Well, it's nothing really, but a certain part of my anatomy gets really hard whenever you are around. I kinda thought it was natural, but it is so pronounced.Admit it (please!) - you both have a problem you need my help with, right?
Well, I now am having filthy thoughts about well fitting blue jeans and powser blue cone fuxk me heels
I just bet that falling deeply into your plan would be earth shaking and eruption causing !!
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First lesson, one should never speak with their mouth full. Wait until you have swallowed a mouthful.Dear Hard To Say,
Well, speaking from experience I know how hard it is to pronounce ANYTHING properly when my mouth is full. Of course, I try, but usually my words come out all mumbly and I find it easier to just try to communicate with my eyes (even if there are tears in them because my mouth is so full
But, if you are offering to help me with my pronunciation, I always love a good lesson in diction.
Dr. "Pardon Me For Mumbling" Liz
Indubitably so.
Jack it suck it lick it, and …Have him cum on you and send me the pictures.
Sound advice. Thanks DocDear At A Category Crossroads,
That is a huge problem. (pun intended lol)
But I bet you already know my answer Dee.
Life is short. HUUUUUGE cocks were put here on God's green Earth for women like you and me to enjoy. So, I say, risk the fall and ride that thing to your heart's content - or, better yet, until you fall off drooling and unable to move
Your husband will understand. IF he doesn't, you can have fun making up with him. Maybe do something, or let him do something, that he's been begging to do for awhile (hint, hint).
Plus, just imagine how productive you'll feel after you cross this guy off your To Do List!
Dr. "Life Is Short, Ride The Horse" Liz
Dear Go Pro Or Not,
Well, I wouldn't call myself an expert on the "pro scene" in Las Vegas but I do have some personal, as well as professional, experience with it and I can say with no small degree of confidence that you CAN find what you are looking for if you're willing to pay for it.
However, I would suggest you try to find a woman, preferably a sexually frustrated married woman, out in the RW who wants to be "genuinely submissive" with you.
If the stats you shared with me in your DM are actually true, trust me, at 6'8", most women who smile at you are smiling at you because they are wondering what it would be like to be owned by you.
And by owned I mean used.
And by used I mean used hard.
Your natural tendency to be careful and considerate is sweet and no doubt due, at least in part, to some of your past sexual relationships with women that found your size to be a bit on the challenging side. Again, trust me, having a 6'8", 250lb. guy on top of you takes your breath away even if he isn't swinging a horse dick. And if he is swinging a horse dick, whoa, slow and gentle is the best way to get to know you before we get to the hot and heavy and especially the hot and heavy and kinky.
Many women do not crave to be used and degraded.
But then again, many, MANY of us do. Especially those of us with fucked up pasts or body issues like me.
It may seem counter-intuitive to you, but surrendering and allowing ourselves to be stripped, overpowered, tossed around or tied up on a bed and called every dirty name in the book actually feeds our need to feel protected and safe. By being strong with us, you feed our need to feel safe and secure. It's fucked up. I know. But for a lot of us, not all though, it is a very real thing and one of our deepest darkest fantasies that we are curious about exploring just as much as you are.
So,
#1 - I would advise you not to judge yourself too harshly for your kinky desires and definitely do NOT talk yourself out of pursuing it.
#2 - be optimistic and try to be open to any signals that WILL and I'm sure already DO come your way from women who see you as an opportunity for something different.
And #3 - be honest with your lucky "victim", discuss boundaries, establish ground rules and most importantly of all: AGREE ON A SAFEWORD.
Be sure to check back in and ask about any signals you may have gotten, or share your conquests with me. I'd love to hear about them and I'm sure others would too. (and there's nothing wrong with that!)
Happy Submissive Hunting,
Dr. "My Safe Word Is Politics" Liz
Thank you so much, Liz. As always your perspective is incredibly on point. I have enjoyed our exchange but this is above and beyond and very helpful. Your response is in itself incredibly erotic (especially the way you describe the dynamic) but also quite particularly personal to me and very thoughtful. I want to be clear that I do not feel guilty for my desires. I would never do anything by force and a woman can certainly willingly choose to enter into a submissive dynamic. My hesitancy is based on the fact that it is out of character for me so it will push my boundaries. And I do fear hurting her, so safe words and signals are absolute, as is the aftercare. It remains to be seen whether the optimism you express will in fact come to pass. I am certainly open and hopeful.Dear Go Pro Or Not,
Well, I wouldn't call myself an expert on the "pro scene" in Las Vegas but I do have some personal, as well as professional, experience with it and I can say with no small degree of confidence that you CAN find what you are looking for if you're willing to pay for it.
However, I would suggest you try to find a woman, preferably a sexually frustrated married woman, out in the RW who wants to be "genuinely submissive" with you.
If the stats you shared with me in your DM are actually true, trust me, at 6'8", most women who smile at you are smiling at you because they are wondering what it would be like to be owned by you.
And by owned I mean used.
And by used I mean used hard.
Your natural tendency to be careful and considerate is sweet and no doubt due, at least in part, to some of your past sexual relationships with women that found your size to be a bit on the challenging side. Again, trust me, having a 6'8", 250lb. guy on top of you takes your breath away even if he isn't swinging a horse dick. And if he is swinging a horse dick, whoa, slow and gentle is the best way to get to know you before we get to the hot and heavy and especially the hot and heavy and kinky.
Many women do not crave to be used and degraded.
But then again, many, MANY of us do. Especially those of us with fucked up pasts or body issues like me.
It may seem counter-intuitive to you, but surrendering and allowing ourselves to be stripped, overpowered, tossed around or tied up on a bed and called every dirty name in the book actually feeds our need to feel protected and safe. By being strong with us, you feed our need to feel safe and secure. It's fucked up. I know. But for a lot of us, not all though, it is a very real thing and one of our deepest darkest fantasies that we are curious about exploring just as much as you are.
So,
#1 - I would advise you not to judge yourself too harshly for your kinky desires and definitely do NOT talk yourself out of pursuing it.
#2 - be optimistic and try to be open to any signals that WILL and I'm sure already DO come your way from women who see you as an opportunity for something different.
And #3 - be honest with your lucky "victim", discuss boundaries, establish ground rules and most importantly of all: AGREE ON A SAFEWORD.
Be sure to check back in and ask about any signals you may have gotten, or share your conquests with me. I'd love to hear about them and I'm sure others would too. (and there's nothing wrong with that!)
Happy Submissive Hunting,
Dr. "My Safe Word Is Politics" Liz
Dr. Liz,Admit it (please!) - you both have a problem you need my help with, right?
Dr. Liz
We're in a conundrum. We need to get out to LA area to see her daughters, it's been too long. We also REALLY want to see lifestyle friends while there. We have a limited timeframe and can't extend our time this trip.
This lifestyle couple that we met on a previous trip came here over the summer, and we had an amazing time together. We have developed a friendship with them and enjoy spending time together in many ways
We can't just tell her daughters, we're headed to see our fuck buddies as they don't know we're in the lifestyle, and they keep offering to pick us up and take us to the airport, which is gracious, but puts snarls in this. How would you navigate this if you we're in our shoes?
Thanks in advance for any advice you may be able to provide.
Dr Liz,
That would work except she already told them our actual dates....sooooDear Nice But Naughty,
Easy.
Tell your daughters when you are flying in to see them so they can meet you at the airport and pick you up for the start of a wonderful family reunion.
And lie to them about when you are leaving so that they can take you to the airport one or two days BEFORE your actual return flight so that you can hop in an Uber after you say your tearful goodbyes and they drive away so you and wifey can go meet your lifestyle friends somewhere fab.
Dr "I Should Run A Naughty Travel Agent Side Gig" Liz
That would work except she already told them our actual dates....soooo
Dear Go Pro Or Not,
Wow Doc such hot response stroking away.
I’d like you and Dee kissing as you both get fucked my a line of Cock.
Well, I wouldn't call myself an expert on the "pro scene" in Las Vegas but I do have some personal, as well as professional, experience with it and I can say with no small degree of confidence that you CAN find what you are looking for if you're willing to pay for it.
However, I would suggest you try to find a woman, preferably a sexually frustrated married woman, out in the RW who wants to be "genuinely submissive" with you.
If the stats you shared with me in your DM are actually true, trust me, at 6'8", most women who smile at you are smiling at you because they are wondering what it would be like to be owned by you.
And by owned I mean used.
And by used I mean used hard.
Your natural tendency to be careful and considerate is sweet and no doubt due, at least in part, to some of your past sexual relationships with women that found your size to be a bit on the challenging side. Again, trust me, having a 6'8", 250lb. guy on top of you takes your breath away even if he isn't swinging a horse dick. And if he is swinging a horse dick, whoa, slow and gentle is the best way to get to know you before we get to the hot and heavy and especially the hot and heavy and kinky.
Many women do not crave to be used and degraded.
But then again, many, MANY of us do. Especially those of us with fucked up pasts or body issues like me.
It may seem counter-intuitive to you, but surrendering and allowing ourselves to be stripped, overpowered, tossed around or tied up on a bed and called every dirty name in the book actually feeds our need to feel protected and safe. By being strong with us, you feed our need to feel safe and secure. It's fucked up. I know. But for a lot of us, not all though, it is a very real thing and one of our deepest darkest fantasies that we are curious about exploring just as much as you are.
So,
#1 - I would advise you not to judge yourself too harshly for your kinky desires and definitely do NOT talk yourself out of pursuing it.
#2 - be optimistic and try to be open to any signals that WILL and I'm sure already DO come your way from women who see you as an opportunity for something different.
And #3 - be honest with your lucky "victim", discuss boundaries, establish ground rules and most importantly of all: AGREE ON A SAFEWORD.
Be sure to check back in and ask about any signals you may have gotten, or share your conquests with me. I'd love to hear about them and I'm sure others would too. (and there's nothing wrong with that!)
Happy Submissive Hunting,
Dr. "My Safe Word Is Politics" Liz
Tonight is my chance! Big Cock is coming over with a few of our friends. The spa is ready, and so am I........Dear At A Category Crossroads,
That is a huge problem. (pun intended lol)
But I bet you already know my answer Dee.
Life is short. HUUUUUGE cocks were put here on God's green Earth for women like you and me to enjoy. So, I say, risk the fall and ride that thing to your heart's content - or, better yet, until you fall off drooling and unable to move
Your husband will understand. IF he doesn't, you can have fun making up with him. Maybe do something, or let him do something, that he's been begging to do for awhile (hint, hint).
Plus, just imagine how productive you'll feel after you cross this guy off your To Do List!
Dr. "Life Is Short, Ride The Horse" Liz
