Any other men here with a deep desire to be dominated by a woman?

[PaxNurgle]

It's for me, a way to forget about my own troubles and inner turmoil and focus all my love and attention on someone else who is strong and willing. Make my desires her desires, the chemistry of both of our needs melding together.

 

[mssweetangelina]

Definitely an intersting subject in that there are many nuances to domination and not everyone is looking for the same "flavor".

But definitely a subject worthy of deep, intimate discussion.

 

[dashd]

I certainly share the desire to be dominated by my partner.

The career paths (yes multiple) that I have chosen have always landed me in positions of authority, sometimes even demanding that I make instantaneous decisions upon which the lives of others are at stake. Even my community service commitments put my in leadership positions. If that weren't enough, some of my hobbies make the same demands.

As I look back on my experiences in life, I realize that all my training led towards leadership and positions of responsibility.

Once in a while it's nice to shed those responsibilities and let someone else take the reins, figuratively and perhaps literally.

 

[mssweetangelina]

I certainly share the desire to be dominated by my partner.

The career paths (yes multiple) that I have chosen have always landed me in positions of authority, sometimes even demanding that I make instantaneous decisions upon which the lives of others are at stake. Even my community service commitments put my in leadership positions. If that weren't enough, some of my hobbies make the same demands.

As I look back on my experiences in life, I realize that all my training led towards leadership and positions of responsibility.

Once in a while it's nice to shed those responsibilities and let someone else take the reins, figuratively and perhaps literally.

Very well articulated.

 

[Iwant2havefun]

I certainly share the desire to be dominated by my partner.

The career paths (yes multiple) that I have chosen have always landed me in positions of authority, sometimes even demanding that I make instantaneous decisions upon which the lives of others are at stake. Even my community service commitments put my in leadership positions. If that weren't enough, some of my hobbies make the same demands.

As I look back on my experiences in life, I realize that all my training led towards leadership and positions of responsibility.

Once in a while it's nice to shed those responsibilities and let someone else take the reins, figuratively and perhaps literally.

This is my situation exactly. “Full Alpha” in RL, and a massive yearning to relinquish all responsibility in the bedroom to a mature, nurturing, understanding woman....

 

[eroticspank]

Definitely an intersting subject in that there are many nuances to domination and not everyone is looking for the same "flavor".

But definitely a subject worthy of deep, intimate discussion.

Well said. A deep, intimate discussion indeed. I am not sure if I would describe my interest in D/s play as a deep desire and I do like D/s play in the bedroom. For me, it would be about her taking control in the bedroom, but in daily life, we stay in our own lanes, whatever they are.
ES

 

[MrRandyWatson]

Very well articulated.

Indeed. Probably the best explanation of why the idea of “powerful man likes to be dominated” is such an archetype.

 

[Goldenfinger]

My wife is dominate and I’m submissive. This plays out in most aspects. It’s not like the memes you see here it’s just normal life. The most exhilarating experience I’ve had being dominated by my wife was she was pegging me. We were on the bed she was behind me and I lost balance and fell forward. I was too close to the headboard to catch myself and I was pinned in just a way that I couldn’t get my hands up to push myself up. I was totally incapacitated as my wife drove cock in and out of me. The best part was that it wasn’t planned, it just happened and I had to submit to her. Of course this was all consensual.

 

[cubbyfire04]

This is my situation exactly. “Full Alpha” in RL, and a massive yearning to relinquish all responsibility in the bedroom to a mature, nurturing, understanding woman....

Same here. I may be seen as the man of the household, but once the bedroom door locks at night I'm hers for the taking.

 

[AnalCreampieGiver]

I definitely want to experience that at least once in my life. Especially offline

 

[zipper01us]

This is extremely common on some levels.

For some guys it's just a light playful, occasional thing. I prefer the the serious submissive men and women.

I guess it is common to a certain extent. Myself like a lot of men on here I have always been the take charge type. Being a former pro football player it was expected of me. I have always had this deep need to become submissive. I have wanted to become a dominant woman’s “fuck toy” I would want to do everything and anything to give her pleasure. I shiver and get so just talking about it here !

 

[zipper01us]

Adding to this, there is not one right way to BDSM. I, and many many others, have posted that frequently over the years here at Lit. The continuum of kinks is very long and varied, but there are universals. SSC is one of them - BDSM is always Safe, Sane, and Consensual. Without these, it’s abuse or worse.

I know I want to be submissive to a woman it’s all I think about. I am intelligent and know I would catch of fast. Take me mistress please mold me into your desire !

 

[eroticspank]

I think the seduction and personality connection is the most important part for me. I have met some Dominant women that are bossy and critical, and not in a good way. Those women clashed with my personality so it didn't work for me. But there were others that had this special talent of getting into my head in many sensual and intellectual ways. After that was established and we had a deep connection, then came all the toys, fetishes, and play we wanted. She wanted to lead and I wanted to be led.
ES

 

[subbywannabe]

Relatively new here.

Just wondering if there are any other men here who have a deep desire to be dominated by a strong woman?

I do.

It seems my whole life, I've always been in a position of authority and leadership. I'm the oldest sibling, even older than most of my cousins. I'm the breadwinner and head of my own family. Even at work, I somehow gravitated to a position of leadership. Not willingly albeit, I took this position to prevent our board from searching externally to fill this position. I never intended to stay, but here I am 14 years later. Even when we go on a family vacation, it has to be me that figures everything out. Even a company Christmas party it has to be me that plans it. Honestly, it get tiring. I sounds weird, but I never get a break, I wish someone can just tell me what to do if only for one day.

I have a deep desire to be dominated by a strong willed woman. Someone who can make me submit physically and emotionally. I excluded sexually because it doesn't have to involve sex. Someone who can make me cry, beg, grovel. Someone who can push me to precipice of my physical and emotional limit and leave me there in solidarity.

I would pay for this.

I suppose I'm the only man here who feels like

 

[mssweetangelina]

The thought never leaves my mind for very long

 

[Goldenfinger]

I wouldn’t want it any other way.

 

[Dearelliot]

Yes as long as she Dominates me the way I want to be dominated. Suppose she puts me to work 16hrs a day7 days..and says if you want sex Jerk off on your own time!...Nope...that type of Dominatrix won't work for me.
So do I really want a woman to dominate me or do I want sex from a Dominant women.

 

[Lady2020]

Relatively new here.

Just wondering if there are any other men here who have a deep desire to be dominated by a strong woman?

I do.

It seems my whole life, I've always been in a position of authority and leadership. I'm the oldest sibling, even older than most of my cousins. I'm the breadwinner and head of my own family. Even at work, I somehow gravitated to a position of leadership. Not willingly albeit, I took this position to prevent our board from searching externally to fill this position. I never intended to stay, but here I am 14 years later. Even when we go on a family vacation, it has to be me that figures everything out. Even a company Christmas party it has to be me that plans it. Honestly, it get tiring. I sounds weird, but I never get a break, I wish someone can just tell me what to do if only for one day.

I have a deep desire to be dominated by a strong willed woman. Someone who can make me submit physically and emotionally. I excluded sexually because it doesn't have to involve sex. Someone who can make me cry, beg, grovel. Someone who can push me to precipice of my physical and emotional limit and leave me there in solidarity.

I would pay for this.

I suppose I'm the only man here who feels like.

Probably not. I think the reality is that few men actually want to be dominated. It might sound hot, but what are you going to do when you get tired of a woman directing your every move?

 

[Goldenfinger]

Probably not. I think the reality is that few men actually want to be dominated. It might sound hot, but what are you going to do when you get tired of a woman directing your every move?

Just because my wife is dominant doesn’t mean I’m a meek meager man that needs To always be told what to do and when.

 

[RipleNStllWtr]

Would love for my wife to do this. Heck I have told her, begged her. Once on an overnight trip she came close but got scared and stopped. So I tied her up and had my fun. Still. I want her to dominate me so damn bad. Want to worship her as she should be. But dang it, I might as well go talk to a tree. Oh well.

 

[mssweetangelina]

Many levels to the control, of course.

If it's to be effective, there should be open and clear communication as to what each wants and how far they're willing to take it. I don't think the
over the top approach works for everyone, but for those who enjoy it, good for you!

Personally speaking, I much prefer thoughtful nuance and a slow and steady approach.

 

[Pad_Foot]

Does switching count as being dominated ?
I guess that depends

Are Amazon Positions indicative of a woman dominating? If so? Have at me!

 

[Twistedkink]

I crave for a woman to be strong enough emotionally to dominate me in every way. I have very demanding life and I’m in control of everything. I want nothing more than to hand that over and give control to the right woman.

 

[KinkStevens]

I crave for a woman to be strong enough emotionally to dominate me in every way. I have very demanding life and I’m in control of everything. I want nothing more than to hand that over and give control to the right woman.

I feel that way often. My gf verbally dominated me over the phone at work all day yesterday and made me say and do some very unsavory things. I loved it

 

[RightFootFrwrd]

I love dominant women, but I'm not into any of the public humiliation play, or feminization (although I'd explore it in the bedroom simply for the kink factor). I'm definitely attracted to a more quiet type of dominance that relies on a certain attitude and confidence from the woman, combined with my respect for her. To me, that's fucking sexy.