Adult Male Virgin....Need Help!!!

[Noira]

I strongly suspect boobalicious was having us on...

While that may be so, asexuality is a thing and it's not really an accepted sexual orientation in the way that homosexuality is... it's pretty invisible, to be honest. And asexual doesn't necessarily equal aromantic. Asexuals can STILL WANT A ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIP.

So that's what this is telling me: he's an asexual who's not aromantic.

When it gets down to that, I feel that it can be worked out (if sex isn't important to him he won't mind if you get what's important to you somewhere else, blah blah, etc), but this is something you want to figure out BEFORE you sign on the dotted line!

I mean, sure, he could also be gay, but this sounds like classic asexuality to me. (shrug)

 

[KlaytonFrost]

The question that concerns me the most is how the OP *feels* about not having had sex or an orgasm for five years (a prospect which, by the way, would drive me up the wall). If she's not too fussed, then maybe a solely romantic relationship could be possible... but if she desires sex in the slightest then things might be on a bad road from the beginning.