister now.

 

[buffler]

Married 48 yrs, we have sex once every 3 or 4 years is not busy. this is the truth

 

[Denny60plus]

On average about two to four times a month. We also still do a lot of kissing, cuddling and mutual masturbation. We are both in our sixties.

 

[ButtNastyTodd]

On average about two to four times a month. We also still do a lot of kissing, cuddling and mutual masturbation. We are both in our sixties.

Thank goodness there's hope! Love it.

 

[Skandalon]

35 years and Counting

2-4 times a week. The time last was so good it made my head hurt I came so hard.

 

[OQueen]

I feel like a person can choose celibacy for themselves, but you don't get to choose it for someone else. I continue to be amazed when I see/hear of wives who don't participate in sex and then get all butthurt when their husband goes out and gets it elsewhere. What is that about? You don't want him but you don't want anyone else to have him either?

Exactly Cyann.

Married 19 yrs, together 21, 2 X per week, usually initiated by me. Our frequency used to be 4-5 X....but after reading through this thread, I'm never complaining again!

 

[luvnmyboys]

married 12 years, lately it's 5-8 times a week.

 

[Luvitharder]

Married 21, together23,
None for the past 2 years... He has no interest in me whatsoever.
Im leaving, I've found another here to heal my heart.

 

[L8tnIt]

this reminds me of a few jokes

A teen looks to his father & asks, "Why are condoms sold in boxes of 3, 6, & 12?"
The father replies," When you are in high school, young men can have sex on Friday, Saturday, & Sunday.
" When you go to college, you get to have sex twice on Friday, twice on Saturday, and twice on Sunday
"When you get married, you get to have sex once in January, once in February, and so forth..."

There are 3 types of sex when married:
Kitchen sex- when you will have sex anywhere in the house that the mood strikes
Bedroom sex- it is a part of your regular routine
Hallway sex- when the most action you get is when you both are in the hall passing and she says "Fuck You!"

Doggy-style sex in Marriage: the Man begs, and the woman rolls over and plays dead!

To amswer the question; my wife & I were lucky to have sex 3x a month. Now that we live with her parents, along with us working opposite shifts (I work 3rd shift as Security; she is a grocery store Cashier) and our watching our 14mo daughter... I foresee a situation-imposed celibacy

 

[ADVR]

Married 13 years. We have lots of passion, kissing and hugs, but she's not into sex. So maybe 2 or 3 times a year.

I had to edit this. I have since taken the time to fix things.

 

[CeasarBoobage]

Wow, what a depressing thread...

On the plus side, at least I don't feel so bad since there are others worse off than me.

Before marriage, I can't even count the times! Weekdays were almost always once or twice, and on the weekends we wouldn't leave the bedroom for anything other than a run to the bathroom or fridge. Almost 20 years later, we're lucky to break double digits every year. Good thing it's (kinda?) picked up in the past few years!



(Please folks, no offense to anyone reading that 2nd line, I'm just venting! You all know what i mean.)

 

[southern_gal]

There really is no pattern for us. We have been together for quite some time tho only married for 10 of those years. We will go for weeks and not have sex and then be like rabbits for a few days. There are times when I know he is stressed and doesn't have the energy and he is pretty good at reading my signals too.

 

[mrrazor911]

Married 17 yrs, together 19....right now it stands at sex once every 3 -4 months if I am lucky, wife has lost all interest in it.... what is a guy to do??

 

[Hanna11]

Not enough

 

[DeYaKen]

without

 

[Spenser41]

Married 10 yrs been together 12. Have not had sex in over 3 yrs.

 

[Roseann4708]

Two geriatric bunnies

Married 41+ years, together 42+.

The past few years we've fallen off to twice, sometimes thrice per week for intercourse. If the definition includes oral it's almost daily and sometimes it's three or four times a day.

Rose

 

[subblueeyes28]

about every 3 weeks is our average.. i attempt to initate daily but he usually refuses. We've been married for a little under 2 years together for almost 5

 

[warl0ck1]

it varies but I would say about 3 times a week.

 

[SugarTeaGiant]

For us, before kids, we were at least daily. During the older kids, we dropped to once a week. Now with the younger ones, now totally 5, we are usually once every other month. :-(

We've been married for 16 years, and our oldest is merely 10.

 

[blksoldier]

How many times on average are you having sex with your spouse?

twice a month (not enough)

 

[primedone]

3-5 times a week and married 9 years

 

[Penelope1961]

Married 27 years ~ no sex in the past 14 years