Any other men here with a deep desire to be dominated by a woman?

[ADIDAS00]

Do

Probably not. I think the reality is that few men actually want to be dominated. It might sound hot, but what are you going to do when you get tired of a woman directing your every move?

Does it have to be 24/7 ? I would enjoy it at times….maybe not all the time. I have a lot of kinks I like so I wouldn’t want to be stuck in one kinky only full time

 

[sarod]

huge fantasy of mine is domination with being tied up and strapon fucked!

 

[Diosax]

Do

Does it have to be 24/7 ? I would enjoy it at times….maybe not all the time. I have a lot of kinks I like so I wouldn’t want to be stuck in one kinky only full time

I wouldn't want to do it 24/7 that sounds exhausting.

 

[OlderBtm4U]

huge fantasy of mine is domination with being tied up and strapon fucked!

Me too.

 

[TempSpawn]

Probably not. I think the reality is that few men actually want to be dominated. It might sound hot, but what are you going to do when you get tired of a woman directing your every move?

Surely then the same counts for women? Why would a woman want to have a man directing her every move?

Or, perhaps there are circumstances when either men or women want to give up control for a while.

 

[PaxNurgle]

^It depends on whether you are seeking a 24/7, master(mistress)/slave dynamic, or merely a dominance/submission dynamic. The difference being, one requires a full time commitment, the other does not, necessarily.

 

[Photog1rl]

I think a lot of men want a dominance/submission dynamic. At least that is what comes out from the pm’s I get
Jokes aside though, many people that have high pressure jobs where they have a lot of responsibility and must oversee a lot often enjoy being able to give up that control in the bedroom. It isn’t a 24/7 thing for most of the folks I know but giving over the control can be intoxicating.

 

[TempSpawn]

I think a lot of men want a dominance/submission dynamic. At least that is what comes out from the pm’s I get
Jokes aside though, many people that have high pressure jobs where they have a lot of responsibility and must oversee a lot often enjoy being able to give up that control in the bedroom. It isn’t a 24/7 thing for most of the folks I know but giving over the control can be intoxicating.

This, exactly this.

 

[mssweetangelina]

It is something that must be clearly articulated between both if it's going to be mutually satisfying. I agree that lots of people with high pressure
jobs or 'real' lives enjoy the idea of just letting go, mentally and physically.

But there are those who really enjoy having that subconscious itch scratched on more than the surface level. To each their own

 

[Wonderer67]

I was going thru some shit this week. Super heavy depression followed.

Last night I just needed it. Spoke to my wife after dinner- said I just needed a heavy spanking. I just needed it in my soul. She doesn’t love doing this but she understands what I need every so often and helps me out.

She had me lay face down on a bench I made for this type of session. Eye hooks in the four posts for my wrists and ankles.

She handcuffed my hands and legs, ball gagged me, and proceeded to give me a very heavy spanking session. (Started light and sensual, but turned heavy - she started with a flogger, then to a leather paddle, a cherry switch that I made, and then her beautiful open hand.)

I didn’t use the safe word, I didn’t want to, but came close. My ass and legs were super fucking red. My wife really doesn’t like doing this much, but she understands what I sometimes need. Altho my ass was really painful, we shared about 10 minutes of after care in this position. She loves this part the most because it’s insanely intimate - she put her cell on timer to capture it last night.

I needed it so fucking badly. I’m feeling much better (mentally) today. This type of activity may be very painful, but it’s very loving, very beautiful and intense. We don’t do it too often - just when I need it. Maybe 1-2 times a year.

I had to sleep on my side last night and my ass was still pretty welted today.

 

[55ChevyBelAir]

My whole life, I have been in control of my decisions and activities. I am in my 70s now and finding new desires emerging. I am starting to get aroused with the thoughts of serving a domme. Images of me kneeling before a domme and being controlled and directed to please her are becoming very seductive. There's comfort in letting go of the decision making and having someone direct me and tell me what to do. The thoughts on kneeling at her feet are very exciting now.

 

[55ChevyBelAir]

I think a lot of men want a dominance/submission dynamic. At least that is what comes out from the pm’s I get
Jokes aside though, many people that have high pressure jobs where they have a lot of responsibility and must oversee a lot often enjoy being able to give up that control in the bedroom. It isn’t a 24/7 thing for most of the folks I know but giving over the control can be intoxicating.

Thanks for sharing such an insightful post.
You raise a very important point. A career that involves great responsibility and decision-making may result in a quest for balance. Essentially being submissive gives another person the control that had been an essential part of a career.
Giving that up may be a great relief. And even more, as you identified, it can become intoxicating.

 

[eroticspank]

I completely agree that giving up control can be nice and intoxicating. After a long day at work that involved a lot of decision-making, I can see how having the wife take over in something as simple as where we are going out to eat, is very helpful.

How about planning a vacation? She thinks about all the things we both like, books flights, hotels, cars, and activities and all I do is show up. Why not the same in the bedroom?
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