Any other men here with a deep desire to be dominated by a woman?

[Crownvic]

I am always ready..

 

[CoronaExtra43]

It's just something about a dominant woman that is so damn sexy!!

 

[Goldenfinger]

I do, and I am.

 

[Iwant2havefun]

My exwife hired a dominatrix for me for my birthday 1 year. My then wife did not like pegging me so she hired Ms. Vicki to do so. We met her at a hotel bar and over a few drinks we all decided to go forward. We went to her room, my wife changed into one of her slutty outfits while I was told to undress, and stand there while Ms. Vicki looked me over. She lightly used a riding crop on my naked ass, tits and cock. I was then told to kneel, my hands were tied behind my back, and my wife walked out in a white see through top no bra short skirt and no panties. She bent over in front of my face and pushed my nose in her ass crack and told to lick it. After a few minutes she turned around and I was told to kiss and French kiss her pussy. Then I had to tell her pussy to go out and get fucked while I was getting what I deserved. (I thought it was a put on) my wife said I am meeting the girls at the bar. I was then led to the bathroom, got into the shower tub and she had me kneel down and bend over with my head out of the tub. She then took the shower wand, removed the head, and pushed the end in my ass hole, turned the water on, and I felt a weird feeling as I was filled up. She then turned the water off, told me to go sit on the toilet, after I pushed everything out she did it to me again, after the 3rd time of plain water she squeezed some dish soap in my ass and again filled me with water. This time she had me stand up and rotate my hips around several times. Then I sat on the toilet again, clean water 2 more times and then I was lead back to the bed And my hands were untied and I was strapped down to the bed Ms. Vicki put a strap on about the same size as mine. Lubed up my ass, more later if you want it

YES, more PLEASE!

 

[Lvncreampies]

YES, more PLEASE!

Just to let you know I am about 2.5 to 3 inches across hard. And 7.5 inches long. I was rushed finishing up so to clarify just my arms were strapped down. She knelt down between my spread legs and started working her fingers into my ass. 1 then 2 then 3. I started moaning as she slid them in and out. She then grabbed her silicone cock and lined it up to my ass hole and worked the head in. She told me "look me in my eyes as I fuck your ass!" I looked her in the eyes as she slid her fake cock balls deep then out to the head and back in. Over and over she fucked me. She grabbed my hard cock and played with the head. I was moaning and drooling around my ball gag. She slowly stroked my cock aiming it toward my face. He exploded shooting cum up my chest and hit my chin. She said that's 1. She put a hand cuff on my right wrist unstrapped it, moved it over and cuffed my hands together and undid my left wrist. Had me roll onto my stomach and pulled my hips up so I won my knees ass in the air on my forearms. She worked her cock into my ass and started pounding me. As she did she told me I am going to do your ass in several different positions and I am not stopping until you cum. As she was doing me I heard my wife's voice. ( more later)

 

[Lvncreampies]

My wife asked "I am just checking in to see if he is behaving. " I tried to turn my head and see her and I was told by Ms. Vicki "keep your face in the pillow! You don't deserve to look at your generous wife " then she answered "yes he is. He likes my cock in his ass and he has already cum once!" My wife watched Ms. Vicki slowly fucking me for a minute or so I heard Ms. Vicki asked her "do you want to help me really quick?" Take this cord, reach between our legs and tie it around his sack between the base and his balls. Then pull hard and tight then tie it off to the foot of the bed." I felt her fingers around my sack, then I felt her the cord being tied around my sack. Then I moaned as she pulled hard and tied it to the foot of the bed. Ms. Vicki told me to scoot toward the head of the bed and keep the cord tight as she roughly pounded her cock in and out of my ass. She said take this and put it on him and then tie it to the head board." I felt a slap on my ass as my wife
walked up to my head and pulled my head back by my hair and slipped a collar and leash around my neck. As she tied it off she said " we have a couple more surprises for you. " she then said: okay you can come closer to watch. " I tried to move forward or backwards and turn my head but I was tied pretty good. I heard her girlfriends giggle and I felt a few hands on me. I was so embarrassed. They started teasing me about taking a cock bigger than their husband's had. And commenting on how much I was leaking out my cock head. They commented on my cock being bigger than their husband's and I felt them grabbing it. He is hard as a rock. He must be enjoying it. Someone grabbed my cock and started stroking him as Ms. Vicki drove her cock in me hard fast and deep as possible. ( gotta go finish more later)

 

[Crankbait88]

Nope.

 

[OlderBtm4U]

I would lay in bed tie a cord around my foot and around the base of my cock and balls and then fantasize about a woman or women ordering me to straighten my leg or force me to get up and walk. When I couldn't I would slap my cock and shaft fantasizing about her punishing me for not being able to do it.

I would flip my legs over my head and fantasize she was making me lick and suck my own cock until I came. Sometimes she would make me cum on my face, sometimes cum in my mouth while my cock head was in my mouth, and sometimes shoot it in my mouth with my cock inches away from my face.
I would roll some dice and what ever the number I would slide that many pencils into my ass hole fantasizing that it was her doing it. Sometimes I would make myself hold them in and walk around my room. Sometimes I would roll 1 die and multiply it by the two dice roll for the number of pencils. If I couldn't do I would fantasize about her punishing my penis.

Wow! Thanks.

 

[Wonderer67]

My wife asked "I am just checking in to see if he is behaving. " I tried to turn my head and see her and I was told by Ms. Vicki "keep your face in the pillow! You don't deserve to look at your generous wife " then she answered "yes he is. He likes my cock in his ass and he has already cum once!" My wife watched Ms. Vicki slowly fucking me for a minute or so I heard Ms. Vicki asked her "do you want to help me really quick?" Take this cord, reach between our legs and tie it around his sack between the base and his balls. Then pull hard and tight then tie it off to the foot of the bed." I felt her fingers around my sack, then I felt her the cord being tied around my sack. Then I moaned as she pulled hard and tied it to the foot of the bed. Ms. Vicki told me to scoot toward the head of the bed and keep the cord tight as she roughly pounded her cock in and out of my ass. She said take this and put it on him and then tie it to the head board." I felt a slap on my ass as my wife
walked up to my head and pulled my head back by my hair and slipped a collar and leash around my neck. As she tied it off she said " we have a couple more surprises for you. " she then said: okay you can come closer to watch. " I tried to move forward or backwards and turn my head but I was tied pretty good. I heard her girlfriends giggle and I felt a few hands on me. I was so embarrassed. They started teasing me about taking a cock bigger than their husband's had. And commenting on how much I was leaking out my cock head. They commented on my cock being bigger than their husband's and I felt them grabbing it. He is hard as a rock. He must be enjoying it. Someone grabbed my cock and started stroking him as Ms. Vicki drove her cock in me hard fast and deep as possible. ( gotta go finish more later)

An extremely hot story. Would love this to happen to me! Can’t wait to hear how it all cums out!

 

[KimGordon67]

From other responses, it should be clear that your desire is a common one. Men, yes, but also high-achieving women seek this kind of escape, or at least fantasize about it.

It should also be clear from the other responses that you will likely have to pay for it - demand to be dominated far exceeds the supply of those who are safe, sane, and interested in doing it just for fun/lifestyle.

There's nothing wrong with what you want in that regard, which you already know. There is, however, something wrong with your attitude toward work. You say: "Everyone in my organization can go home and leave their work behind. When they go on vacation, they can ignore their work emails and disconnect completely from work. I can't. If something happens, I get a phone call or email no matter if it's Sunday or if I'm in Cancun on vacation. I just never get a real break and it is very tiring."

This is a problem entirely of your own making, and the solution to it is entirely within your control. It takes discipline, planning, and a healthy understanding that the world can and one day will go on without you. Because this is undeniably true, you can and should unplug and disconnect from work. I did it, and there were detractors and critics, but it's part of setting a good example for others in a leadership position, and most people respected me for it. The fact that you aren't leaving work at work, whether in the evenings, on weekends, or for planned vacations, is one way that you are failing, not succeeding, at leadership. You can do this - it's simply a matter of delegation and grooming more leaders. It's easier than you think. You owe it to yourself, to your family, and to your organization.

I'll leave you with the words of Charles de Gaulle: "The cemeteries of this world are full of men once thought to have been indispensable." You may aspire to irreplaceability, but in no way is any of us indispensable. Act accordingly.

"I tried to get my wife to put me in bondage, BDSM but she completely refuses. It's kind of cute, she just sits there with ropes and cuffs in her hands looking at me. I said, well put them on me and do to me what I do to you! She simply won't. At most, she'll spank me but it doesn't hurt. She's not trying. I stopped pursuing it with her."

This is probably the problem. You're trying to begin by getting what you want. That's not really submission, is it?

I suggest adopting a service mindset toward your wife. Don't do "stealth submission." That rarely accomplishes anything. Instead, tell her you would like to treat her better, to show her more respect, to pay more attention to her wants and needs. If she responds that she would like this - and she will if you don't make it about sex or bdsm - you have created a dynamic where you have the opportunity to serve and defer to her - with her knowing acceptance.

This is a baby step toward a real Mistress/slave relationship and there is a long way to go - but I think you will find it rewarding and she will find it stimulating.

I just checked back into this thread after a while, and saw that people are responding to the OP. He's long gone (there's quite a backstory there, which you could find if you looked up his other posts/threads). But the 'I'm indispensable at work' narrative is totally in keeping with how he appeared on Lit - very much in need of validation, and inserting himself into the 'alpha male' role in order to achieve that. It seemed the same with his marriage - this attempt of his to 'make' his wife be dominant very much echoes his attempts to 'make' his wife be submissive. It seemed that sexually he was a bit of a novelty junkie - always looking for the next shiny thing to try. It was difficult to tell if his wife was the same, or was just sort of dragged along with it all. Anyway, after a particularly weird thread, he evaporated.

The thread has survived though, and obviously serves a purpose for a lot of people, so I guess he left Lit with something good!

 

[Lvncreampies]

She would slam her cock hard and fast into me, hold it there grind her hips (just like I did my exwife's pussy and my current wife's pussy) then pull back until just the tip of her cock head was in me and then do it again. When she slammed forward she pushed me forward pulling on the cord tied to my balls. So when she pulled back I would push back for relief from the cord but that would bring my ass closer to her cock allowing her to pound me harder and deeper. I could feel my cum building up in my balls I let out a huge grone and my cock exploded to the cheers and applause of my wife's girlfriends. I collapsed down the best I could with my balls being pulled behind me. Ms. Vicki pulled her cock out of my ass and said "I am going to let him rest for a little bit, in his wet spot. He can't go anywhere so let's go get a drink " I felt something being pushed into my ass. It was a cone shaped butt plug. As she pushed it in it spread my hole and I felt what I thought was the hilt. Then Ms. Vicki said: "watch this girls, this bulb on the end will feel like a dog knotted him. Especially when I pull it out." I felt the plug push hard against my sore hole and I let out a muffled scream, tried to pull my ass away but pulled the cord around my sack tighter. With some relief I felt it go in. Get your short rest we still have a few positions to go and at least 1 more surprises. I laid there and wondered how I got into this predicament and dosed off. (More to come)

 

[Curiousphoenix]

I have been looking for it for years. Though I would settle for a sexually experimental or even aggressive woman.

 

[George34age]

As a domme female, I can assure you, you're not alone in that feeling. I've had several D/s relationships, even with a submissive male who required a full lifestyle of submission. I think the rarer thing is finding a woman who truly enjoys being in a dominant role to her male partner. I know many women willing to be paid for it but don't truly find pleasure in it. Don't give up looking. We are out here! Beautiful, educated, classy women who need to control our men by enforcing loving dominance. Letting them leave their kingdom at our feet for us to reign over.

I wish I found a Domme like that

 

[Wonderer67]

Tonight I had a wierd dream/fantasy. It’s the middle of the night as I write this and I just woke up.

My wife and I were at our farm and we were looking over our crops: corn, soybeans, pumpkins, sunflowers, etc.

Then we were in our old stone barn, which used to be a mill. I was on my back, on a large stone horizontal round millstone while my wife was fucking me with a large strapon off of the side of the millstone.

Woke up with a massive erection.

 

[grandprix1041]

any men to be dominated by a woman

Subs are hiiding here...

I'm not hiding

 

[Just2Kinky]

I definitely prefer strong willed imaginative women. I've had some of my best sex while in power of a confident and demanding woman.

 

[Goldenfinger]

I am dominatEd by my wife and love it.

 

[neuroparenthetical]

I go back on forth on whether I actually want it. Whenever I start overthinking my desires and fantasies, I end up deciding I'm just a lazy, basic bitch.

Why do I want a woman to dominate me? Well, for pretty much the same reason the Marquis De Sade wanted to hear his victims scream. If she's dominating me, she's paying attention to me. If she's sexually dominating me, we're having sex (or something close to it.) If she's going out of her way to do it in our relationship, that means she has a sexual desire, that involves me, that I didn't have to coax out of her.

I can't confidently state that I want the thing itself, rather than everything it represents and implies. I'm also something of a knee-jerk anti-authoritarian elsewhere in my life. I can imagine myself playing along right up until it started to feel real, at which point I'd snap back to my usual personality. It'd be funny to watch as a fly on the wall, but not much fun for either participant.

 

[dixonjay999]

(P.S. Sorry after seeing how much I wrote, I do not have time to proofread. Hope I didn't ramble too long. I'll clean it up later after work.)

I took my wife's virginity when she was 27. Her pussy had never even been touched. She hadn't given any blow job's or touched any guys. She was a hard-core Christian and had barely even made out with anyone.

However, she was quite aggressive the first time we really made out in a drunken haze and she threw me on the bed, climbed on top of me, held my arms down above my head and kissed me passionately and kind of rough like while grinding on me fully clothed. Within 7 weeks of dating I ended up being her first. We had been friends for a while and after found out she had been in love with me for a long time and knew she would marry me.

A few years into marriage I noticed she began being more and more dominant in bed. So one day I purchased restraints and other bdsm toys and staged them on the bed without her knowing. After going out for drinks, we return home and I tell her I have a surprise for her in the bedroom. She goes in and returns in a few minutes wearing a corset, thigh highs, heels and garter. I didn't even know she owned all that. Without hesitation she commands I undress and, mix her a drink and get on my knees in front of our couch where she would be sitting. She orders me to do many things like massage and kiss her feet, feed her chocolate covered strawberries we just happened to have and serve her in other ways.

We eventually start kissing passionately when she tugs my head back by my hair and gently slapped me across the face for having an erection she did not sanction. She had me bend over to spank my ass. It was pretty soft but popped really loud and she moaned.

She then took me to the room, restrained me to the bed, put blindfolds over my eyes, and edged me in different ways while sitting on my face, using her toys and grinding on me for 3 separate orgasms. She would jerk me to the point of cumming and stop, then do the same with a blow job or letting me inside of her. She had me tell her when I was close so she knew when to stop. And that is when she would have her orgasm as though my being denied pushed her over the edge.

This lasted over an hour until we finally had sex. I've never been fucked so good and so thoroughly. My orgasm was stronger than I had ever had. So basically I was hooked. However, I was also in shock at the overall experience. How was my wife such a natural domme? How did she know exactly how to carry out the scene at something we had never done? I expected some giggles and hesitancy prior to actually getting into it, but she jumped in without hesitation with both feet like she was born for this opportunity.

Anyways, in the beginning we would play out scenes once or twice a month and add new things here and there. She would surprise me with new items of and plans. She really likes humiliating and punishing me so she purchased paddles, crops, floggers and makes me wear thongs, ball stretchers and parachutes. However the material thongs are made from feels amazing on my unit. It also turned out that being punished/spanked turns me on.

It slowly built up to every weekend, a few days a week, etc, but it was initially just for play scenes. It slowly turned into me almost completely submitting, but not around our kids or friends/family. I'm very successful in my career but the work is stressful. So like OP was alluding to, it's nice coming home and having almost all decisions made for me.

Here's a few links to gifs
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Two: She has a leash in her hand attached to ball parachute
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Six: Pic of Parachute and leash

 

[Wonderer67]

This is great to hear!! So glad it works well for you two. Sounds amazing.

 

[grandprix1041]

any men to be dominated by a woman

Subs are hiiding here...

Cum and get me

 

[Dougos]

Yes I would

 

[Subsy]

Passion rises, needs demand satisfaction, opportunity presents. One man became obsessed with submission. I would threaten something outlandish, wrong in so many ways…..
I once ordered him to dress slutty……we went to a thrift store….he walked out wearing a wonderfully ridiculous batch of rags.
He loved the scene. I am naturally submissive so I could relate to his needs but his greedy reaction surprised me. I surprised myself too.

 

[MrRandyWatson]

After my wife left, I took some time to think, and I figured out that the one way I would be truly at peace and freest in a relationship is as a sub. I want my limits pushed. I want to obey my Mistress and have Her control every aspect of my life (except my relationship with my kids, my family and my job.) I just want an honest Domme/sub relationship where I know what is expected of me and my private life as a slave is exhilarating and fulfilling.

 

[Mrmusings45]

I go back on forth on whether I actually want it. Whenever I start overthinking my desires and fantasies, I end up deciding I'm just a lazy, basic bitch.

Why do I want a woman to dominate me? Well, for pretty much the same reason the Marquis De Sade wanted to hear his victims scream. If she's dominating me, she's paying attention to me. If she's sexually dominating me, we're having sex (or something close to it.) If she's going out of her way to do it in our relationship, that means she has a sexual desire, that involves me, that I didn't have to coax out of her.

I can't confidently state that I want the thing itself, rather than everything it represents and implies. I'm also something of a knee-jerk anti-authoritarian elsewhere in my life. I can imagine myself playing along right up until it started to feel real, at which point I'd snap back to my usual personality. It'd be funny to watch as a fly on the wall, but not much fun for either participant.

That is a great way to phrase that!