Are you dominant or submissive

[9to5]

as a male I would say I am more of submissive.
I like to give up control and being used. given orders on what to do.
to be used as someone's sex slave.

then on days I do enjoy tying up and playing with the females.
maybe my ideal would be to be submissive along side a female and both used together

 

[wickedlilgirl]

I'm primarily submissive. However, with the right person, male or female, I can take on a Dominant role in the short term, but it's not really in my nature.

Just because I identify as submissive does not mean I'm a doormat laying here waiting to be claimed or used by any person. If I was seeking a Dominant (which I am not at the moment), you'd need to engage my mind. Convince me that you're worthy of my submission. I will fight back, I will challenge you.

 

[islandjoe2]

Switch, with dominant tendencies. I have a definite protector complex. I was going to add more to this but that pretty well sums it up.

 

[Tallcajun]

I'm a bit of a loner, but definitely dominant.

 

[Todger65]

Dominant, but caring with it.

 

[YoYoMa1]

Total sub. Love to be dominated and called dirty names. I’m a male but love to dress up like a female and be used. I’d do anything to please a dom.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Primarily submissive, but gently dominant when the chemistry is right and I'm in the mood.

I'm not a ball buster, I'm more of a primal seductress. Sensual, teasing, playful... and then aggressive and intense when things heat up.

As a sub, I am willing and sweet, so I've been told.

Ironically, I spend far more time on the D side of the slash.

 

[tvvictim]

sub masochist tv

love trading fantasies of me ,kept prisoner for bdsm torture

 

[Bikesandfires07]

I'v always been Dom with females... favorite kinks are breast play, especially bigguns.. curvy mature BBW and SSBBW.girls that can get off on some light humiliation and "forced" exhibitionism.. I have very little experience with males, other then some orally bi play during a vanilla 3-some..
Lately tho, I'v had more and more fantasies about submitting to a FemDom couple... I don't really think I could sub well to a guy alone, but I get super turned on about being "forced" out of my comfort zone by a strict Mistress..

 

[TabuPrincess]

I've always leaned towards being submissive. I could never imagine myself being the dominant one.

 

[Artmajor2]

I can be either submissive or Dominate in my fantasies. In real life I use to spank my late wife. She would really get into it. I've gotten it a few times and enjoyed it. I also have tried self spanking with a wooden backscratcher or spoon. I like the idea of Domination. It doesn't matter to me which role I play. In my fantasies I enjoy edging. spanking, Ruined orgasms, Forced Bi, Kneeling in the corner, cross dressing, etc....
I've role played with a few people over the years on line. I love telling somebody what to do and then they have to tell me about it the next day.

 

[Never]

I don't consider myself a dominant, but I like how submissive my boyfriend is. I would certainly never be in a vanilla relationship with him.

 

[Moonlight1027]

Submissive

 

[ejredlady]

I am totally submissive.

 

[NaughtyRedSiren]

Heart, body and soul is submissive when that connection is there.

 

[suboots]

I feel that they are opposite sides of the same coin. I can switch very easily but whereas I can, and do, dominate either gender I only sub to females. For me the very thought and principle of a power exchange is what I find so hot, and in a submissive situation powerlessness is the key.

Powerlessness can of course be as simple as having one's wrists tied. In a CP situation though the full works, punishment bench with multiple straps and an effective gag so that the top is in total control does it for me. Of course in such a situation you need a Dom/me you can trust 100%. You don't want to find yourself in the hands of a psychopath, at least I don't.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Tonight, all sub.

I want to curl in someone's lap and just feel, not think.

 

[Gab25383]

I think I’m submissive

 

[Steelheart2018]

Dominant

 

[joyce4u2play]

I am sub

 

[AnhedonicDementic]

I am capable, independent, broken but not damaged, loyal, strong and not a flaunting but a true sub.

 

[nassauguy_2001]

Reminds me of the old joke:

St Peter is greeting people at the Pearly gates. He tells the men to form two lines:
1) those who dominated their wives and
2) those who were dominated by their wives

99 guys on line 2 and only one little guy on line 1.

He walks over and asks why he's on the line?

The guys says "my wife told me to stand here!"

 

[Kim1980]

Secretly

Secretly submissive (vanilla marriage)

 

[9to5]

Secretly submissive (vanilla marriage)

time to share the secret if you can

 

[irishblade]

I tend to be more on the submissive side.

Naturally submissive but in my life and situation am always in the dominant or lead role. Would love to be submissive just once but we play the cards we are dealt. Lol