Advice to a friend

Justfantasies

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I have this friend; and yep this really is a friend not me. 40 years ago (yes 40) he had this girl friend who he adored. He asked to her to marry him at least a thousand times and she said no a thousand times.

Inevitably they lost contact and both got married to other people. Suddenly three years ago, she got in contact with him and since then she has been e-mailing him at least twice a week. They talk about old times and things of mutual interest, but (according to him) never about sex.

He is separated from his wife, but she has been married for 35 years. She won't meet with him or even talk with him on the phone. She won't even send him a picture of her; but she started all this and is always sending him e-mails.

Last week he found a recent picture of her on the WWW and she still looks great. Now he feels all those old feelings and can't talk about much else except this woman. I have told him that at best she wants to be friends, and at worst she is just teasing him. I have also told him that he should probably stop e-mailing.

But he is still convinced that something is going to happen between them. And frankly he is getting VERY boring. There is not much more I can say to him. She actually is great looking for 60, but . . .

Any insight on this, especially from long married ladies. What is she up to? Because he is a good friend and if there is really any reason for him to pursue this, then fine. Otherwise, I am going to tell him gently but firmly to drop the whole thing

Footnotes

1. Yes I posted this somewhere else too
2. No this really isn't me
 
She's bored. Looking to validate her hotness because hubs doesn't do it for her anymore yet she won't ever leave. He needs to give it up
 
I think so too and have told him this. He thinks there should be some way to talk her into at least meeting for a drink; but I think it will hurt even more and I doubt that she will agree.

I told him that he should cut back on writing to her two or three times a week, if he won't drop it altogether
 
I think so too and have told him this. He thinks there should be some way to talk her into at least meeting for a drink; but I think it will hurt even more and I doubt that she will agree.

I told him that he should cut back on writing to her two or three times a week, if he won't drop it altogether

good plan although if he's not listening...just let him get hurt. I mean you can only help so much.
 
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three years ago, she got in contact with him and since then she has been e-mailing him at least twice a week.
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That's where the story ends. If in three years time all she's done IS email him, that's all she will do.
 
I don't care how hot she is. If she's rejected him that many times in the past he really needs to move the fuck on. Life's short, spend it with people that WANT you. Don't waste it pining away for people that don't.
 
Seems to me, that all along he was just infatuated with her looks and not her as a person. He'd probably hate her guts if he got to know her on a personal level.

No matter how hot a woman, there is always a man out there tired of her bitching, moaning and whatever else problems she has. Viseversa can be said as well.
 
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