Ask Doctor Liz ... Again

[MileHighBlackDiamond]

Okay, well, as some of you know a family member got sick earlier this year. She didn't get better. She passed away. Her illness was sudden and we are all still devastated.



Love, laugh and enjoy,
Lizzie

So sorry for your loss, losing anyone is hard, when sudden the trauma can be deeper.

I've had similar thoughts about those that have gone before us looking down seeing me doing things, but then I think I haven't been struck down by lightning in the middle of an orgy so that theory isn't true, or they are just happy I'm enjoying myself.

 

[Anastasia1999]

Hugs for you dear @LizVegas79

I am sorry for your loss and am thinking of you.

 

[LizVegas79]

Thanks for all the kind words and heartfelt sympathy everyone. It's been really hard but we are all trying to get on with our lives and starting to look towards the future a little more.

So with that thought in mind ....

I'm bored ...

... who has a fucked up pervy problem that they need some smartass advice about?

 

[Eyelevel]

Thanks for all the kind words and heartfelt sympathy everyone. It's been really hard but we are all trying to get on with our lives and starting to look towards the future a little more.

So with that thought in mind ....

I'm bored ...

... who has a fucked up pervy problem that they need some smartass advice about?

Can I make a private appointment?

 

[LizVegas79]

Can I make a private appointment?

Party pooper.

Okay ....

 

[Eyelevel]

Party pooper.

Okay ....

Nevermind.

 

[subdudeme13]

I cannot resist temptation. I am not sure I want a cure but think I should. I confessed all my deep dark secrets to my Domme and then I bought her a knife. What should I do?

 

[JennyCapricorn]

I'm bored ...

... who has a fucked up pervy problem that they need some smartass advice about?

Dear Dr. Liz: after granting hubby a free pass to try picking up a woman in a hotel bar (succeeded, fucked her silly overnight in his room) I now have my reciprocal turn.

What should i wear?
How far should I go?
Should I look for women, men, or couples?

Thanks Dr Liz!

 

[LizVegas79]

I cannot resist temptation. I am not sure I want a cure but think I should. I confessed all my deep dark secrets to my Domme and then I bought her a knife. What should I do?

Dear On Edge,

My advice: don't worry about watching your back, watch your front. To put it in political terms, it's possible you have put your genitals at serious risk of involuntary succession.

And, just to be clear, by succession I mean separation from the mothership. And by mothership I mean you!

I have more advice for you too: try to monitor any sudden changes in her meds. Sudden changes in her meds could lead to sudden changes in the shape of the profile you see in the mirror.

Also, maybe take a beat and get the pulse of her reaction to your deepest, darkest confessions (and ownership of her new knife) by shelving your BDSM fantasies for a minute. Allowing yourself to be tied up anytime soon might lead to some impulsive decision making on her part.

Good Luck!
Dr. "Never Underestimate the Stupidity of a Kinky Guy" Liz

 

[LizVegas79]

Dear Dr. Liz: after granting hubby a free pass to try picking up a woman in a hotel bar (succeeded, fucked her silly overnight in his room) I now have my reciprocal turn.

What should i wear?
How far should I go?
Should I look for women, men, or couples?

Thanks Dr Liz!

Dear Free Pass Fashionista,

Mmmm, I love, love, LOVE your negotiating skills!

This is possibly my most favorit-ist question I've ever gotten. And, let me just say, you have come to the right person.

First, what you decide to wear depends on your target audience. Since you are already married to a man, I would strongly advise that you spread your wings a little and try something new. Obvs, by wings I mean your legs and by "something new" I mean another woman or couple.

Personally I would opt for a couple. A little something new, a little (well, hopefully not little lol) something familiar.

And not just the first swinger couple you meet either.

MOST IMPORTANT QUESTION: Are they both clean looking? Also, go with affluent if you have the option because they tend to be more discreet.

Primarily choose the couple based on your desire/curiosity for the other woman. This is because, most of the time in a FFM couple's situation, the guy is going to express his enjoyment loooooong before you and her do. So, since you will probably be spending the majority of your time 1 on 1 with her as he watches (and hopefully joins back in at some point) make sure you WANT to spend the majority of your Free Pass time with her.

Is her body type similar or different than yours? (I would recommend going with different - different is the spice of life, right?)

Is she shorter, taller, or the same height as you? (your choice, although, trust me, there is a distinct advantage to similar height )

Is the color of her hair similar or different than yours? (again, I would go with different)

Is she younger or older than you? (I would recommend younger if you're in you're 40+, older if you're in your 20's, either/or if you're in your 30's)

Are you ethnically similar or different than you? (again, personally I would recommend going with different)

Ideally the guy should be letting his wife take the lead on interviewing and deciding who they get with. A bossy guy in a couple's situation with a third (you) is no bueno.

Also ideally, the guy needs to be somewhat cute, charming and have a sense of humor. Because when he pops off 10 minutes into your session because he's so excited, you and wifey need to be able to tease him about it and then put on a good show for him so that he comes back to the party 15-20 minutes later.

You absolutely, positively have to go ALL THE WAY - and as many times as you possibly can too! This includes light bondage and toy play too!

Now, lastly, for the most important question, what to wear, what to wear, what to wear?

For this, I will need a little more information about you. Height, body type, busty? not busty? blonde? brunette? redhead? neo-punk? Also, do you generally like to show off your feet or hide your feet? Because shoes, shoes are very, VERY important. They send the signal about how the night is going to go from the second the three of you meet in that fancy penthouse condo with the floor to ceiling glass windows.

In general though, when I'm meeting a couple I know I'm going to have fun with the first time I usually go with some sort a micro mini because I'm tall and I like to show off my legs as much as possible since I've been told they are one of my best features. Black spaghetti straps work great for me because I am not very busty, so I tend to show off as much of my light gold Latina skin as I possibly can because I can't exactly spill out of very many dresses. But that's just me.

Oh, and of course I wear the most fuck-me shoes I can find, 3"+ open-toed, ankle-strap (or higher!) stilettos usually send the signals I want to send.

But the most important thing you absolutely MUST wear is a choker and either an ankle bracelet or a charm bracelet that has the word SLUT dangling from it because, let's be honest, that's what you are LOL

Be sure to report back, either here or confidentially Jenny about your Free Pass experience!


Dr. "I Swing With And Without My Husband" Liz

 

[JennyCapricorn]

.But the most important thing you absolutely MUST wear is a choker and either an ankle bracelet or a charm bracelet that has the word SLUT dangling from it because, let's be honest, that's what you are LOL

TRUE!

Be sure to report back, either here or confidentially Jenny about your Free Pass experience!


Dr. "I Swing With And Without My Husband" Liz

Thanks Dr. Liz!

 

[LizVegas79]

TRUE!

Thanks Dr. Liz!

Also, I forgot to mention, leave your cutest panties neatly folded in their drawer at home. Unless you don't mind being down one pair of cute panties. Because no doubt whoever you hook up with for your free pass, they likely will want to keep a souvenir of their time with you. Especially if it's a couple. (she will probably want to keep your panties so that she can wear them for him in the future whenever she needs to add a little jet fuel to his mojo lol)

 

[Crownvic]

Thanks for all the kind words and heartfelt sympathy everyone. It's been really hard but we are all trying to get on with our lives and starting to look towards the future a little more.

So with that thought in mind ....

I'm bored ...

... who has a fucked up pervy problem that they need some smartass advice about?

I have the problem..and yo have the solution..

 

[LizVegas79]

I have the problem..and yo have the solution..

"Tell Vic I'm on my way but to go ahead and fill out
the paperwork so I can know what we're dealing with."

 

[Crownvic]

"Tell Vic I'm on my way but to go ahead and fill out
the paperwork so I can know what we're dealing with."

The click of those heels...

 

[GuySLut]

"Tell Vic I'm on my way but to go ahead and fill out
the paperwork so I can know what we're dealing with."

Oh fuck me those legs! How am I supposed to have rational thoughts now?

 

[LoveLiving]

"Tell Vic I'm on my way but to go ahead and fill out
the paperwork so I can know what we're dealing with."

Smile for the camera at the bottom of that fence gate.

 

[LizVegas79]

Smile for the camera at the bottom of that fence gate.

I smile for all the hidden cameras.

That's why you'll never see a panty line on any dress I'm ever wearing!

 

[thefishfryer]

I don't have a problem, should I be worried?

 

[BlackSatinKnight]

So glad to see you back

 

[LoveLiving]

I smile for all the hidden cameras.

That's why you'll never see a panty line on any dress I'm ever wearing!

OH! That explains a lot of things. I thought my camera was broken. It has a sensor and shuts down in hot and wet situations.

 

[marriedpervs]

Thanks for all the kind words and heartfelt sympathy everyone. It's been really hard but we are all trying to get on with our lives and starting to look towards the future a little more.

So with that thought in mind ....

I'm bored ...

... who has a fucked up pervy problem that they need some smartass advice about?

Well hello, Dr Liz. So sorry to hear of your loss, but glad you're getting back on the LIT horse, so to speak.
I trust you have your own family around you to help at this challenging time.
Now, following your post in your sexy blue denim heels, here is my problem.

My husband's best friend is a kinky fucker. He also has a HUUUUUGE cock, which he delights in showing me every chance he gets. My question is, what do I do about this situation? Ride the horse and risk the fall, or keep him in the 'haven't yet ridden that thing' category?

 

[LizVegas79]

Well hello, Dr Liz. So sorry to hear of your loss, but glad you're getting back on the LIT horse, so to speak.
I trust you have your own family around you to help at this challenging time.
Now, following your post in your sexy blue denim heels, here is my problem.

My husband's best friend is a kinky fucker. He also has a HUUUUUGE cock, which he delights in showing me every chance he gets. My question is, what do I do about this situation? Ride the horse and risk the fall, or keep him in the 'haven't yet ridden that thing' category?

Dear At A Category Crossroads,

That is a huge problem. (pun intended lol)

But I bet you already know my answer Dee.

Life is short. HUUUUUGE cocks were put here on God's green Earth for women like you and me to enjoy. So, I say, risk the fall and ride that thing to your heart's content - or, better yet, until you fall off drooling and unable to move

Your husband will understand. IF he doesn't, you can have fun making up with him. Maybe do something, or let him do something, that he's been begging to do for awhile (hint, hint).

Plus, just imagine how productive you'll feel after you cross this guy off your To Do List!


Dr. "Life Is Short, Ride The Horse" Liz

 

[LizVegas79]

I don't have a problem, should I be worried?

So glad to see you back

Admit it (please!) - you both have a problem you need my help with, right? (hint,hint)

 

[coffeelover5]

Thanks for all the kind words and heartfelt sympathy everyone. It's been really hard but we are all trying to get on with our lives and starting to look towards the future a little more.

So with that thought in mind ....

I'm bored ...

... who has a fucked up pervy problem that they need some smartass advice about?

Well, I now am having filthy thoughts about well fitting blue jeans and powser blue cone fuxk me heels