Ask Doctor Liz ... Again

[Purple_Fronds]

Dear Purple,

I agree completely. He doesn't just have to go on my advice. There are multiple accounts on this and other threads of other women also saying the same thing.

I know from private DM's with him that he doesn't believe there are women in the RW who would be receptive to his firm hand. That's why he thinks he has to turn to a pro. However, I feel that his best chance of pursuing his dominance desire is with a woman in the RW, maybe even a woman he already knows, bc, yes, many of us do LOVE and do crave to be submissive with the right partner.

Especially if our current partner does not or cannot scratch that particular itch for us.

As you pointed out, for many of us (not all though) our desire to be submissive often does come from a place of strength and self-confidence. There's also the feeling of safety with someone who is strong and firm with us. Being able to surrender our control of a situation is indeed very freeing and it is a huge, HUGE turn-on for us too. Again, for many of us, but not all.

I hope he lets go of his hesitancy about pursuing his desires too.


Thank you for adding your two cents Purple Friend.

You now have a credit here that you may spend or cash in any way that you like!



Dr. "My Purple Friend Is Made of Jelly" Liz

Oh thank you lovely Dr. Liz, this made my evening and a credit to boot. God! Have I ever mentioned how much I love Vegas and so close too

 

[DirtyHarry_SlutMaker]

Tonight is my chance! Big Cock is coming over with a few of our friends. The spa is ready, and so am I........

I’m hard Dee.
I’ll be making a video later.

 

[marriedpervs]

I’m hard Dee.
I’ll be making a video later.

Ill have my hands, and hopefully some others parts, full of big cock.

 

[Chernosoth]

What routes do you take to and from Vegas? Do you have highway preferences, or just the road to the airport?

 

[LizVegas79]

Dr Liz,

Here’s an easy one. I know I have an addictive personality. Not that I’m addictive to be around, but that I can easily become addicted to stimulus. Lit has been my addiction for a long time now, to the point where if I’m having a bad day I take refuge here. I know I need to back away, and I have (for as long as two weeks) but I always find myself right back here.

Your thoughts?

Dear Lit Addicted,

Join the club. I'm 99% sure that 90% of the men and women that log onto Lit use Lit as an escape from their ordinary day to day lives. Which, imho, is generally perfectly fine.

We all have crappy days. It's therapeutic to have a place to go to forget all the noise and chaos in our life and focus on something else. Even if that something else is exploring our sexual past, our sexual desires, our fantasies, or connecting with other people who share our likes and preferences (our Lit friends).

When spending time on Lit starts cutting into your engagement with the RW though, well, then that's a problem.

It's one thing to escape from a crappy day, or from feeling down or feeling lonely.

But it's a whole other thing to use Lit to avoid reality. Then that becomes a problem. Because then our relationships tend to suffer, we might start missing work, we might eat a pint of ice cream for dinner as we bounce from thread to thread to thread. You get the idea. When our RW relationships/family life start becoming an annoying distraction from Lit, then it is absolutely time to QUIT LIT for a minute and rediscover, refocus on what is truly real and truly important in our life.

By backing away periodically, you seem to have that already figured out. So good for you!


Dr. "I Look Forward To Seeing You Back Here When You Feel Ready To Return" Liz

 

[LizVegas79]

Doc
Do secrets really stay in Vegas?
Wondering if Vegas could help with sex bucket list
Bucky

Dear Curious Bucky,

Most of the time. But not always.

It's really up to you.

If you come here and have a good time, whether that's crossing something naughty off your sexual bucket list, or riding a hot winning streak, it all depends on who you tell when you get back home.

Secrets are like fireworks. You can keep them tucked away in some drawer somewhere safe and sound until you want to play with them. But once you light the fuse (by telling someone else your secret) it's very likely that your fireworks are going to go off and other people are going to see and hear about them.

So, my advice is, come here, cross that naughty thing off your sexual bucket list, go home and DON'T TELL ANYONE about it. A word of warning though: it's a lot harder than it sounds!


- Dr. "Juicy Secrets Are The Hardest To Keep" Liz

 

[LizVegas79]

What routes do you take to and from Vegas? Do you have highway preferences, or just the road to the airport?

Are you asking me or someone else?

I'm probably not the best person to ask the best way to get here since I already live here.

 

[LizVegas79]

Tonight is my chance! Big Cock is coming over with a few of our friends. The spa is ready, and so am I........

DEETS PLEASE!!!

(either here or on my Swingers thread )

 

[marriedpervs]

Well..........the details are relevant here because due to the girth of said cock, I had this strange throbbing pain the next day. As the day progressed it changed from a throb, to a more of an itch, and by dinner time it was an aching yearning to have more of the monster inside me! Help me Doctor Liz, what shall I do to ease this pain?

 

[DirtyHarry_SlutMaker]

Well..........the details are relevant here because due to the girth of said cock, I had this strange throbbing pain the next day. As the day progressed it changed from a throb, to a more of an itch, and by dinner time it was an aching yearning to have more of the monster inside me! Help me Doctor Liz, what shall I do to ease this pain?

Have him up your pussy and me in your Ass!
So obvious really!

 

[LizVegas79]

Well..........the details are relevant here because due to the girth of said cock, I had this strange throbbing pain the next day. As the day progressed it changed from a throb, to a more of an itch, and by dinner time it was an aching yearning to have more of the monster inside me! Help me Doctor Liz, what shall I do to ease this pain?

Dear Aching and Yearning

Well, as a mutual lover of the next day throb and ache, as I see it you have two options.

#1 - talk with hubby and tell him you need Big Cock to come back and visit you again ASAP

and/or #2 - go shopping!

(this big boy comes in different colors too for added naughtiness too! )


Let me know what you decide.

And if you go with Option #2 feel free to log in here and tell us about your ride WHILE you're riding it!


- Dr. "A Big Cock Scratches All Itches" Liz

 

[LizVegas79]

Well..........the details are relevant here because due to the girth of said cock, I had this strange throbbing pain the next day. As the day progressed it changed from a throb, to a more of an itch, and by dinner time it was an aching yearning to have more of the monster inside me! Help me Doctor Liz, what shall I do to ease this pain?

P.S. - are you okay Dee? I heard there was a really big superstorm due to hit Australia.

Hope you and your family and friends are safe!

 

[marriedpervs]

Dear Aching and Yearning

Well, as a mutual lover of the next day throb and ache, as I see it you have two options.

#1 - talk with hubby and tell him you need Big Cock to come back and visit you again ASAP

and/or #2 - go shopping!

(this big boy comes in different colors too for added naughtiness too! )


Let me know what you decide.

And if you go with Option #2 feel free to log in here and tell us about your ride WHILE you're riding it!


- Dr. "A Big Cock Scratches All Itches" Liz

Well, Doctor Liz. Let me put it this way. I am an expert shopper but a brilliant fuck so Big John is coming over again tonight. Steve has offered to ease any pain afterwards.

P.S. - are you okay Dee? I heard there was a really big superstorm due to hit Australia.

Hope you and your family and friends are safe!

Yes, but very, very wet......

 

[LizVegas79]

Well, Doctor Liz. Let me put it this way. I am an expert shopper but a brilliant fuck so Big John is coming over again tonight. Steve has offered to ease any pain afterwards.

Yes, but very, very wet......

Love it! Lucky you. (I'm jealous AF btw!)

Oh really? You Dee are very, very wet? What a surprise!

 

[marriedpervs]

Love it! Lucky you. (I'm jealous AF btw!)

Oh really? You Dee are very, very wet? What a surprise!

Dar Doctor, Liz - you asked about the weather event!

 

[LizVegas79]

Dar Doctor, Liz - you asked about the weather event!

Oh true. Ooops! I thought you were sharing some personal info with us. Not giving us an update on the weather lol.

My bad!

 

[LizVegas79]

Mmmm, I just love slow days at the office when I can just relax in the pool and let me mind wander off everywhere and no where all at once.

 

[LizVegas79]

Got asked a question by a patient this morning.

I told her dump his ass.

But what do all of you think?

"Doctor Liz, my boyfriend says he won't take me on a nice vacation in the
Caribbean because he thinks my tat is trashy. Should I dump him and find
some another guy who will take me? Or do you think it's trashy too?"

 

[LizVegas79]

So much can be said about this situation. While I never judge people's individual relationships, I do believe those people are with their partners for a reason. If her boyfriend think's her tattoo is trashy, does he also believe her to be? If he thinks her tattoo is too trashy to be out on display, does he worry more about what other people believe versus how he makes her feel as his girlfriend?

In any case, I will hold judgement, but the relationship needs some looking into.

I agree completely. It's not really about the tattoo imho.

 

[LizVegas79]

The tattoo is but a fraction of the whole. You've heard the saying "the kind of girl you take home to mom," right? If this boyfriend was truly in a romantic relationship with this client of yours, the tattoo would be but a fraction of her story... a story he supposedly cares about.

I can't imagine him introducing her to his parents if he won't even take her to the beach!

BIG RED FLAG!!!!

 

[smtst5]

Got asked a question by a patient this morning.

I told her dump his ass.

But what do all of you think?

"Doctor Liz, my boyfriend says he won't take me on a nice vacation in the
Caribbean because he thinks my tat is trashy. Should I dump him and find
some another guy who will take me? Or do you think it's trashy too?"

I may need additional details about this garage. How many can park in the garage at the same time? Is there room for a motorboat?

 

[subdudeme13]

Got asked a question by a patient this morning.

I told her dump his ass.

But what do all of you think?

"Doctor Liz, my boyfriend says he won't take me on a nice vacation in the
Caribbean because he thinks my tat is trashy. Should I dump him and find
some another guy who will take me? Or do you think it's trashy too?"

I agree and would add she needs to find a guy like me. I would lover her deeply. My desire would be that when someone left a load in that beautiful Boner Garage she straddle my face and let it drip into my open waiting mouth or I could just lick it out of her. My desire is to be a slut's slut. Is that a bad thing?

 

[BlackSatinKnight]

Got asked a question by a patient this morning.

I told her dump his ass.

But what do all of you think?

"Doctor Liz, my boyfriend says he won't take me on a nice vacation in the
Caribbean because he thinks my tat is trashy. Should I dump him and find
some another guy who will take me? Or do you think it's trashy too?"

Dump him.

 

[LizVegas79]

I may need additional details about this garage. How many can park in the garage at the same time? Is there room for a motorboat?

Dear Follow-upper,

I'm not sure about her but from personal experience parking for more than one is not recommended.

And from little I know about motorboating, I don't understand the question lol

- Dr. "Surveys Are Fun" Liz

I agree and would add she needs to find a guy like me. I would lover her deeply. My desire would be that when someone left a load in that beautiful Boner Garage she straddle my face and let it drip into my open waiting mouth or I could just lick it out of her. My desire is to be a slut's slut. Is that a bad thing?

Dear Subdude,

Being a slut's slut is a high (or rather a low lol) honor.

And no, it is not a bad thing at all if that is what you are into. I'm sure your open mind would be much appreciated by her.

- Dr. "Maybe I Should Add Matchmaking To My List of Offered Services" Liz

 

[subdudeme13]

Dear Follow-upper,

I'm not sure about her but from personal experience parking for moYore than one is not recommended.

And from little I know about motorboating, I don't understand the question lol

- Dr. "Surveys Are Fun" Liz



Dear Subdude,

Being a slut's slut is a high (or rather a low lol) honor.

And no, it is not a bad thing at all if that is what you are into. I'm sure your open mind would be much appreciated by her.

- Dr. "Maybe I Should Add Matchmaking To My List of Offered Services" Liz

Maybe you should. You are obviously an intelligent person with many talents.