Answer the Question Above You. Ask One for the Next.

That would be my cousin and it’s been decades…

Have you ever had any one infatuated with you but you’re not into them? Say more…
 
That would be my cousin and it’s been decades…

Have you ever had any one infatuated with you but you’re not into them? Say more…
Yes I have. It’s happened both online (not on Lit) and in real life, and it was such a bizarre thing to experience. I don’t think I’m a person who’s easy to fall for, so I never expected it to happen.

The real life thing ended up ruining a perfectly good friendship despite me trying to avoid that happening. It took several years until we became friends again, but the friendship wasn’t quite the same anymore. The online thing got hairy and I ended up eventually leaving the platform.

Is there a concrete moment/thing you think about when you think about your first love? Do share as much as you wish. ☺️
 
I remember being out of the city in a very special place in the woods. There were fireflies at night. We were travelling in a small group which included my girlfriend’s younger cousin who was very beautiful and vulnerable because her father had cancer. My girlfriend was older than me by several years. One afternoon my girlfriend was napping and I kissed the cousin, her lips were impossibly soft, her mouth seemed endless. After dinner I made popcorn on the stove and I tried to make it fancy with crazy flavours. I flirted with them both. Told them I had a plan. We drank a lot of dodgy booze we had bought at the local shop. I wanted to get them both into bed and I think they knew it. It started well and I thought I was going great. Very soon the cousin was puking and my girlfriend was sat on a toilet talking in tongues, hallucinating. So it goes!

Have you had a lover much older than you? How was it?
 
Yes, several times. At 19 my first time was with a much older couple, she was late 40's. In my early 20's I had a lover in her 40's and another in her early 50's.

All were great. The 51 year old was the best oral I'd ever had to that point in my life. She was playful and passionate. Didn't have the stamina for multiple sessions but she was incredibly memorable.

My first was a great teacher. She taught me to use my fingers and tongue and I owe her a ton.

The best lover I've ever had was 14 years older than me as well. God I still miss her sometimes.

What made your best lover so good?
 
The mystery of the roleplay, and the fact she was a first conquest of sorts. She earned her stripes and everyone admired her, and sneered at me …
 
No. I’ve had “pretty ok” phone sex, but far from mind blowing.

Has your ever partner proposed something sexual that you have said no to? What was it?
 
No. But I wish she would. She was raised conservatively and is pretty “vanilla” with sex. I’m pretty kinky so I’m very open to just about anything except homosexuality, beastiality, pain, or shit/piss.

Have you ever watched your partner have a night of passion with another person and not join in?

(FYI, I have).
 
No. But I wish she would. She was raised conservatively and is pretty “vanilla” with sex. I’m pretty kinky so I’m very open to just about anything except homosexuality, beastiality, pain, or shit/piss.

Have you ever watched your partner have a night of passion with another person and not join in?

(FYI, I have).
No...

What is the most you've orgasmed in row?
 
One. And we've been married for almost 41-years.

How long after you lost your virginity did you have sex for the second time and was it with the same person?
1 week.
Yes… my sister. ☺️

If you’ve shared your conservative/reluctant partner, how long did it take before they submitted to the request and do they still?
 
That’s a very specific question. I have not had a reluctant partner. In terms of non-monogamy, I guess I was initially the more reluctant one, because I had never really considered it an option.

Which era would you live in if you couldn’t choose the present one? (So no 1900s or 2000s.)
 
That’s a very specific question. I have not had a reluctant partner. In terms of non-monogamy, I guess I was initially the more reluctant one, because I had never really considered it an option.

Which era would you live in if you couldn’t choose the present one? (So no 1900s or 2000s.)
Great question! Mid 18th century. The revolution... North America was all out there to discover.

Knowing what you know now, what would you want to be when you grew up?
 
I honestly think I’d gravitate towards management again, but I would have changed the path I took to get here. Of course, that’s not considering the fantasy jobs such as a pro athlete or perennial knitting champion. 🤣

If you could spend a day with one historically significant figure, who would it be?
 
I honestly think I’d gravitate towards management again, but I would have changed the path I took to get here. Of course, that’s not considering the fantasy jobs such as a pro athlete or perennial knitting champion. 🤣

If you could spend a day with one historically significant figure, who would it be?
JFK

Have you ever been in a full blown foursome (swapping partners)?
 
I have indeed! It’s not as fun as it seems, it wasn’t in my case anyway… but enjoyable nonetheless.

What’s your favourite sweet treat, ever.
I’m simple…I love pudding based desserts like chocolate lasagna or sex in a pan. Great, now I’ve got that craving.

What’s your favorite salty snack?
 
I’m simple…I love pudding based desserts like chocolate lasagna or sex in a pan. Great, now I’ve got that craving.

What’s your favorite salty snack?
Salt and vinegar Pringles or salt and cider vinegar crisps. Or a dirty martini made with blue cheese and pickle juice + olives. (Weird combo, I know.)

This perfectly leads onto my next question which is what is your weirdest and most wonderful food combination?
 
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