Are you dominant or submissive

[Master_Doctor]

experienced Dominant/ Master for more than two decades. I also specialize in counseling people with relationship issues within the lifestyle. I use my life experience along with my PhD and psych minor to help them deal from a fairly unique mindset. I am seeking a submissive/ slave currently. Feel free to contact me for honest advice.

Most of my posts here are to educate people in the differences between Reality BDSM and fantasy. Its always better knowing the facts

 

[Winterscumming]

Both. I am generally a “natural” submissive, with a Dominant streak depending on the interaction. I used to refer to it as someone “pulling” or “calling” my Dom side. About 6-8 months ago a friend “flipped” that switch and I haven’t felt a submissive craving or the need to submit since then.

 

[Starcross1992]

So very submissive.

 

[JD__Sexquire]

dominant. especially when a husband or boyfriend is watching or going to hear about it later.

my biggest exception is i love to be tied down and have a woman do as she pleases to my cock. edging, ball teasing, wax...

 

[CuriousDomme008]

Submissive with husband. But I have started having fun with an online sub.

 

[Bigboobbabe]

I have worked in management since 2003 and now own my own consulting firm. IRL I have to be dominant or I get walked on.

I have recently adopted the role of slave/sub to a Master. It is such a turn on to be bound, blindfolded, punished, etc. I love the sub role.

 

[JD__Sexquire]

I have worked in management since 2003 and now own my own consulting firm. IRL I have to be dominant or I get walked on.

I have recently adopted the role of slave/sub to a Master. It is such a turn on to be bound, blindfolded, punished, etc. I love the sub role.

ive read that that is really common. I on the other hand have a lot of power at work and enjoy having power in the bedroom as well

 

[Stella1111]

Oh, I'm definitely a sub. In fact, I've been looking to enter into a Domestic Discipline relationship for a while, but I have no idea as to how to go about it. Would love some help if anyone would be willing to do so.

 

[Goldenfinger]

First part dominant now submissive

 

[Marty Fisher]

I can be either and enjoy both but I prefer to be a total bottom these days....

 

[Ramjet6767]

Im definately a submissive... but hard to control..

 

[Wollawsi]

Definitely submissive

 

[Marty Fisher]

Dominant in the work force and around the house but a total submissive sissy deep inside!!!!!!

 

[dixonjay999]

Hubby is usually submissive. Wifey is dominant with hubby but usually submissive with others in front of hubby

 

[JonBHappy]

By inclination and personality, dominant, though I am finding some shifting ground on that; it's not that easy online to express and enjoy Ds dynamic, or is that just me?

 

[fma20fma]

hi

i prefer submissive more exciting with a rough, demanding,kinky guy on weekend meets while tipsy and crazy.

 

[Blase]

Dominant when it comes to D/s relationships or play, but my style is very sensual and psychological.

I'm not the guy who's going to dress in black leather and cover your bottom with welts - but you may be surprised just how far into your head and your heart I can get...

 

[woman_early20s]

By inclination and personality, dominant, though I am finding some shifting ground on that; it's not that easy online to express and enjoy Ds dynamic, or is that just me?

I totally agree with your take on the online D/S relationships. Serving in real life is fulfilling, that satisfaction of submitting myself to someone in person is unmatched.
This is probably the reason even with efforts it doesn't work out for me.

 

[Kcallen]

I'd say submissive....

Yes! Definitely submissive. There’s something so erotic and intimate about it

 

[Joshua65]

It all depends. While not a true Dominant, I'm more of a service top to my GF. Though increasingly I can see myself submitting the right man.

 

[SilentQuestions]

Submissive, always. I couldn't switch if I tried (and yes, I did try.)

 

[eroticspank]

It all depends. While not a true Dominant, I'm more of a service top to my GF. Though increasingly I can see myself submitting the right man.

It seems to me that for a lot of people it really depends on the environment and who you are with. I look back on my past and see there were times I was submissive and times I was dominant. That was before I knew of the dominant/sub-labels we use today and that kind of play.

I see it similar to slow dancing. Someone has to lead or it is not very good or fun. When I started out, I had to learn how to do all the moves, keep us in sync and make it fun. Some women did not want to wait until I learned all the moves, so they would take over and show me what to do. I did not mind that and in many cases we still had fun. However, some men would never allow that. It is a complete turn-off.

The same can be said regarding the bedroom. If I am with the right woman, her personality and style will have me take a back seat and let her lead. It is not negative or positive, it is just a natural thing.

ES

 

[Psychprofgal]

Still, still even tonight I just cannot initiate at all! I do it wrong I think and the. I freeze!! So, I am going to stay and live being totally submissive within reason.

 

[Just2Kinky]

I tend to be more on the submissive side.

Submissive in the bedroom.

 

[dirty_kinky_slut]

Definitely submissive