investor2020
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Dr. Liz –
I regret having to share this information with you, but I have had to end my relationship with the Amish lady that I have been seeing for some time now. It’s not that my feelings for her have changed, but rather that I simply can not live an Amish life anymore. Many of the Amish followings are admirable . . . their love of family, their commitment to helping others in the community, and non-violence and pacifism.
But it’s the other elements of their life that I just could not adjust to, such as no access to public electricity, no ownership of technology (television, personal phones), and the most difficult one: the dating rules:
So, my dilemma . . . how do I re-enter real life again? I had to give away all my “outside world” clothing when I joined the Amish community, so only have dark pants and buttonless plain shirts, no belts just suspenders, and only work boots.
Is there a “Guide to Re-Entering the Non-Amish World” ? Especially when it comes to meeting and dating unattached women.
Awaiting your always helpful and informative assistance, I am respectfully
Alone Again.
I regret having to share this information with you, but I have had to end my relationship with the Amish lady that I have been seeing for some time now. It’s not that my feelings for her have changed, but rather that I simply can not live an Amish life anymore. Many of the Amish followings are admirable . . . their love of family, their commitment to helping others in the community, and non-violence and pacifism.
But it’s the other elements of their life that I just could not adjust to, such as no access to public electricity, no ownership of technology (television, personal phones), and the most difficult one: the dating rules:
- The Amish don’t date for fun. They always date with marriage in mind.
- To avoid sexual temptation, a strict no-touching rule is administered to unmarried couples.
- And of course, Bundling, or a man and woman lying in bed together, fully clothed, without touching, separated by a wooden board, and talking until the early hours of the morning.
So, my dilemma . . . how do I re-enter real life again? I had to give away all my “outside world” clothing when I joined the Amish community, so only have dark pants and buttonless plain shirts, no belts just suspenders, and only work boots.
Is there a “Guide to Re-Entering the Non-Amish World” ? Especially when it comes to meeting and dating unattached women.
Awaiting your always helpful and informative assistance, I am respectfully
Alone Again.


