Are you dominant or submissive

[Little_Horny_Redhead]

This is definitely a tough question for me lol

For the right person (male or female) I am absolutely submissive but for all the others a I am more dominant. In my every day life at the moment I am dominant and in my work I am also very much in charge. However, should my partner be a worthy dominant then eventually I will submit to them willingly.

Should I feel at any point that my partner is not capable of being the dominant person, I will take over.

Probably a really weird response to the question but I am weird

 

[base10]

This is definitely a tough question for me lol

For the right person (male or female) I am absolutely submissive but for all the others a I am more dominant. In my every day life at the moment I am dominant and in my work I am also very much in charge. However, should my partner be a worthy dominant then eventually I will submit to them willingly.

Should I feel at any point that my partner is not capable of being the dominant person, I will take over.

Probably a really weird response to the question but I am weird

Don't think it's weird at all, people have different dynamics with different people. Things aren't always black and white either. I appreciate your perspective

 

[Little_Horny_Redhead]

Don't think it's weird at all, people have different dynamics with different people. Things aren't always black and white either. I appreciate your perspective

Thank you

 

[base10]

Thank you

I always like hearing how people think about and experience kink, because no two people are exactly alike

 

[MissDarkKitten]

I am very Sub.

 

[CoronaExtra43]

It's crazy but I can be both. With my ex wife. I was her Sub and absolutely love it. Looking for fun in the 757.

 

[nakdraven]

Mostly dominant, as I love control... but at times especially when GS's are involved, I love the loss of power when she stands over me and drags my face into her pussy.

 

[AnnyMouse28]

I tend to be submissive. It is something I am working on.

 

[rust1c]

Dominant

 

[maverick6608]

I’m a daddy dom.

 

[Slut2Abuse]

Submissive

 

[Nadiascuck]

submissive...

 

[Migo_201]

I've recently discovered a thing for submissive women.

I had no idea I was into it and always skipped the bdsm/sub stuff (sorry if those two things don't actually go together - this is all new to me)

But, since joining LIT a couple of weeks ago, I find a new fantasy awakening - sub women who like to be used.

It's just so damn sexy.

 

[surfer1557]

Submissive

 

[BlueCollarGirl]

I'm a submissive. My first Dom once told me a kitten could top me, and he's not wrong lol

 

[BluegrassBelle]

Although I tend to be dominant in most aspects of my life, sexual and otherwise, I have recently discovered that under the hands of the right person submission is not only pleasurable, but incredibly freeing. It's not something I honestly thought would ever be my "cup of tea" and outside of my relationship with this one man I can honestly say it's never been something I have sought out or particularly enjoyed. With him for some reason it has been a natural evolution of our relationship. It feels comfortable. Right. Safe.
That's probably not a great answer to the original question, but I'm not completely one or the other so it's at least honest.

 

[AlwaysSoaked]

Claimed.

 

[MaBelle3120]

For the right Daddy Dom, I slip into a natural role as submissive and I love it.
In my every day life, I have to be more dominant and with vanilla partners I tend to take on the dominant role as a form of responsibility (and because i'm good at it) but I don't actually enjoy having the dominant role in my personal relationships. Definitely prefer to be a submissive to my partners

 

[Floridafun4everyone]

Could go either way

 

[DVS]

I really don't know, for sure. I guess I need somebody to help me find out. Somebody to help me with experimentation, to find out what I really like and don't like.

 

[ericalauren]

Neither. But I do have more fantasies where I am submissive.

 

[ChiefH]

Submissive married 50 years to a dominant lady! She controls everything is our lives!

 

[Jerseyshore]

Don't think it's weird at all, people have different dynamics with different people. Things aren't always black and white either. I appreciate your perspective

Agreed. I am in a gay marriage and my husband is the top. I am always excited to give myself to him, and after an 11-year relationship we understand this role very well and enjoy it. However, I have topped with younger and less-experienced lovers when we entertain a third. It is particularly exciting to bring someone out *weg*

 

[Just2Kinky]

I am more submissive... most of the time.
On a rare day, I can switch but the problem is that I suck at being dominant.
Rather be told what to do by partners of any gender.

 

[MuscleDaddy]

I am definitely dominant. One of the things I’ve never been able to work out to my own satisfaction is how much of that is my inherent personality and how much os a response to events in my childhood…. Anytime my sex life it has involved having someone else in control leads to panic attacks.