Ask Me a Question v 12.26.2021

[Paul_Chance]

Continue to carry around 40lbs I don't need? At least according to my doc....
Or...drive to work....damn fuckin' idjiots....
Or, I suppose, be on Lit....

What physical measurements do you take regularly?

Just the usual - weight, blood pressure, heart rate. I like to watch the movement based on the type and intensity of exercise.

Are you careful about what you eat for health reasons?

 

[BongoGal]

Are you careful about what you eat for health reasons?

I'm not super strict, but for the most part, I eat healthily, at least I don't eat too much of what my docs say to avoid.

Do people consider you a flirt?

 

[Paul_Chance]

I'm not super strict, but for the most part, I eat healthily, at least I don't eat too much of what my docs say to avoid.

Do people consider you a flirt?

Yes, it's one of my traits. I'll flirt almost anywhere with almost anyone.

Do you consider yourself good at flirting?

 

[bobb_sledd]

Yes, it's one of my traits. I'll flirt almost anywhere with almost anyone.

Do you consider yourself good at flirting?

I do.

You’re given a terminal diagnosis. You have a year to live. What’s on your things-to-do list before you go?

 

[munch2much]

I do.

You’re given a terminal diagnosis. You have a year to live. What’s on your things-to-do list before you go?

Well. My car won’t clean itself

I think I’d just continue as I am tbh.

What is one thing that has never changed about you over the years?

 

[awired50]

Well. My car won’t clean itself

I think I’d just continue as I am tbh.

What is one thing that has never changed about you over the years?

My love for music.

Does your SO know your kinks?

 

[bobb_sledd]

My love for music.

Does your SO know your kinks?

Not all of them.

Is your SO turned-off by any of your kinks?

 

[awired50]

Not all of them.

Is your SO turned-off by any of your kinks?

She doesn't like anal.

Do you masturbate thinking of others?

 

[Dashabout]

She doesn't like anal.

Do you masturbate thinking of others?

I have.

Do you fantasize about the opposite or same sex while diddling yourself ?

 

[Paul_Chance]

I have.

Do you fantasize about the opposite or same sex while diddling yourself ?

Mostly opposite sex. Every now and then another guy slips in under the right scenariio.

Would your sexuality surprise your family?

 

[Dashabout]

Mostly opposite sex. Every now and then another guy slips in under the right scenariio.

Would your sexuality surprise your family?

Some shocked, others surprised.

Would friends and coworkers br surprised about your sexual likes?

 

[Paul_Chance]

Some shocked, others surprised.

Would friends and coworkers br surprised about your sexual likes?

No, I'm appropriately open about by sexual likes and dislikes.

What makes you feel the most sensual?

 

[lakesailer_mi]

No, I'm appropriately open about by sexual likes and dislikes.

What makes you feel the most sensual?

Hmmm....glass a wine.
Someone who finds me attractive and lets me know that.

What makes you feel happy?

 

[bobb_sledd]

My Daddy

Would you smoke a juicy blunt with a stoner?

No -- Never have. Never will.

What was the first item you ever penetrated yourself with?

 

[bobb_sledd]

No item just my two fingers.

Ever walked someone or been walked around on a leash?

NO.

Where did you lose your virginity?

 

[awired50]

NO.

Where did you lose your virginity?

A friends twin bed with virgin friends listening through the door.

HYE had sex on the first date?

 

[awired50]

Yes first half of the date I gave him sloppy toppy in an abandoned parking lot, second half was in his bed still together.

Have you ever woken someone up with a blowjob?

I have been woken up with a BJ.

Have you ever made someone orgasm in an awkward place?

 

[lakesailer_mi]

I have been woken up with a BJ.

Have you ever made someone orgasm in an awkward place?

Yup, I once gave someone an orgasm while sitting in the front row of a very small theatre, during the play.

Do you consider yourself an exhibitionist or a voyeur?

 

[awired50]

Yup, I once gave someone an orgasm while sitting in the front row of a very small theatre, during the play.

Do you consider yourself an exhibitionist or a voyeur?

Both.

Would you rather watch or be watched?

 

[lakesailer_mi]

Both.

Would you rather watch or be watched?

Watch for sure.

What book are you currently reading and would you recommend it?

 

[lacandy]

Watch for sure.

What book are you currently reading and would you recommend it?

I’m reading Doing Life With Your Adult Children - it’s about how to parent your “grown” kids. Such a different process and sooo hard for an “extra” mom like me. I’m trying… (would recommend to anyone with adult children - especially newer adults). Has a religious undertone to it - the author is a minister I believe - but it’s not overpowering the message and lessons of the book so it doesn’t bother me.

What is the book you recommend everyone read?

 

[lakesailer_mi]

I’m reading Doing Life With Your Adult Children - it’s about how to parent your “grown” kids. Such a different process and sooo hard for an “extra” mom like me. I’m trying… (would recommend to anyone with adult children - especially newer adults). Has a religious undertone to it - the author is a minister I believe - but it’s not overpowering the message and lessons of the book so it doesn’t bother me.

What is the book you recommend everyone read?

That sounds like a cool book. I have some "grown kids" too. Thanks!

Inside the Third Reich by Albert Speer. It helped me to understand the question "how could that happen." But it's kind of scary, because in all honesty, I could see myself making exactly all the same decisions he did, for all the same reasons. We'd like to think, "Oh, I wouldn't do that" but, it's easy to say that.

 

[Paul_Chance]

I’m reading Doing Life With Your Adult Children - it’s about how to parent your “grown” kids. Such a different process and sooo hard for an “extra” mom like me. I’m trying… (would recommend to anyone with adult children - especially newer adults). Has a religious undertone to it - the author is a minister I believe - but it’s not overpowering the message and lessons of the book so it doesn’t bother me.

What is the book you recommend everyone read?

"Chance in the House of Fate" - about genetics and statistics. Life changing and eye opening, far beyond it's narrow topic.

What are you reading right now?

 

[fire_breeze]

"Chance in the House of Fate" - about genetics and statistics. Life changing and eye opening, far beyond it's narrow topic.

What are you reading right now?

About 5 different books, but right now, I am reading A Thousand Ships by Natalie Haynes

What’s your worst trait that people would be surprised to find out?

 

[bobb_sledd]

Contrary to how I appear on Lit, I'm actually rather shy

Which celeb ( living or dead ) would you most like to have a conversation with?

Robin Williams

Tell us something about yourself that your SO doesn’t know.