Are you dominant or submissive

[bbwbabygrl]

SUBMISSIVE definitely

 

[TheleHun]

For a longtime I was certain that I was Dom only. But over the last few years I have gone through phases of submissiveness. I would feel most comfortable with Switch. Different play partners bring out different reactions!

 

[xenos2020]

I mostly prefer submissive but irl have usually met submissive women. So a switch I guess.

 

[MagentaMonster]

Total Submissive. I’ve tried being dominate and I don’t like it. I like someone else being in control.

 

[wallstreetguy]

Dom

Total, 100 percent, unabashedly Dom. For better or worse.

 

[Huff76]

I am just learning about the dynamics. Never even heard of D/s until I came here, what , 6 weeks ago now.
I seem to be submissive, and it's fun finding out, but also confusing. I suppose partly because of my total lack of experience and the fact that it's all online. Plus I have a habit of overthinking everything!

 

[Psychprofgal]

I am just learning about the dynamics. Never even heard of D/s until I came here, what , 6 weeks ago now.
I seem to be submissive, and it's fun finding out, but also confusing. I suppose partly because of my total lack of experience and the fact that it's all online. Plus I have a habit of overthinking everything!

Your response is so 'open', and well, submissive!! Love your answer! It probably applies to many here....that are newer anyway. xoxox

 

[Huff76]

Your response is so 'open', and well, submissive!! Love your answer! It probably applies to many here....that are newer anyway. xoxox

Really? I thought it was quite brief and closed down! I have a terrible habit of oversharing, have to keep reminding myself this is the internet and I shouldn't do that with strangers!

But thank you. I'm hoping to learn more as I go on

 

[DeepGreenEyes]

...have to keep reminding myself this is the internet and I shouldn't do that with strangers!

Wait. Wait.

I’ve been assured on multiple occasions that Lit is a closed intranet, with members needing a 2/3 vote of existing members to join and read forum posts. Has that changed?

 

[Huff76]

..............

 

[Huff76]

DGE is fulla baloney, and kidding. The thing is, we get so excited to be in a place where we can be comfortable and ourselves, that we (read: me) forget that it is a public message board, and can be read by anyone. Which I found out when someone here called my boss and told her they saw my boobies. The folks that are worth knowing will reveal themselves. I’ve met quite a few Litsters in the flesh, including my guy, here, but there is no rush.
Also, just because you’re “a” submissive doesn’t mean you have to submit to everyone.

Oh my god, I did it again! Of course he was kidding. *slaps forehead* I really need to stop being so bloody gullible, as well as oversharing! See, this is exactly what I mean when I said I missed out on the adulting gene. Le sigh
Thank you Faralicious

 

[ran987987]

Dominate with the right partner.

Because all Doms know is is the sub who has the true power

 

[CelestialCrystal_Goddess]

I'm submissive, without a doubt.

 

[Lady2020]

50/50.

 

[Odins]

I am going to say Dom.

Even though I am in a vanilla relationship with no signs of BDSM being involved, I do find myself drawn to it through porn or Literotica, or even during conversations.

I have spoken to both Doms and subs about it, seems I would be Dominant in the Lifestyle.

 

[zali]

Undeniably, unequivocally, singularly submissive.

 

[Curious51228]

...getting there

I joined Lit after reading stories for many many years. Intention was to find a way to explore some things I was curious about. As I’ve spent more time on the chat boards some of the best chats have been with submissive women. I wouldn’t have said that was something I set out to explore, but it’s been really fun and interesting. To answer the question on this thread, I am dominant. I’ve enjoyed meeting people (primarily women) on the “Humiliation and Degradation” thread in particular. I love detailed RP with witty dialogue, interesting and realistic scenes, and mutually satisfying action! I enjoy teasing, public humiliation, mild BDSM, training, discipline, and whatever else the other person is interested (minus the usual list of off-limits things). The biggest thrill for me, though, is knowing that the other person is really getting off on the treatment. I want it to really work for them, which can sometimes be a little tricky...asking a submissive person if they like something when you’re supposed to be dom is a little contradictory isn’t it?

I’d love to find a woman that was interested in an ongoing online connection to explore this interest. Chat can be very hit and miss, so thinking someone interested in more ongoing vs short and intense. If anyone is interested, PM me and we can see where it goes.

 

[kayumi712]

I've identified with being submissive from a young age, mostly sexually. In my day to day I like to be more in charge, but it really just depends on the dynamic. As far as sex its 110% submissive for me, love someone who can take charge and be confident in the bedroom (or not bedroom )

 

[Toohorny4u]

No switches?

I’m actually a switch. I prefer an aggressive male partner but he has to be comfortable with the fact that I like to tease and edge, too. A true dom isn’t as always open to that so it’s hit or miss at times.

 

[Violetvixen1]

top leaning switch here. Mostly dominant, but for the very very few I can be submissive.

 

[EroticRomanticMan]

Dominant!

 

[Trinique_Fire]

Submissive, but more like a fucking brat.

 

[JD__Sexquire]

I’m actually a switch. I prefer an aggressive male partner but he has to be comfortable with the fact that I like to tease and edge, too. A true dom isn’t as always open to that so it’s hit or miss at times.

ive said in a prior post but you are spot on to my preference. i love being dom but holy shit does being tied down, teased , and edged et me hard.

 

[Floridafun4everyone]

I could go either way depending on the person

 

[Solitaire17]

Once upon a time, I was pretty securely in the submissive realm. Over the past few months, however, I've begun to realize the joys of being dominant, especially with the right partner and certain relationship dynamics.